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What you do when sex is no more?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a so far dry 2023 I have discovered more hobbies and learned to over come my dyslexia by forcing my self to read and not just look at pictures"
Well done you. That is a great achievement. Try 36 months dry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is what majority are here for.. Yes.. No?
Yes, I am but if sex was no more. I will take up singing and listen to more music might even have a, jam session.. Music wise locally.
Sex is great with right person or people but is it possible, 36 months of going without.
A lot of us are not compatabile, I will find a jam night with compatabile musicians instead.
Music is the food of love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole being good enough thing is something I battle even if I am having lots of sex.
You see I'm perpetually the girl that doesn't get chosen!
Sadly I actually don't have lots of sex. I'd absolutely love to have more but I refuse to have mediocre sex.
I would rather do without.
I write (granted it can be a bit smutty at times) I work hard, I focus my time on all the other things in life.
I'm sure if I woke up tomorrow to be told I'd never have sex again, I'd cope. I'd be sad but after a while I probably wouldn't be that fussed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why men have more real hobbies than women, because sex isn’t on tap for us so we genuinely need stuff to keep us occupied
When my body is too old for sex the amount of sex I’ll be getting won’t be any different to now so I’ll probably just continue with my hobbies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Think about it.
Write about it.
Talk about it.
Draw about it.
Sing about it.
Dream about it.
Think about it....
I find it's best to do it. Then I can get on with my day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
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Anyway. …
me - When my sex drive starts to go, I’ll decide to build a boat. I don’t why? But it sounds cool.
And as i already deal with the fact my face doesn’t want to be snogged on a regular basis in real life, I just play fantasy D&D where I can play a sex god. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The whole being good enough thing is something I battle even if I am having lots of sex.
You see I'm perpetually the girl that doesn't get chosen!
Sadly I actually don't have lots of sex. I'd absolutely love to have more but I refuse to have mediocre sex.
I would rather do without.
I write (granted it can be a bit smutty at times) I work hard, I focus my time on all the other things in life.
I'm sure if I woke up tomorrow to be told I'd never have sex again, I'd cope. I'd be sad but after a while I probably wouldn't be that fussed.
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Most of that I agree with. But I am sad that I’m seeing the best days of my sex life pass by without anyone to share it with. My sex drive is high, I’m open minded, and yet time is passing by with the realisation that, my past is now looked at with missed opportunities.
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Just looked at your profile and you are definitely not unfuckable. You are more than good enough for anyone.
I think one of the problems these days is that we compare ourselves to too much social media. Men have to be ripped whilst women are size 10/12. But in fact sensuality is more in the mind. I look round and I see a lot more sexiness in people who aren't afraid to be who they want to be. Sure they may not be picture perfect but a lot of the times, beauty comes from within. It's no use being the best looking person if you're cold and stuck up.
So be who you are, for most of us aren't that shallow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably forget about it fairly quickly and get on with life as normal.
That’ll be old age helping you forget about things.  "
It’s really starting to take its toll  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hobbies is the key and when you least expect it , it will fall in your lap ( no pun intended) 
I think it’s easy to get stuck in a habit of going the same places doing the same things , seeing the same people , maybe widen your social circle .. failing that buy yourself a special toy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably forget about it fairly quickly and get on with life as normal.
That’ll be old age helping you forget about things.
It’s really starting to take its toll "
Don’t get me started. I got asked my age today and I had the do maths to figure it out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably forget about it fairly quickly and get on with life as normal.
That’ll be old age helping you forget about things.
It’s really starting to take its toll
Don’t get me started. I got asked my age today and I had the do maths to figure it out. "
I’m not quite there yet  |
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I don't really get a huge sex-drive these days until I am with someone who inspires it.
I don't hunger for much at all. Nor do I get bored. I can just laze on a couch and do nothing. Go for a mooch, listen to music, watch a movie, read, game. I like people - those little bubbles of intimacy that form organically. Where it doesn't matter what you do.
I don't like structure and routine. How do you know that's what you will feel like doing next Saturday? I do like: shall we just fuck off to XXX for the weekend or let's fly to the states hire a convertible and hit the road.
