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Thoughts of swinging, before swinging.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What were your thoughts of swinging, before you started swinging? Did you see it as taboo, a huge risk factor for all involved? (emotions/relationship wise), or something else?
I was totally against being with anybody else, or Mr being with anyone else. I thought it would completely ruin our relationship and we'd not be able to love each other like we did previously.
That thought has been totally busted since we started swinging. I love Mr even more now, it could be time or it could be the swinging effect. Even talking about loving Mr makes me love him even more! How is that possible?  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny. My fantasy turned into a nightmare.
It’s nice to hear stories of how it worked out for couples. Love can stay strong no matter what you do together.
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I had concerns over jealousy and ultimately Mr wanting to leave me for someone else. It's been about realising that wanting to experience something different doesn't mean it's what you want all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly thought it was a bunch of old couples in a house swapping wives and bumping uglies.
Turns out it's a bunch of old couples in a designated club swapping wives and bumping uglies  |
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"I honestly thought it was a bunch of old couples in a house swapping wives and bumping uglies.
Turns out it's a bunch of old couples in a designated club swapping wives and bumping uglies "
Lol ..thank you for making me feel positively ancient and ugly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What were your thoughts of swinging, before you started swinging? Did you see it as taboo, a huge risk factor for all involved? (emotions/relationship wise), or something else?
I was totally against being with anybody else, or Mr being with anyone else. I thought it would completely ruin our relationship and we'd not be able to love each other like we did previously.
That thought has been totally busted since we started swinging. I love Mr even more now, it could be time or it could be the swinging effect. Even talking about loving Mr makes me love him even more! How is that possible?
F"
Mr what have you done with F?
Untie her and put the phone down. We know it's not really F  |
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I can tell you now that at no point in my life previous to Fab did I think I'd be in a swinging marriage. Not that I'm complaining about the odd threesomes and moresomes 
I think I probably had the idea of couples in their 50s dropping keys in a bowl
I'm so grateful to have found K and to be lucky enough to enjoy all these amazing gorgeous people with her, and have the trust for solo adventures
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What were your thoughts of swinging, before you started swinging? Did you see it as taboo, a huge risk factor for all involved? (emotions/relationship wise), or something else?
I was totally against being with anybody else, or Mr being with anyone else. I thought it would completely ruin our relationship and we'd not be able to love each other like we did previously.
That thought has been totally busted since we started swinging. I love Mr even more now, it could be time or it could be the swinging effect. Even talking about loving Mr makes me love him even more! How is that possible?
F
Mr what have you done with F?
Untie her and put the phone down. We know it's not really F "
She's just realising what a wonderful man she married 
Also I'll untie her tomorrow she's asleep now  |
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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago
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The wife wasn't too much into the idea when I fist mentioned it, concerned that jealousy may play a big part in it n could pull us apart.
But after the fist time we both found jealousy played no part n we both loved it.
We have had a few more meats since then n each time pushing the boundaries a bit more.
Like letting her have sex on her own when I'm in another room.
Last meet it was going to be an MFMM meet, but surprise surprise once again got let down with a no show.
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"I honestly thought it was a bunch of old couples in a house swapping wives and bumping uglies.
Turns out it's a bunch of old couples in a designated club swapping wives and bumping uglies "
Yet you're still here! |
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I didn't really think much before to be honest, we joined in the hopes of meeting a woman and we've enjoyed a few of those meets.
I was concerned how I would feel seeing the Mr with someone else for the 1st time, I didn't need to be worried it was all good
I did think I was a bit of a cuckquean but turns out I prefer to join in rather than watch so my views have changed slightly.
It probably has brought us closer in a sense that we are much more open communication wise, more open to trying stuff together we probably wouldn't have discussed previously.
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