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Bi or Bi cuious -is it a turn off
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By *oyo5053 OP Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater |
Just wondering whether being bi or stating bi-curious is a turn off for a majority of couples or single F's when they are looking for a single guy..not suggesting i will change my profile to suit the situation or to get an invite, really more interested in why this may be the case ? |
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There are some that like it, more that don't. Plenty of forum threads discussing this very topic.
Be honest with what you are and want, you will be a better fit for those who are open to playing with a bi person if you do.  |
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Yeah that seems to be a thing. Just boring ingrained gender stereotypes - you know, the male in the couple will be scared of catching the gay should their cocks touch accidentally, and the females want a big strong man and view any guy that plays with guys as a bit effeminate, yawn... |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
It has never bothered me and I am now in an open poly relationship with a bisexual male.
Each to their own though. Some will like it, some won't. The right people will be interested in you for what you are |
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By *oyo5053 OP Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater |
Interesting isnt it...the whole 'i cant be near someone who may (or may not!  ) be interested in my sexual organ just in case they can't contain themselves and forcably take me against my will! |
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"Just wondering whether being bi or stating bi-curious is a turn off for a majority of couples or single F's when they are looking for a single guy..not suggesting i will change my profile to suit the situation or to get an invite, really more interested in why this may be the case ?"
Bi/Bi curious turns off most/few women/couples. Straight turns off most/few bi couples. Nothing turns off gay/bi men, unless you don't do oral.
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I (Luke) am not attracted to men so I would have boundaries if I were in an mmf with a bi male. As long as they adhered to them I wouldn't have any issues.
Hannah also wouldn't have any issues with bi men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My experience is that bi couples are very accommodating for guys that have straight on their profile
So just put straight, play bi when you want to anc straight when you want to
No one can control how you self identify |
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"What bothers us is men claiming to be straight but from reading their verifications are clearly bisexual or bicurious. We are more put off by liars! Just be honest
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Trying something doesn't make you anything.
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By *oyo5053 OP Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater |
"I (Luke) am not attracted to men so I would have boundaries if I were in an mmf with a bi male. As long as they adhered to them I wouldn't have any issues.
Hannah also wouldn't have any issues with bi men. "
Absolutely..we all have boundries so as long as they are clearly communicated it shouldnt present an issue |
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By *oyo5053 OP Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater |
"My experience is that bi couples are very accommodating for guys that have straight on their profile
So just put straight, play bi when you want to anc straight when you want to
No one can control how you self identify "
So you are suggesting that people should use a false discription? ..isnt that the point made previously that people read your veri's and know that you are not being honest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a turn-on for us 
Unfortunately, we do come across profiles (couple profiles included) which state they they will not meet couples where the guy is bi, which is entirely their choice.
But it's not contagious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting isnt it...the whole 'i cant be near someone who may (or may not! ) be interested in my sexual organ just in case they can't contain themselves and forcably take me against my will! "
nah don’t think that most people are ‘afraid’ of anything - they’re simply unattracted /turned off at the thought of it |
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By *rLordMan
over a year ago
Swadlincote |
It states bi on my profile, had a certain amount of bi play.
But straight guy , has no worries about me trying it on lol. As for touching a guys hard dick, what's happens when you DP a girl |
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By *oyo5053 OP Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater |
"Interesting isnt it...the whole 'i cant be near someone who may (or may not! ) be interested in my sexual organ just in case they can't contain themselves and forcably take me against my will! nah don’t think that most people are ‘afraid’ of anything - they’re simply unattracted /turned off at the thought of it "
The thought of what? |
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By *aveonMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
I prefer to be open and say I’m bi
Some find it a turn off and I think it counts against me …. But I’ve also been very lucky to meet the most wonderful people who are open minded and love bi MF fun ….. meeting those people has ended up in having the very best most intimate and fulfilling pleasure
Therefore be open and just enjoy it |
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