I did hedonism hard in my youth. Probably a bit too hard. It was a blast. There's so much to savour in the simple things. I'd rather have a single piece of glorious chocolate melt on my tongue. Than stuff a box of celebrations down my throat.
Well there's what I am doing next, off to the shop for chocolate, I needed milk anyway. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Unfuckable? I ejaculate over your photos.. you're definitely not unfuckable.
When I'm not fucking I do sports. Water sports. |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
Cap d’Agde, France |
Think it’s easier for a woman to become asexual than a man.
We have a friend whom we swung with many years ago with her first husband.
Subsequently they separated , she met another guy which ended when their relationship became toxic.
After 10 years with no sex & various body issues we met again.
Spending 2 weeks with us, a visit to the swinger beach in Cap d’Agde, a club and play visit to L’Extasia, a house party, first fmf, and she’s completely changed.
Now she won’t go back again even told her closest she’d now a libertine.
Yes you can fall out of sex but again you can fall back into it!
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By *edanitoTV/TS
over a year ago
Kings Lynn |
"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
1. It sounds like your really overthinking this because you are extremely fuckable just from glancing at your pics. As people we only ever seem to see/percieve flaws in ourselves which those we interact see them as assets!
And your assests are delectable you attractive,intelligent and sexy woman!
If sex wasnt a thing for me anymore Id take up anything which could get me near to that high/release! Skydiving? Liontamer?(theres whips and chains lol) chemical orgasm tablet tester(when they become a yhink when im 80)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life for me is living. Whether that be going to beach.. Across the road from me. Or couching it bumming it all day.. I decided that I will get on with my life more and if sex fits in sometime somewhere with someone or 100k of you.. No that is not what I am about.
Quality in life as well as sex is dangerous but achieveable. Live for the now we not promised tomorrow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?
Think about it.
Write about it.
Talk about it.
Draw about it.
Sing about it.
Dream about it.
Think about it....
I find it's best to do it. Then I can get on with my day."
Gosh!! This IS what folk do!!! |
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By *assy69Man
over a year ago
West Sussex and Wales |
"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Have just been sent the details for a good read ……. It might help …… Brickmaking: History and Heritage |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I’ve just gotten on with life.
But I do have a very busy hectic life - if I were to sit at home and ruminate as to why I’m not feeling like sex, I guess that might make me have a pity party for one.
But the way I look at it is this, I’d rather have sex that matters with someone that matters than with someone just wanting to fulfill a need. |
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If I had a partner, I'd just need to communicate extensively and I hope, come to an outcome that we'd all be happy with. It strikes me as something that I'd really struggle with but the love and support of a partner could help with and may show a route away from, as I'd not want to fully end my sexual life.
I'd also assess what sexual satisfaction gave me and look for alternative ways to gain replacement satisfaction, so I had a less empty life. I know from my own experience that changes may be temporary and I'd expect that may continue. But I'd absolutely not add any pressure to change and revert to how I'd been before. Forwards only. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
You look perfectly fuckable to me OP
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
You look perfectly fuckable to me OP
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex is what majority are here for.. Yes.. No?
Yes, I am but if sex was no more. I will take up singing and listen to more music might even have a, jam session.. Music wise locally.
Sex is great with right person or people but is it possible, 36 months of going without.
A lot of us are not compatabile, I will find a jam night with compatabile musicians instead.
Music is the food of love"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gotten on with life.
But I do have a very busy hectic life - if I were to sit at home and ruminate as to why I’m not feeling like sex, I guess that might make me have a pity party for one.
But the way I look at it is this, I’d rather have sex that matters with someone that matters than with someone just wanting to fulfill a need."
I think it's probably easier to cope with when you look as attractive as you do and know you could have your pick of would be suitors if you felt the urge to have sex again. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Firstly, 'unfuckable' is not the adjective that springs to mind when I look at you - quite the opposite in fact... a sentiment I'd be happy to prove.
