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By *.L.0460. OP Woman
over a year ago
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I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? |
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Perhaps because there are more men here and therefore the pool of competition runs deep in order to garner as much interest from the opposite sex.
Women however are — I presume — less incentivised to embellish their profiles with hyperbole. |
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
From my observations of what I have come across on here men just have bigger egos
Ego is something that is not good to carry, it can make guys say and sometimes do things just to have their ego fed it's horrid.
Humbleness is everything in life it's very rare to come across but it's lovely when you do |
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By *.L.0460. OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How can anyone find themselves attractive it's double sworded as it needs to come from someone else "
I dunno- there's nothing wrong with looking in the mirror & liking what you see (not that I'd know about that!!).
As long as it doesn't make someone arrogant & big-headed it can be a healthy way to be! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I’ve never described myself as handsome, good looks are just far too subjective.
I think that people often describe themselves in terms of things that they hold the most value in, as that’s what comes to mind when writing. If looks are important, then that’s what they describe |
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I don't know if it is a good sales approach. I think it's up to them to decide if I am handsome. Or if the right approach is to sell at all.
I am quite mad though, I wouldn't listen to me. I rarely do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"However if they were handsome and thought it, surely they’d have pics?? …..
Oh my bad they are professional and don’t show because of the job they do…."
To be fair, I remove my face pics when I’m working in the office |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't look at men's profiles but I imagine they do it as way to stand out. Personally, I'd never do it on the account of it being so subjective and also not true in the slightest |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"How can anyone find themselves attractive it's double sworded as it needs to come from someone else
I dunno- there's nothing wrong with looking in the mirror & liking what you see (not that I'd know about that!!).
As long as it doesn't make someone arrogant & big-headed it can be a healthy way to be!"
Depending upon how many mirrors scattered around the home can be a little too much  appreciate how someone feels and are comfortable within does mean fine |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Personally I’ve never felt “pretty” or “desirable” to another person. It’s not that I feel negative about myself, I just feel that “I’m just me” and that image isn’t necessarily the important bit, if someone likes me, then they like me, if they don’t, then they don’t.
I think we over complicate things like this a lot more than we should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never felt “pretty” or “desirable” to another person. It’s not that I feel negative about myself, I just feel that “I’m just me” and that image isn’t necessarily the important bit, if someone likes me, then they like me, if they don’t, then they don’t.
I think we over complicate things like this a lot more than we should. "
I can say unequivocally that you look pretty with a cock in your mouth
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they're trying to give themselves confidence
Any time I've met a man who describes themselves as handsome on the profile are usually insecure in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women don't need to sell their image.
(Some) Men believe they need hyperbole to sell theirs when there's so much competition.
I find it distasteful for anyone to describe themselves as attractive. It's an instant turn off from me. It simply lacks class.
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
wish I could see myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women don't need to sell their image.
(Some) Men believe they need hyperbole to sell theirs when there's so much competition.
I find it distasteful for anyone to describe themselves as attractive. It's an instant turn off from me. It simply lacks class.
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4 out of 5 of your photos are cock pictures. Now that's classy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women don't need to sell their image.
(Some) Men believe they need hyperbole to sell theirs when there's so much competition.
I find it distasteful for anyone to describe themselves as attractive. It's an instant turn off from me. It simply lacks class.
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Clear example of what is distasteful to some maybe be acceptable to others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men without photos also say “you won’t be disapppointed” - and they almost always disappoint.
I’d base your judgement on what you believe rather than how someone sells themselves (myself included). |
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I often find that the weaker the proportion from the profile, the more they'll throw in the handsome type stuff. It's a bit like money off stickers on stuff in down-market shops trying too hard to get you to be attracted to the wrong things that couldn't sell on their own strengths.
Show me what's attractive to others or it's hot air. If I don't find anything that attracts me, it's worthless |
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I guess the self-confidence point is true, in general (in the same way that it seems more women admit to suffering with 'imposter syndrome' at work etc), but I'm not sure it's that deep on a Fab profile - just a way of describing themselves.
I say good for them. Better that than a "woe is me" profile, or one that only talks about their cock. |
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By *.L.0460. OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Attraction is subjective and personal. Self definitions are pretty pointless really.
I mean, ffs....look how many women Bojo has gone through.
Looks can't be everything. 
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Haha!! So true! Bojo's appeal is a complete mystery to me, but he must have something going for him!!!  |
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over a year ago
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
Men listen to their mothers too much.. |
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?
Men listen to their mothers too much.. "
Not all men!! |
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"Attraction is subjective and personal. Self definitions are pretty pointless really.
I mean, ffs....look how many women Bojo has gone through.
Looks can't be everything.
Haha!! So true! Bojo's appeal is a complete mystery to me, but he must have something going for him!!! "
There’s an American dude (don’t know his name, something Donaldson maybe?) who is so ‘plain’ but he had an A-list ex list and they all say he’s so funny and nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry, just saw the tagline, "Handsome Men" and I thought,well,of me actually 
Sure i saw a "humble," thread when I was browsing earlier I better go check what people are saying about me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?
Men listen to their mothers too much..
Not all men!!"
Just the ones that think their handsome |
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?
Men listen to their mothers too much..
Not all men!!
Just the ones that think their handsome "
Well yeah you might be right there!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, women don't need to sell theirselves on here as they will get sex whatever they look like. Men do need to sell theirselves more to stand out from the massive penis crowd, despite little effort coming from the woman's side. It's backwards but that's the truth. |
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"Honestly, women don't need to sell theirselves on here as they will get sex whatever they look like. Men do need to sell theirselves more to stand out from the massive penis crowd, despite little effort coming from the woman's side. It's backwards but that's the truth."
