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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really cannot understand the fascination for age.. is it a badge of honour or just something to tick off on the bucket list?
It is about the person no matter the age. Everyone is special and has something to offer if you look at them and not how old they are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s not the age per se but the fact they are hot and sassy. I like the look of an older women that’s all. No badge of honour for sure.
Sorry if it sounded like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really cannot understand the fascination for age.. is it a badge of honour or just something to tick off on the bucket list?
It is about the person no matter the age. Everyone is special and has something to offer if you look at them and not how old they are."
Well said
Absolute hate getting messages from guys younger than me who say "ive always wanted to fuck an older woman" like im some kind of object.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think I may have not explained myself correctly. I find a lot of women hot and attractive but I love an older women. No object no badge of honour just my preference sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t apologise for liking older women mate over someone’s opinion. Women do the exact same, they like men with lots of money or they like bbc because they want to tick it off the list of things they want to experience.
If you like like older women never apologise for it. Happy fabbing  |
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"I think I may have not explained myself correctly. I find a lot of women hot and attractive but I love an older women. No object no badge of honour just my preference sorry. "
I'd stop apologising if I were you.
There is nothing wrong with what you have said EXCEPT not all older women are hot and not all older women are sassy and older could just mean older than you ..... and what the fuck is sassy when it's at home ? AND some older women can't even walk far AND some are plug ugly ..... and what does HOT mean ? Does that mean always horny and willing or good to look at ?
Precision helps  What are you looking for exactly ? |
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Just an older woman who looks after herself and is confident. I love that. Confidence is sexy. "
Well i'm 100% of the way there! I'm not interested though ......
BTW ..... by looking after herself do you mean dresses up to please a man or eats all the crisps ?
I need to know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just an older woman who looks after herself and is confident. I love that. Confidence is sexy.
Well i'm 100% of the way there! I'm not interested though ......
BTW ..... by looking after herself do you mean dresses up to please a man or eats all the crisps ?
I need to know."
Both of course  |
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"You’ve said nothing wrong OP I guess the older women that are offended by your comment are just, not sexy or sassy"
I guess when women express an opinion they need to be called ugly to put them in their place. |
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Just an older woman who looks after herself and is confident. I love that. Confidence is sexy.
Well i'm 100% of the way there! I'm not interested though ......
BTW ..... by looking after herself do you mean dresses up to please a man or eats all the crisps ?
I need to know.
Both of course "
Well im half way there |
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Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx"
Thanks x |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I think I may have not explained myself correctly. I find a lot of women hot and attractive but I love an older women. No object no badge of honour just my preference sorry.
I'd stop apologising if I were you.
There is nothing wrong with what you have said EXCEPT not all older women are hot and not all older women are sassy and older could just mean older than you ..... and what the fuck is sassy when it's at home ? AND some older women can't even walk far AND some are plug ugly ..... and what does HOT mean ? Does that mean always horny and willing or good to look at ?
Precision helps What are you looking for exactly ? "
He wants a hot sassy granny like you  |
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"I really cannot understand the fascination for age.. is it a badge of honour or just something to tick off on the bucket list?
It is about the person no matter the age. Everyone is special and has something to offer if you look at them and not how old they are."
Someone likes what they like. It’s good to say what’s on your mind. So what if it feels weird to you or isn’t in your category. Don’t judge & Be Kind. People’s mental health is important ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone likes what they like. It’s good to say what’s on your mind. So what if it feels weird to you or isn’t in your category. Don’t judge & Be Kind. People’s mental health is important ??"
As an older woman I believe I have more to offer than my age and do not want to be someones tick box. If someone likes me for me then that means far more.
As you say, don't judge, allow me to have my say |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Someone likes what they like. It’s good to say what’s on your mind. So what if it feels weird to you or isn’t in your category. Don’t judge & Be Kind. People’s mental health is important ??
As an older woman I believe I have more to offer than my age and do not want to be someones tick box. If someone likes me for me then that means far more.
As you say, don't judge, allow me to have my say "
True but I’m not after older for a badge of honour. Older women are generally more confident, know what they want and that’s sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx"
Gary Barlow is more attractive now than when he was younger. Robbie Williams was more attractive when he was younger.
It's all about each person's perception. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx
Gary Barlow is more attractive now than when he was younger. Robbie Williams was more attractive when he was younger.
It's all about each person's perception. "
Agreed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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True but I’m not after older for a badge of honour. Older women are generally more confident, know what they want and that’s sexy. "
So, are you after an older woman because she is older or a woman that is confident and know what they want...
the latter applies to 96.7% of the women on here of any age or they would not be here |
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I'm sure you didn't mean to cause a shit storm at 7:49 on a Sunday when it's a full moon.
