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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
I see a lot of women and couples profiles that say please don’t get offended if we don’t reply and threads saying that men get offended from not been replied to . So tell me MEN I’m curious to know what would offend you from someone not replying ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not offended but I do find it odd when a woman sends me a “hi” and I reply back with a “hi” and get no reply
If your personality is dry as fuck just don’t bother, why waste both our time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing. I tend only to message when someone's profile makes me smile or intrigues me - so do not expect a reply but am over the moon if one arrives (and excited like a little child if someone randomly messages me). So not offended by no reply (though I cannot remember the last time I sent a message without a reply). |
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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
This!
The number of prpfiles that say 'it only takes 1 minutes to respond'
Yeah, I get that, however, as a single female on here I often get about 60 messages a day.
I'm not spending 1 hr per day sending 'Thanks but no thanks messages.
I have neither the time nor inclination.
No reply is an answer  |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"This!
The number of prpfiles that say 'it only takes 1 minutes to respond'
Yeah, I get that, however, as a single female on here I often get about 60 messages a day.
I'm not spending 1 hr per day sending 'Thanks but no thanks messages.
I have neither the time nor inclination.
No reply is an answer "
Yeah totally get that from women too many messages would take half the day up |
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"I see a lot of women and couples profiles that say please don’t get offended if we don’t reply and threads saying that men get offended from not been replied to . So tell me MEN I’m curious to know what would offend you from someone not replying ? "
The damn cheek of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not offended by a lack of response, I get women get inundated on here.
I've only been offered here twice and they have been by replies. 1 woman told me she only fucks guys who make 6 figures. And another took the time to tell me how out of my league she was/go the gym etc etc. |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"I offended a guy by not wanting to meet, so I blocked him as he was nasty. He then got a 'friend' to message me, offended on his mates behalf"
That’s what I don’t get getting offended by that . Just accept it gracefully |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure many get offended by age filters set, but then we are all allowed to be offended!
Maybe it's more about how that offense is dealt with  "
I much prefer it if age filters are set - especially if like you they are set so restrictively that it is clear that the women will only be contacting those she wants to.
No reason to get offended, that person has made it abundantly clear that they will be the contacter (unless of course you happen to be 98-99 years old, in which case, game on!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm much happier not getting a reply from people if they are not interested.
I often put in my profile I'll accept a deleted message or no reply as a not interested.
Sounds conceited but I would hate to try and reply to the 10s of messages people get.
It's not your full time job. Lol |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"I'm sure many get offended by age filters set, but then we are all allowed to be offended!
Maybe it's more about how that offense is dealt with "
I think the majority of the time though that offence is then turned into that person sending abuse |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"I mean she's got her tits out so she should fuck me right.
Mrs  "
I love those profiles where the woman is naked in the profile pic and says if you have your cock in the profile pic don't message haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a key phrase in our profile that if isn’t in the subject title, the message gets deleted and we don’t even bother to read it.
Just like they didn’t read the profile. |
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"If men get offended by rejection they are pussies Instead of wasting time chasing a butterfly that can fly off build a beautiful garden and the butterflies will come to you
That’s probably one of the most brutal but also beautifully true posts that I have read in a while.
Just a shame about the lack of punctuation. Oh now I spoiled it didn’t I!? My mind sometimes   
I was struggling to understand how a butterfly can build a beautiful garden "
Butterflies drink blood. Only found that out a couple of years ago. |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"I mean she's got her tits out so she should fuck me right.
Mrs
I love those profiles where the woman is naked in the profile pic and says if you have your cock in the profile pic don't message haha "
Yeah I must agree that is laughable I have seen a couple of them |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"We have a key phrase in our profile that if isn’t in the subject title, the message gets deleted and we don’t even bother to read it.
Just like they didn’t read the profile."
Yeah that’s a great way to separate the ones that have taken time to read your profile from the ones that haven’t |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One man read my profile and looked at my pics, then sent me a message to say how offended he was about my hairy pussy and that I shouldn't be 'rubbing it in' that I had one, then he blocked me |
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"I see a lot of women and couples profiles that say please don’t get offended if we don’t reply and threads saying that men get offended from not been replied to . So tell me MEN I’m curious to know what would offend you from someone not replying ? "
They all reply to me, the ladies know who I am, or who I think I am  |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"One man read my profile and looked at my pics, then sent me a message to say how offended he was about my hairy pussy and that I shouldn't be 'rubbing it in' that I had one, then he blocked me "
What on this earth is wrong with people  nothing shocks me anymore here |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"If men get offended by rejection they are pussies Instead of wasting time chasing a butterfly that can fly off build a beautiful garden and the butterflies will come to you
That’s probably one of the most brutal but also beautifully true posts that I have read in a while.
