"I'm here for the traditional, old fashioned 'of a bygone era' dating and courtship. There is much chivalric romance to be found on Fab's mediaeval round table.
It serves me well."
Is the Fab round table like a bigger lazy Susan with a fair maiden tied to it, while a bunch of noble knights have their chivalric way with her? Asking for a friend
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"I'm here for the traditional, old fashioned 'of a bygone era' dating and courtship. There is much chivalric romance to be found on Fab's mediaeval round table.
It serves me well.
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Is the Fab round table like a bigger lazy Susan with a fair maiden tied to it, while a bunch of noble knights have their chivalric way with her? Asking for a friend
LvM"
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I have a mental picture of this germinating in my head. I like it! Now I know why you both are my ³rd most favourite couple. |
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All I'm trying to say, is that there must be men and women on here that would like to meet someone that enjoys this kind of life style. It's not something they can put down on Match.com or any other dating site. Why can't the site add a section for people that want to date and not just want to meet up for a night of fun. |
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"All I'm trying to say, is that there must be men and women on here that would like to meet someone that enjoys this kind of life style. It's not something they can put down on Match.com or any other dating site. Why can't the site add a section for people that want to date and not just want to meet up for a night of fun."
People state it on here. But also use ‘code words’ on other dating apps. Kink friendly, ENM, non vanilla. |
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"I'm here for the traditional, old fashioned 'of a bygone era' dating and courtship. There is much chivalric romance to be found on Fab's mediaeval round table.
It serves me well.
Is the Fab round table like a bigger lazy Susan with a fair maiden tied to it, while a bunch of noble knights have their chivalric way with her? Asking for a friend
LvM"
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Nope we were totally not looking to date and fall in love on here. However it happened anyway and here we still are.
In hindsight its actually a good place if you want to stay sexually non-monogamous or in the lifestyle when in a relationship. Chances are the people you meet on here are likewise open to the idea going forward into a relationship.
When you're looking to date someone who you know swings you can both put the sex worries on the back burner. Simply because later on you both already know that elephant in the room doesn't exist. So you can both happily work on getting to know each other, building rapport and chemistry without fear of being rejected down the line for being a swinger or wanting to share that with their partner. After all don't we all want to be truly accepted for who we are by our partners and ideally want our partners to share that with us?
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Difficult one that. I met someone on here who was only looking for FWB but as I got to know her I knew that for me I could only envision a relationship because of the spark between us. She acknowledged this but could only have FWB in her life due to other commitments. I called the entire thing off because in my mind I saw myself getting hurt.
Take the forum for what it is but if you find someone you have a great commitment with then go for it.
In a way this site is a dating site.
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"Does anyone on this site use it to try and find a swinger to have a relationship with, because they can't find another site that gives them the chance to find people of this life style?"
I came to fab for sex. I got...
A fuck tonne of dick pics.
But then I found...
The filters and the forum.
This helped me find a community, friends, some great sex, and currently the beginnings of some real feels.
I am still not on here specifically looking for for a relationship but if another great ENM relationship came along then score. |
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"Does anyone on this site use it to try and find a swinger to have a relationship with, because they can't find another site that gives them the chance to find people of this life style?"
Lots of people probably do use this site to try and find that elusive swinging/open relationship they are looking for. But I think you will find that you can find it’s on other platforms as well.
I think sometimes it’s just in vanilla world dating people sometimes find it difficult to speak about this world and what they want and then in this world people can also find it difficult to talk about what they want as to the aspects of a relationship and not just the sex!
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Plenty to OP. Some have found it. Some are looking for it. Not me though. I’m here for friendships only. Not a relationship at all.
The only ring I want in the future is going to be attached to a collar |
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