What would I do if sex wasn't a thing any more?.. well, I'd do precise what I am doing since I'm already in that position - for me, and many others I imagine, it's not hypothetical. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
I can recommend ironing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough "
I don't want to answer your questions. I want to know why a beautiful, smart, funny woman thinks she's unfuckable and not good enough.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough
I don't want to answer your questions. I want to know why a beautiful, smart, funny woman thinks she's unfuckable and not good enough. "
This |
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I'm not looking towards my "sex is no more" twilight years. I still very much enjoy the pleasure principle that keeps the embers of my desires glowing.
My libido isn't like what is used to be ten years ago: spontaneous, uncontrollable erections during my working day - both equally delightful and inconvenient.
These days my sex drive idles comfortably like a waiting car. It only goes into overdrive if I'm chatting to someone who - as •Hansoffate• perfectly states – when I'm in the company of someone who "inspires it", through sexually-charged written communication or 'lovestruck' phone calls or an imminent meet; anything that fuels that sexual frisson.
I do however sometimes miss those spontaneous erections. It's a manly thing...  |
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"I don't want to answer your questions. I want to know why a beautiful, smart, funny woman thinks she's unfuckable and not good enough. "
I’m glad someone said this, so I don’t have to.
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"I'm sure if I woke up tomorrow to be told I'd never have sex again, I'd cope. I'd be sad but after a while I probably wouldn't be that fussed."
Do I need to wave my erection in your face again and remind you how much you’re wanted? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what, I'm done.
I'm absolutely done.
I can't take another person doing me down. I'm not good enough, I get it "
Are you ok Op.. I am worried about you. If you need a chat woman to woman.. |
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You sound like you're having a rough time.
For what it's worth the people fucking you about and letting you down likely do it to everyone else as well, doubt its because of you.
Easier said than done but try not to take it personally. You'll have sex again with someone you like, and you won't even think about the letdowns anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Daily life takes a lot time out for ourselves lately. Kid,work, gym,dog and besides this other responsibilities,can’t always put sex above all.
Sex is only small part of relationship in the end you fell in love with person not with his dick or vagina. If there’s no mutual attraction,then have to ask,why you’re even with that person if you can’t even touch them, you know ?
We both go to gym, well Fel goes more than me. I take dog for walk and train her a lot. Keeping busy with other things. But still even we don’t get freaky,I keep him on toes with pictures while he’s at work.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what, I'm done.
I'm absolutely done.
I can't take another person doing me down. I'm not good enough, I get it "
There's no such thing as 'not good enough' just people who you're incompatible with! Chances are your life will be far better without them in it, fuck 'em, hold your head high, let them take their shots and ignore the bullshit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what, I'm done.
I'm absolutely done.
I can't take another person doing me down. I'm not good enough, I get it "
Ignore them.
Look for the people who lift you up. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what, I'm done.
I'm absolutely done.
I can't take another person doing me down. I'm not good enough, I get it "
Don't talk to the wrong people. Any turns on you, walk away or swipe however it works on fab...Don't worry every time a dog barks at you. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Well first I think you’re defo fuckable and more than enough, but I do now and then feel myself drifting away from sex. Sometimes is just the effort I put in to not get the same back. But I’m open minded with it and sure I will get my mojo back. I do go for walks, forest adventures as in walks and end up watching crap tele |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?
I can recommend ironing. "
Posh! |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
I honestly don’t even wanna thing about it.
More seriously, obviously I have no real idea what is making you feel so down in yourself, but given what you bring to the forums I wish I could make it better. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Why do you think you're unfuckable Op? Personal issues or lack of decent interest?
If sex were no more, I'd focus more on hobbies such as drawing, painting or maybe pick up the guitar again. Many creative outlets that energy could be diverted to. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Op I have no idea why and how you feel like this! You look incredible, its been a long time for me hahahaa I tinker on cars but its not the same lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Really didn't think you'd feel the way you do about sex but to answer your question...Music .. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
You are joking ...I would be first in the queue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex is so far down my priority list I don't think I'd even care if someone told me I'd never have sex again."
No way ??? What do you think or feel that way ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex is what majority are here for.. Yes.. No?
Yes, I am but if sex was no more. I will take up singing and listen to more music might even have a, jam session.. Music wise locally.
Sex is great with right person or people but is it possible, 36 months of going without.
