So we alwase see on profiles say messaged like hey how you doing or things like that are an instant block, so we're curious what does everyone consider a good appropriate first message that dosent consist of asking how they are or anything about there profile, no hate just curios to see what people think is good, sorry about bad spelling (mrs.t) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me a good first message is something o may have said or they may have said in the forums. Reference to mine or their profile.
Not war and peace written
Cut and paste definitely not
I don’t mind a hey how are you as well. Sometimes you script a good message and get nothing back. So short and sweet works as well
Lastly people who ask for face pics and don’t have any or make “demands” for things on a first message when they don’t have face pics etc are a no from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send a basic intro, name locality a sentence or two... attAch a picture or two and the balls in their court.
If there's no attraction no words I'd type would change the response/lack of response
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"When they're opener is wanting to give me the KnobSlobber9000 while K eats her pussy from the back 
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Please tell me you did not genuinely receive an opener like that  "
Not yet but for the right lady, it might work  
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For us it doesn't matter one bit what you put in a first message. We would rather get a 'Hi' than someone trying to be funny or making relevant lines to our profile in a message as it always appears so forced.
Before we even open it we look at the profile, if that doesn't suit what we are looking for then it's not going to happen. Even if its the greatest first message ever it will still get deleted. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Does a person know enough about the person to be asking how they're doing (nope) being creative, thinking outside the box even sense of humour or even something that was found interesting about their profile which caught your attention, similar interests, distance |
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It needs to show some personality; the ability to hold a conversation and not just about sex; and it needs to show some interest in us rather than something that could be said to half the population of the UK. |
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"Struggled with this for a while, any tips of first messages and what should be in profile"
Something about their profile and what you have in common.
Probably better to start your own thread to ask for profile advice, or look at the many others. The advice is pretty generic most of the time |
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