I’ve done it. Much like Nero’s thinking, I posted one up when I was away in Aberdeen for a while with work … and it led to a wonderful night with a gorgeous wee sweetheart of a woman. We’re still friends, and I’ll see her again if/when I end up back there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever

Yeah well that’s because men like me message"

I think it's more they can't find a good excuse for the wife

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve done it. Much like Nero’s thinking, I posted one up when I was away in Aberdeen for a while with work … and it led to a wonderful night with a gorgeous wee sweetheart of a woman. We’re still friends, and I’ll see her again if/when I end up back there."

How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I think it's more they can't find a good excuse for the wife "

Nonsense.

I always have a good excuse.

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By *.T.Man over a year ago

Belfast

I find it never ever gets any interest...

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By *xydadbodMan over a year ago

Milton keynes

Don't think I'll be that lucky if I put one up lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS."

It worked ONCE.

If I had boobs and low standards I’m sure it’d work every time …

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By *mber81Woman over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket

This. Post it for a social or meet and see what happens but don't expect anything?

In with the bang on advice as per usual Joe.

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By *cnugatugMan over a year ago

Chatham

I've put up a few social meets with no interest so was me just sitting in Costa on my own lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I put meets up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS.

It worked ONCE.

If I had boobs and low standards I’m sure it’d work every time …"

You're ONCE ahead of me.

Dam! I might try it again when I can be arsed with men.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope prefer to use the meet section when I'm available then plan

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

I'm always down for a meat now.

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By *obilebottomMan over a year ago

All over

I hade an unsual number of meet now messages yesterday. Some looked suspicious as did the amount of profile viewings from straight guys that were also followed by a message in some cases. Somebody mentioned recently the unsual increase of profile viewings and I noticed that myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever "

I’m not sure the village notice board is the best option?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

god, no!

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Not individually.

But we kind of already knew who was likely to bite, usually.

Wildcard factor has had its merits.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

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By *entBarryUKMan over a year ago

Ashford

"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked."

I do love fingering at a Christmas market

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Very occasionally, yes.

Mrs TMN x

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By *wingersimonMan over a year ago

Birmingham

“Got fingered”. This response wins the thread, brilliant.

"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket

This. Post it for a social or meet and see what happens but don't expect anything?

In with the bang on advice as per usual Joe.

I mean, nothing ever does but you can always have hope, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked."

Must be nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

I do love fingering at a Christmas market

That's like top tier Christmas spirit!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman over a year ago

Essex

I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a “meet now” message but we have put up meets for socials before, it’s never worked out well.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

I got my first ever Fab meet with a Meet Now. The one and only time that's worked.

LvM

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

I do love fingering at a Christmas market

That's like top tier Christmas spirit!

Right? It's got everything you need to put you in a jolly mood. I might put the same request up this year. Obviously not requesting fingering because a girl can't be greedy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever

Yeah well that’s because men like me message

I think it's more they can't find a good excuse for the wife "

But I thought that you'd only become their wife if they can keep a plant alive for a year and a pet for the second (bet you give them a goldfish, or something tgat has a lifespan of less than a year!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket

Joseph. You always talk sense

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

No I don't do random sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day. "

Bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day. "

You strike me as shy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up! "

You’re a man? What cleavage?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

You’re a man? What cleavage?

Butt cleavage of course!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

You’re a man? What cleavage?

Butt cleavage of course!

Did you put out for him?

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

"I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother

This is exactly me

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman over a year ago

Essex

"I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother

This is exactly me

Maybe we should just send one to each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. I never have. But I once did meet really quickly for a social. Good fun.

There’s no one near enough on my radar to meet now.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Nope. Spontaneity is a luxury I don’t have

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother

This is exactly me

Maybe we should just send one to each other

I’ll send to you both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

You’re a man? What cleavage?

Butt cleavage of course!

Did you put out for him?"

No, he was straight. The only straight guy on Fab!

*scratches bollocks and licks fingers*

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

Never as ip prefer invitations

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS."

•

Would you consider a semi-naked artistic photoshoot for a meet-me-now? I'm always on the lôôk out for a new muse for my atelier.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

I put a call out for a social when I was in London but got inundated with penis pics and FAF messages. So I got a takeaway and watched telly on my own instead.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

"I put a call out for a social when I was in London but got inundated with penis pics and FAF messages. So I got a takeaway and watched telly on my own instead. "

•

Was that the time when I was just down the road in my office and I could have taken you out to dinner?

I think you also blew out YOLO that evening as well, KC².

KC² you really need to be less capricious.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"I put a call out for a social when I was in London but got inundated with penis pics and FAF messages. So I got a takeaway and watched telly on my own instead.

•

Was that the time when I was just down the road in my office and I could have taken you out to dinner?

I think you also blew out YOLO that evening as well, KC².

KC² you really need to be less capricious.

That was the time you AND YOLO blew me out

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By *entBarryUKMan over a year ago

Ashford

"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

I do love fingering at a Christmas market

That's like top tier Christmas spirit!

Right? It's got everything you need to put you in a jolly mood. I might put the same request up this year. Obviously not requesting fingering because a girl can't be greedy."

Yes you can. Join us in Paris for the Christmas market and you can be as greedy as you like.

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

Just send it to me directly

FAF?

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

I could go a meet now right now.

I’m home alone. In need of sex.

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By *cotCouple666Couple over a year ago

Central Belt

Yup. Stupid o'clock in the morning, d*unkenly scrolling at the tail end of a night out. Saw the profile of a single woman I'd been admiring was online, so I messaged asking if she was free now. Such a red neck the next morning realising what I'd done

. I did get a response but it was hours later and she said she just couldn't sleep so was clearing out her inbox. Told her how embarrassed I was and that I don't normally do things like that. She was really understanding and nice about it.

Beth x

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By *unchalMan over a year ago

Dartford

"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

A few times!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could go a meet now right now.

I’m home alone. In need of sex.

Yes, it sounds good. Until the meet of your nightmares turns up...