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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

For a first meet….

Do you think you can have a restrained and blindfolded meet for your first meet?

Or do you think that is something you need to build to with someone.

It’s a lot of trust… and I’m sure I know what the majority will respond …. But wanted to see peoples opinions

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

No I don't think I could, not done to me anyway it's done I'd only allow the Mr to do.

I'd do it to others on a meet if we'd chatted beforehand though and that was their thing.

Mrs

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I could only do it first date with a trusted friend as a chaperone.

Far too risky in my opinion

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

I think first meets can be hot enough without them so wouldn't ever put pressure on it to happen.

Although...if someone was like handcuff me etc, I wouldn't say no...

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Depending upon how the chemistry has been flowing prior to the actual meeting anything is possible

blood sweat and all that

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By *amie HantsWoman over a year ago

Atlantis

I couldn’t be handcuffed the first time, I’d be too scared of ending up under the patio to enjoy myself.

If they were happy for me to handcuff them though, then I’d be more than fine with that.

For sexual reason. Not patio reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ideal first meet for me personally is a walk and a chat … so I’m not sure how they’d feel if I suddenly suggested they put the blindfold on

Joking aside the wonderful thing about fab is we are all different and have different approaches/expectations so I’m sure with enough effort and open conversations you’ll find someone willing … just be sure you engage with suitable likeminded others

Good luck OP

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

For sexual reason. Not patio reasons"

To cement your relationship ?

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s not for me, but I don’t have a typical swinger attitude sex. And I like to wait for that kind of thing and feel like I’ve earned trust and respect

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"I couldn’t be handcuffed the first time, I’d be too scared of ending up under the patio to enjoy myself.

If they were happy for me to handcuff them though, then I’d be more than fine with that.

For sexual reason. Not patio reasons"

Well now I'm thinking about the patio.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Time is precious.

I want it all on a first meet. It'll probably be the only meet so why not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends on circumstances how long you’ve chatted, what’s led up to that point, chatting over the phone etc, I wouldn’t rule it out but also wouldn’t expect it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve done it before and thankfully he wasn’t some crazy serial killer. It’s not something I’d do again though.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"I’ve done it before and thankfully he wasn’t some crazy serial killer. It’s not something I’d do again though. "

Ah g'wan!

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I did this many years ago with somebody I had spoken to for quite a while. It was an absolute bucket list meet and we had a blast for a couple of years ticking lots of weird stuff off.

I’d never do it again. Way too wary of people these days.

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By *amie HantsWoman over a year ago

Atlantis

"I couldn’t be handcuffed the first time, I’d be too scared of ending up under the patio to enjoy myself.

If they were happy for me to handcuff them though, then I’d be more than fine with that.

For sexual reason. Not patio reasons

Well now I'm thinking about the patio."

We can do both

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

You can get a good sense of someone before a meet and should be able to tell if they are emotionally intelligent and trustworthy enough for this kind of play.

We’ve had women put themselves in our hands for much kinkier play than blindfolds and restraints on a first meet…they went home very happy and satisfied, and so did we.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a first meet….

Do you think you can have a restrained and blindfolded meet for your first meet?

Or do you think that is something you need to build to with someone.

It’s a lot of trust… and I’m sure I know what the majority will respond …. But wanted to see peoples opinions

It's an incredibly stupid thing to do.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mean, I wouldn't. But if people are mutually into that shit then go for it

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