But you see us older ladies have to fight the young things off with a pokey stick whej they start horndogging about.
I don't want to be fetishised, or a tick on someone's list...Like me for me not because of my age. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx
Gary Barlow is more attractive now than when he was younger. Robbie Williams was more attractive when he was younger.
It's all about each person's perception. "
I think most people would agree with above , it’s not perception. One is a nice person made good choices and aged well. One was a dick, rampaged dr*gs alcohol and women for decades and now looks like salad fingers on a bad day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure you didn't mean to cause a shit storm at 7:49 on a Sunday when it's a full moon.
But you see us older ladies have to fight the young things off with a pokey stick whej they start horndogging about.
I don't want to be fetishised, or a tick on someone's list...Like me for me not because of my age."
Exactly and you can borrow my stick anytime
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"I'm sure you didn't mean to cause a shit storm at 7:49 on a Sunday when it's a full moon.
But you see us older ladies have to fight the young things off with a pokey stick whej they start horndogging about.
I don't want to be fetishised, or a tick on someone's list...Like me for me not because of my age.
Exactly and you can borrow my stick anytime
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That's very kind of you, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Jesus I give up. I find older women attractive that’s all.
Most here have an age range and it seems it would be for the older age range and not from 30 and below.
I’ve just mentioned it and World implodes. People have preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx
Gary Barlow is more attractive now than when he was younger. Robbie Williams was more attractive when he was younger.
It's all about each person's perception.
I think most people would agree with above , it’s not perception. One is a nice person made good choices and aged well. One was a dick, rampaged dr*gs alcohol and women for decades and now looks like salad fingers on a bad day "
Ok so now I have to guess which is which.  |
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Someone likes what they like. It’s good to say what’s on your mind. So what if it feels weird to you or isn’t in your category. Don’t judge & Be Kind. People’s mental health is important ??
As an older woman I believe I have more to offer than my age and do not want to be someones tick box. If someone likes me for me then that means far more.
As you say, don't judge, allow me to have my say "
You said it in a polite way which is the correct way forward x |
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Someone likes what they like. It’s good to say what’s on your mind. So what if it feels weird to you or isn’t in your category. Don’t judge & Be Kind. People’s mental health is important ??
As an older woman I believe I have more to offer than my age and do not want to be someones tick box. If someone likes me for me then that means far more.
As you say, don't judge, allow me to have my say
True but I’m not after older for a badge of honour. Older women are generally more confident, know what they want and that’s sexy. "
I’m glad own it & embrace it. I love positive energy & uplifting vibes. Just don’t like when someone says “oh why you thinking like that. “your weird for having that fantasy” but this reply for example is a correct way to address it x |
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx"
Yesss my love x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really cannot understand the fascination for age.. is it a badge of honour or just something to tick off on the bucket list?
It is about the person no matter the age. Everyone is special and has something to offer if you look at them and not how old they are.
Well said
Absolute hate getting messages from guys younger than me who say "ive always wanted to fuck an older woman" like im some kind of object.
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Very rude , sorry to all ladies being treated under the expectation
Respect and love to all ladies x. X
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx
Gary Barlow is more attractive now than when he was younger. Robbie Williams was more attractive when he was younger.
It's all about each person's perception. "
David Beckham is soooo much more attractive now he's older. |
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"Jesus I give up. I find older women attractive that’s all.
Most here have an age range and it seems it would be for the older age range and not from 30 and below.
I’ve just mentioned it and World implodes. People have preferences. "
Don't give up.
I don't know why this particular thread about older women took the turn it did. Usually when someone praises a certain type of woman the responses are mostly very positive.
You can't say you haven't attracted some 'sassy' women to respond though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with expressing your preferences OP. It’s not even like you said that you ‘love older women exclusively’
I have a preference for younger men. When somebody tells me I’m wrong, or ‘haven’t tried the right older guys,’ as if my sexual likes are some kind of inclusivity drive… I tell them to go fuck themselves.
You do you xx
Gary Barlow is more attractive now than when he was younger. Robbie Williams was more attractive when he was younger.
It's all about each person's perception.
David Beckham is soooo much more attractive now he's older."
Yes!
I was going to use an example of women who look better (or worse) when they got older but realised this was a bad idea.  |
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I just like women. I have an age range, as I don't particularly want to jump into a situation with someone the same age as my eldest daughter, but through every age range, attraction goes more than skin deep |
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"I really cannot understand the fascination for age.. is it a badge of honour or just something to tick off on the bucket list?