Just a shame about the lack of punctuation. Oh now I spoiled it didn’t I!? My mind sometimes "
Hands up that was bad punctuation it's something I'm working on.. but the fact that someone questioned how a butterfly can build a garden from what I said must make you worry more haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see a lot of women and couples profiles that say please don’t get offended if we don’t reply and threads saying that men get offended from not been replied to . So tell me MEN I’m curious to know what would offend you from someone not replying ? "
Never offended, but no thanks is always nice. |
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"I see a lot of women and couples profiles that say please don’t get offended if we don’t reply and threads saying that men get offended from not been replied to . So tell me MEN I’m curious to know what would offend you from someone not replying ?
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Never offended, but no thanks is always nice. "
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They have no obligation to. It's the universally accepted Fab protocol. And quite rightly so. |
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"I see a lot of women and couples profiles that say please don’t get offended if we don’t reply and threads saying that men get offended from not been replied to . So tell me MEN I’m curious to know what would offend you from someone not replying ? "
I dont get offended, I've been on here long enough, for any expectations of getting a response to have gone years ago |
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I think a lot of the disdain comes from when guys have spent time reading through a profile, constructing a well mannered polite message and believing they fit the bill of what that person looking for only for the message to be ignored.
Multiply that by the number of times they do this whilst getting the same outcome and you have your answer. |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"I think a lot of the disdain comes from when guys have spent time reading through a profile, constructing a well mannered polite message and believing they fit the bill of what that person looking for only for the message to be ignored.
Multiply that by the number of times they do this whilst getting the same outcome and you have your answer. "
Well I put up a thread a bit ago saying I would rather receive no reply to a personalised well thought message than a reply of just Hi I really don’t like that but I would never then go on to harass and abuse someone as I see a good few guys do here |
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"I think a lot of the disdain comes from when guys have spent time reading through a profile, constructing a well mannered polite message and believing they fit the bill of what that person looking for only for the message to be ignored.
Multiply that by the number of times they do this whilst getting the same outcome and you have your answer. "
The only answer to that is, you carry an expectation and entitlement based on what you think, ' I think I fit the bill' no one owes anyone a response, when will people get this simple understanding down. |
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"I think a lot of the disdain comes from when guys have spent time reading through a profile, constructing a well mannered polite message and believing they fit the bill of what that person looking for only for the message to be ignored.
Multiply that by the number of times they do this whilst getting the same outcome and you have your answer.
Well I put up a thread a bit ago saying I would rather receive no reply to a personalised well thought message than a reply of just Hi I really don’t like that but I would never then go on to harass and abuse someone as I see a good few guys do here "
That is also a huge bug bear of mine and I’m full in agreement with your sentiments. Huge of lack of conversationalists on this site from all parties, not just single men. |
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"I think a lot of the disdain comes from when guys have spent time reading through a profile, constructing a well mannered polite message and believing they fit the bill of what that person looking for only for the message to be ignored.
Multiply that by the number of times they do this whilst getting the same outcome and you have your answer.
The only answer to that is, you carry an expectation and entitlement based on what you think, ' I think I fit the bill' no one owes anyone a response, when will people get this simple understanding down. "
Please know that these are not my personal thought processes. I’m fully aware that no matter how much I feel I may fit the bill of what someone is looking for, they do owe me anything. My expectation of a reply to a sent message of mine (when I send them) is a big fat zero. Was just offering a perspective of how the majority of men are feeling being on this site even after taking on board the countless same advice from the masses. It’s a never ending vicious cycle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a lot of the disdain comes from when guys have spent time reading through a profile, constructing a well mannered polite message and believing they fit the bill of what that person looking for only for the message to be ignored.
Multiply that by the number of times they do this whilst getting the same outcome and you have your answer.
The only answer to that is, you carry an expectation and entitlement based on what you think, ' I think I fit the bill' no one owes anyone a response, when will people get this simple understanding down. "
I don't think all cases are entitlement. Just a simple desire for human interaction.
If a person is entitled for hoping for a reply when they've spent time reading profiles and checking if there's a chance they match what the persin is looking for, it's hardly a surprise that they feel disappointed to get no reply.
Too many emotionless robots in the world. |
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