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Those people you know the ones
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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Confidence over arrogance, they know what they want
Respect, respecting yourself and everyone else in the scene
Being social, turn up, be nice and keep turning up.
Self awareness
Open
Honest"
keep turning up lol ok  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
The ones I’ve met, I’ve just been normal people like everybody else, a bit insecure. They just get on with it because they enjoy it.
Off of here is very different. Swingers are extremely sorted in real life and it feels a very small gap. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Successful as in quantity or quality or both?well exactly and what is quality sex? "
Good sex. The sort of sex where you're both satisfied, happy. Regardless of what you've got up to.
Those who I'd see as successful on here (and I'm using my own markers) are generally confident to some extent.
Happy in who they are.
Have charisma.
A direct and honest way of communicating with people so there's no hurt/confusion after, heck even before.
Respectful to others - they don't spend their time bitching/gossiping about others because they're happily focused on those they're with and don't waste headspace on negativity.
Are stable for the most part, whether emotionally or in terms of what they're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Full head of hair
Six pack
Over 6ft tall
Massive cock
Loads of verifications
And they've been here before, so they know how it works."
And they go to clubs and socials. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
Don't be needy and creepy in the messages and come across desperate .. of course having a big cock helps but that doesn't mean only blokes with big cocks get meets it's about how you approach people and talk .. a good body helps yeah can't deny the truth .. |
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The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward
It's from Rocky 
I sent that to a friend who was down 5 years ago. It was really tongue-in-cheek. But she said you are right I'm going to do it. Flew to Oz is still there now, built a whole life for herself there. She's so happy. I love it.  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
Also, alot of people are dickheads. Ironically I get tarnished with that for some reason, but that's the point. There's a lot of dickheads.
Smart (or successful) people know to hide any truths of theirs that ain't so pretty. The women then get hurt later on down the line. |
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"Also, alot of people are dickheads. Ironically I get tarnished with that for some reason, but that's the point. There's a lot of dickheads.
Smart (or successful) people know to hide any truths of theirs that ain't so pretty. The women then get hurt later on down the line. "
Insightful and accurate.
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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Also, alot of people are dickheads. Ironically I get tarnished with that for some reason, but that's the point. There's a lot of dickheads.
Smart (or successful) people know to hide any truths of theirs that ain't so pretty. The women then get hurt later on down the line. "
how does a woman get hurt if its all casual? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Confidence over arrogance, they know what they want
Respect, respecting yourself and everyone else in the scene
Being social, turn up, be nice and keep turning up.
Self awareness
Open
Honest"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are probably decent humans that don't just pop a cock in the inbox and expect a fuck.
Mrs This
Happily say I've never done that "
If you send a message then yes you do. |
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I think people are “successful” because they don’t try to be something they are not.
They just bring their normal, balanced self to the site. They are happy in their skin and comfortable with what they want and don’t want. They will treat you like a normal human being.
Personally I think it needs a bit of maturity to reach that stage and so I don’t think swinging is really a young persons game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who are successful at sex and swinging what makes them so successful..... Well what? "
Communication, understanding, maturity, respect, time, and effort.
I think swinging works when you have those things. And if you have them, but the others do not you won't appear successful at swinging till you find those that have them too.
Some of it is down to luck in finding the right people, being in the right place at the right time etc. |
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