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By *ustaman OP Man
over a year ago
weymouth |
On a blind date! Been invited to dinner by some friends that keep trying to set me up, abysmal failure so far but 10/10 for effort.
So based on previous experience should I go or just stay in and watch Netflix  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know. "
Oh wait have I read it wrong?  |
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"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know.
Oh wait have I read it wrong? "
I think the friends would be there too. I'd also be worried that the date would almost be entertainment for the friends though 
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By *ustaman OP Man
over a year ago
weymouth |
"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know.
Oh wait have I read it wrong?
I think the friends would be there too. I'd also be worried that the date would almost be entertainment for the friends though
LvM"
Yup my impression too  |
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"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know.
Oh wait have I read it wrong?
I think the friends would be there too. I'd also be worried that the date would almost be entertainment for the friends though
LvM
Yup my impression too "
hey it could be a great experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You all just want to live vicariously through my torment don't you  "
You may as well just invite us all too so we can watch
You should go for it though! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"You all just want to live vicariously through my torment don't you
You may as well just invite us all too so we can watch
You should go for it though! "
Urgh fuck that, that means I have to be socialise. I'll live it through everyone else. |
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By *ustaman OP Man
over a year ago
weymouth |
"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know.
Oh wait have I read it wrong?
I think the friends would be there too. I'd also be worried that the date would almost be entertainment for the friends though
LvM
Yup my impression too hey it could be a great experience "
Historically over the last couple of years of these 'set ups' (5 so far) all have been excruciating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, here we are, stuck in a classic first-world pickle. While we're out here waging war for that one precious date, there's someone in the shadows, pondering the existential dilemma of whether to skip a date altogether. In a perfectly just world, they'd be tried for Date-treason 
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By *ustaman OP Man
over a year ago
weymouth |
"Well, here we are, stuck in a classic first-world pickle. While we're out here waging war for that one precious date, there's someone in the shadows, pondering the existential dilemma of whether to skip a date altogether. In a perfectly just world, they'd be tried for Date-treason
Best of luck mate. "
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
"On a blind date! Been invited to dinner by some friends that keep trying to set me up, abysmal failure so far but 10/10 for effort.
So based on previous experience should I go or just stay in and watch Netflix "
Abysmal failure so far? How many times have they done this before? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You all just want to live vicariously through my torment don't you "
Can you live stream it 
Seriously though I'd say just go for it and see what happens!! |
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I went on a blind date last year, we dated for a few months but agreed it wasn’t going anywhere. Distance to travel and busy work / home life but she was a lovely girl and wouldn’t struggle to get dates.
So you could get lucky and find she’s quite special.  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Go. I went for lunch 4 months ago with a guy I’d barely chatted with although I had met him in person. 4 months later we’re still dating and making plans for a few months ahead.
You just never know when it’s going to work out. There was no ‘instant click’ but it’s uncanny how compatible we are even with an age gap. |
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Personally I see it like its like a free lotto ticket.
It might get you nothing or it might get you a wonderful experience.
Often with these things it's what you can make out of it yourself.
I am biased tho. I have 3 kids. Any excuse for a meal out without them is taken instantly
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"On a blind date! Been invited to dinner by some friends that keep trying to set me up, abysmal failure so far but 10/10 for effort.
So based on previous experience should I go or just stay in and watch Netflix "
At least you have freinds Woking to do that for you. |
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"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know.
Oh wait have I read it wrong?
I think the friends would be there too. I'd also be worried that the date would almost be entertainment for the friends though
LvM
Yup my impression too hey it could be a great experience
Historically over the last couple of years of these 'set ups' (5 so far) all have been excruciating. "
Really just go down Rendezvous and have a beer then |
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By *ustaman OP Man
over a year ago
weymouth |
"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know.
Oh wait have I read it wrong?
I think the friends would be there too. I'd also be worried that the date would almost be entertainment for the friends though
LvM
Yup my impression too hey it could be a great experience
Historically over the last couple of years of these 'set ups' (5 so far) all have been excruciating. Really just go down Rendezvous and have a beer then "
Full of teenagers, loud music no thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been set up unknowingly or I'd not have gone, once before by a "friends" wife, testiclular torture would have been better.
Me not a chance!!, as its yours or someone elses pain , thats always fun to see hear about.
So yeah do it  |
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By *ustaman OP Man
over a year ago
weymouth |
Update on last night's blind date:
Friends (I'll loosely call them that for now) organised a dinner and attempted to set me and Fiona (name changed for privacy reasons) up as a blind date. Initial reaction nice sparkling eyes unfortunately it then went down hill rapidly. Firstly she allowed 'friends' dog to give doggy kisses (her description mine was allowing dog to slobber all over her). Then I discover she love and has several dogs (I'm not a fan), conversation then meandered over to politics (yes I know politics, religion etc should never be discussed but it was) to discover she's an ardent brexitier - game over.
Meal was pleasant, conversation lively but as a set up...........
Coming to the conclusion these dinner dates my so called friends are for their entertainment and feels much more like the guardians lunch across the divide column.
So onwards in my search for fuck knows what |
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"Update on last night's blind date:
Friends (I'll loosely call them that for now) organised a dinner and attempted to set me and Fiona (name changed for privacy reasons) up as a blind date. Initial reaction nice sparkling eyes unfortunately it then went down hill rapidly. Firstly she allowed 'friends' dog to give doggy kisses (her description mine was allowing dog to slobber all over her). Then I discover she love and has several dogs (I'm not a fan), conversation then meandered over to politics (yes I know politics, religion etc should never be discussed but it was) to discover she's an ardent brexitier - game over.
Meal was pleasant, conversation lively but as a set up...........
Coming to the conclusion these dinner dates my so called friends are for their entertainment and feels much more like the guardians lunch across the divide column.
So onwards in my search for fuck knows what "
Sorry to hear that |
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You need to focus on the important stuff more, look past the negative stuff.
Did she have good lips you could imagine wrapped around your beautiful penis?
How tight did her arse look when she stood up from the table?
Does she like ghostbusters?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Update on last night's blind date:
Friends (I'll loosely call them that for now) organised a dinner and attempted to set me and Fiona (name changed for privacy reasons) up as a blind date. Initial reaction nice sparkling eyes unfortunately it then went down hill rapidly. Firstly she allowed 'friends' dog to give doggy kisses (her description mine was allowing dog to slobber all over her). Then I discover she love and has several dogs (I'm not a fan), conversation then meandered over to politics (yes I know politics, religion etc should never be discussed but it was) to discover she's an ardent brexitier - game over.
Meal was pleasant, conversation lively but as a set up...........
Coming to the conclusion these dinner dates my so called friends are for their entertainment and feels much more like the guardians lunch across the divide column.
So onwards in my search for fuck knows what "
Sorry to hear it didn't yield anything. At least some of the things you experienced acted similarly to filters and you discovered incompatibilities immediately. Thank you for sharing |
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"If your friends are going to be there I don’t see why not? I guess it won’t be as awkward being in the company of people you already know.
Oh wait have I read it wrong?
I think the friends would be there too. I'd also be worried that the date would almost be entertainment for the friends though
LvM
Yup my impression too hey it could be a great experience
Historically over the last couple of years of these 'set ups' (5 so far) all have been excruciating. Really just go down Rendezvous and have a beer then
Full of teenagers, loud music no thanks "
lol its empty a lot of nights |
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