Interesting point this. I just enjoy the idea of being myself, I wouldn’t let a crazy ratio of men affect my standards and would find that trait as attractive in a woman. |
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Women will get called beautiful and have no pictures on their profile. While men are encountering profiles looking for "exceptional" left and right. Most people don't want to show their faces here so they add a description, and who's going to write "meet me, I'm pig-ugly"?
LvM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
I dunno where your looking
Every woman these days rates themselves a 10/10 because they listen to too much delusional TikTok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?
I dunno where your looking
Every woman these days rates themselves a 10/10 because they listen to too much delusional TikTok "
I do love a sweeping generalisation  |
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"If their Mums say they are handsome then that means they must be 
My mum forgot my birthday. I clearly hit every branch."
That's most unfortunate, ugly isn't an excuse for missing Birthdays! I'd be having words |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.
Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.
Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess."
You mean I'm not really a goddess? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
Men lie. The end |
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I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...
Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.
Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might have been guilty of this at sometime however I feel it should be for the person viewing the profile to judge attractiveness or if someone is handsome etc.
If I was writing it I would rather see "I have been so l told I'm attractive because of my dark eyes and well shape eyebrows"
As for ladies women not putting it..I think that's too prevent rude people saying you're ugly because they get rejected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never describe myself as attractive. Cute, but not attractive/handsome/sexy/whatever. I don't have a lot of body confidence but I uploaded pics anyway and talked a little about my looks on my profile for clarity |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.
Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess.
You mean I'm not really a goddess? "
You can be a goddess if you want to be, wearing food is a way of making you look tastier.
I do agree with GC, for the most part. Women are expected to/feel they should be humble and modest and yet sell sex. It's a weird dichotomy. |
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I've seen a lot of women with the words hot or milf as part of their profile name.
Hot is subjective just like handsome and milf isn't the right acronym to use when describing yourself as it doesn't make sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am 100% positively average. A solid 5/10. Middle of the road..forgettable. I'm so average, even family and friends have mistaken me for other decidedly average looking blokes. |
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If someone creates a profile saying female, without pictures or a bio, they will probably get a hundred messages a day.
Women are under supplied, in relation to demand on this site.
If the numbers of single women and single men were equal, they might have to increase their efforts.
Of course, this is just looking at quantity, not quality.
Plus 'handsome' 'good looking' etc is subjective, and has no correlation with sexiness, which is also subjective. For me, attitude is more important than physical attributes. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.
Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess."
I'd agree, though the latter paragraph was exaggerated with your typical flair to drive home the point
You can have as many adjectives as you'd like, but ultimately the pictures you post determine if someone considers you physically attractive. Even if you overcome the initial hurdle of physical attractiveness, one might crash and burn if they don't fancy your face. This is a deal breaker for many, regardless of how physically fit you might be. |
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By *.L.0460. OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...
Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.
Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.
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People tell my I'm handsome so I wrote that in my profile. That people say it. Not that I think it.
Irish people generally don't post face pics so I find useful descriptor by way of being a reference.
I'm certainly not bewildered or phased in the slightest by the number of men on the site. |
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"I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...
Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.
Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.
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The unbridled sexism and sweeping generalisations in this reply are pretty bewildering. |
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over a year ago
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
Love your profile..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some men are far too 'professional' lol
Ooh I did not know men did sex professionaly
Watch tge film Deuce Bigaloo Male gigolo "
That a porn movie you in |
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"I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...
Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.
Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.
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What a load of bollocks |
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By *.L.0460. OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?
Love your profile..
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I appreciate that, thank you |
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"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
My dog is handsome and everyone who says so , usually the ladies when I’m out walking him , I give the line … ‘Well they say dogs take after their owners’
Maybe I don’t haha |
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If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,
Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,
Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details |
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"If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,
Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,
Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details "
I love the whole big cock thing. No one sees my cock until the meet me. Or my face for that matter.
It's just a word. If someone writes handsome in a bio it's probably because people have said it to them. totally legit to write it in a bio. There's no compelling reason not to.
The misandry on display in this thread is really quite something. |
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By *.L.0460. OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,
Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,
Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details
I love the whole big cock thing. No one sees my cock until the meet me. Or my face for that matter.
It's just a word. If someone writes handsome in a bio it's probably because people have said it to them. totally legit to write it in a bio. There's no compelling reason not to.
The misandry on display in this thread is really quite something."
So, you won't provide a face pic & meet women without seeing one either?? |
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"If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,
Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,
Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details
I love the whole big cock thing. No one sees my cock until the meet me. Or my face for that matter.
It's just a word. If someone writes handsome in a bio it's probably because people have said it to them. totally legit to write it in a bio. There's no compelling reason not to.
The misandry on display in this thread is really quite something.
So, you won't provide a face pic & meet women without seeing one either??"
You'd be surprised how common that is in Ireland. Plenty of people will share face pics but plenty don't. The culture is different around it.
The best date I ever had in my life was with a woman who had a hidden profile. She unhid it for ten minutes so I could read her verifications and had no photos.
It's not something I really think about to be honest. Everyone does fab their own way. This works for me. |
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I should say that when I started out I was happy to share face pics but the way I engage with has evolved over time.
Most of the people I meet are through social events. On the occasion that I meet someone through the forum or they message me (I don't send opening messages) It's not uncommon that face pics dont come up in the conversation. |
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