It is about the person no matter the age. Everyone is special and has something to offer if you look at them and not how old they are."
I don't understand this either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just an older woman who looks after herself and is confident. I love that. Confidence is sexy.
Well i'm 100% of the way there! I'm not interested though ......
BTW ..... by looking after herself do you mean dresses up to please a man or eats all the crisps ?
I need to know."
Quietly puts crisp packet down..... pushes them towards Granny so it looks like they're hers.....  |
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Just an older woman who looks after herself and is confident. I love that. Confidence is sexy.
Well i'm 100% of the way there! I'm not interested though ......
BTW ..... by looking after herself do you mean dresses up to please a man or eats all the crisps ?
I need to know.
Quietly puts crisp packet down..... pushes them towards Granny so it looks like they're hers..... "
If they're beef crisps, pass them over, let's share  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just an older woman who looks after herself and is confident. I love that. Confidence is sexy.
Well i'm 100% of the way there! I'm not interested though ......
BTW ..... by looking after herself do you mean dresses up to please a man or eats all the crisps ?
I need to know.
Quietly puts crisp packet down..... pushes them towards Granny so it looks like they're hers..... "
Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've no issue with a pref for older women, I prefer a man to be younger than me but I'd not message one saying ...you look great, for your age/I've always wanted someone your age/your age turns me on. I think thats what is annoying, well, it is for me.
It doesnt have to be stated, the fact you're contacting them says you like it. You dont have to justify why you're attracted to older women though, it's your thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've no issue with a pref for older women, I prefer a man to be younger than me but I'd not message one saying ...you look great, for your age/I've always wanted someone your age/your age turns me on. I think thats what is annoying, well, it is for me.
It doesnt have to be stated, the fact you're contacting them says you like it. You dont have to justify why you're attracted to older women though, it's your thing "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why can't someone state they like older women (or men for that matter) but it's ok to state other preferences?
BBW, slim, goth etc
Double standards  "
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"Why can't someone state they like older women (or men for that matter) but it's ok to state other preferences?
BBW, slim, goth etc
Double standards "
I don't think it's double standards. Threads often go a certain way based on the tone of contributions. I think that if you post in the forums you need to be aware that you will get different opinions to your own or that a thread might go differently to how you anticipated. |
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"Why can't someone state they like older women (or men for that matter) but it's ok to state other preferences?
BBW, slim, goth etc
Double standards
I don't think it's double standards. Threads often go a certain way based on the tone of contributions. I think that if you post in the forums you need to be aware that you will get different opinions to your own or that a thread might go differently to how you anticipated. "
Yeah that’s understandable but there’s a way of talking to people. always been told “respond to people how you want to be appreciated back” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some absolute sassy sexy older women on here. Stunning.
Love to chat and explore more for sure. "
I get a lot of younger guys checking out my profile but my preference is for older men...
And for those complaining, filters help |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I really cannot understand the fascination for age.. is it a badge of honour or just something to tick off on the bucket list?
It is about the person no matter the age. Everyone is special and has something to offer if you look at them and not how old they are."
For me as a strapping young lad, there's something hot about an older woman. I guess society usually suggests younger women go with older men so it's probably something to do with the opposite of that. I'm no Freud but it's hot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As with any preference - it really depends how you state it. Men who message "I've always wanted to be with an older woman" makes me feel like I'm ticking a box for them. That's not appealing. I want to be appreciated for me, not just because I'm ancient.  |
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Age is just a number really, and it’s all about the person.
I’ve been with women both a little older, and much older than me and we had a lot of fun together.
Conversely, I’ve been with younger women and had fun too.
It all comes down to mental and physical attraction and compatibility.
That all said, I’ve been with more women who are older than younger, but that’s just because I’ve always gotten on better with women older than me than my age or younger |
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I don't like it when people add 'for your age' to anything when they're talking to me. I'm not particularly bothered by being old/older and I'm quite happy if people find me attractive but I don't really like my age being the sole reason they want to interact with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love older women, been with a fair few and dated a woman in her late 40s for a year
But They go 1 of 2 ways
Really carefree and just want to have fun and enjoy life
Bitter and jaded from a bad choices when they were young
Find the fun ones |
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"I really cannot understand the fascination for age.. is it a badge of honour or just something to tick off on the bucket list?
It is about the person no matter the age. Everyone is special and has something to offer if you look at them and not how old they are."
exactly its the person not the age |
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