A lot of us are not compatabile, I will find a jam night with compatabile musicians instead.
Music is the food of love"
It sure is ..music ...it's always there. |
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"You know what, I'm done.
I'm absolutely done.
I can't take another person doing me down. I'm not good enough, I get it "
I've often felt like this, but then someone comes along and changes that.
It's definitely not a you problem x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what, I'm done.
I'm absolutely done.
I can't take another person doing me down. I'm not good enough, I get it
I've often felt like this, but then someone comes along and changes that.
It's definitely not a you problem x"
No he’s too young for her. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
You are good enough, you are enough
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By *teve 69Man
over a year ago
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I haven’t got tattoos, I haven’t got a beard and I don’t think bi and now bad news , I’m sorry you can’t have sex agian !
But you seem Very nice, so this is a one and only offer, I’ll let you have sex one more time , and as a favour and you can have it with me
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I’m already living that life. Spend time with friends and family doing fun stuff, enjoying my single sexless life. It’s just the same but without the sex I don’t miss sex. I miss intimacy that is not sex based. I’ve not had emotional intimacy for longer than I’ve not had sex. I miss it but I can survive without it. Just do things that make you happy, enjoy life with those who are important to you. |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Please don't think that you are unfuckable. You're a serious bird but if sex didn't exist anymore. Socialise other ways. Meet people, drink, cards but it's all very boring when there is no possibility of sex |
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"Watch series' on Netflix, or read more.
Sex takes up so little of my time anyway there's not much of a hole to fill when I don't have it."
Sorry but buckled at that last bit |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
I am lost. For the OP to put this post. From her photo’s , yes no face . But lovely body . Not sure why no sex . No disrespect. But a lot easier for a female on Fab or in real world. OP has that many males to choose from. If OP was a male posting then yes . A lot of variations come into play to have sex. I live in hope , even at my age . Do admit that finding someone on Fab or another site is now getting less likely .
So not sure why OP posting this thread ? |
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Think I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it. I have enough worries and stress without hypothesising about more. I’m assuming one day I’ll start to dry up, but thank heavens that day is not today |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
"Sex is what majority are here for.. Yes.. No?
Yes, I am but if sex was no more. I will take up singing and listen to more music might even have a, jam session.. Music wise locally.
Sex is great with right person or people but is it possible, 36 months of going without.
A lot of us are not compatabile, I will find a jam night with compatabile musicians instead.
Music is the food of love"
If music be the food of love, then why don't rabbits play banjos??? |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Sex! SEX !!!
I ant got time for sex. I'm doing too many other things like walking the Munroes, kayaking down rivers, riding my fair steed or trying to visit all the places in my English Heritage book (Audley End House today on my bike).
But, if sex was no more, I'd only really have enough time to take up Full Contact Tiddlywinks.
And Au contrare mon fem petite, you are exceedingly @#&%*!£^.
Just my ten penneth...
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?
Sex! SEX !!!
I ant got time for sex. I'm doing too many other things like walking the Munroes, kayaking down rivers, riding my fair steed or trying to visit all the places in my English Heritage book (Audley End House today on my bike).
But, if sex was no more, I'd only really have enough time to take up Full Contact Tiddlywinks.
And Au contrare mon fem petite, you are exceedingly @#&%*!£^.
Just my ten penneth...
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I think I'd complete my list of galleries. I like those, I can get lost in a gallery and the rest of the world just disappears.
Your bike looks sexy, I absolutely love being on the back of a bike. Maybe I should learn to ride one myself. Swap one ride for a different type that's still enjoyable!
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
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Always happy to take a pillion passenger, but I'm afraid I paid the Heritage membership and I'm going to bloody well use it.
Bikes are awesome. It's other car drivers that scare me.
So. If you have some time, do your bike test !!! |
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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
join a swingers club or naturist club |
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"I am lost. For the OP to put this post. From her photo’s , yes no face . But lovely body . Not sure why no sex . No disrespect. But a lot easier for a female on Fab or in real world. OP has that many males to choose from. If OP was a male posting then yes . A lot of variations come into play to have sex. I live in hope , even at my age . Do admit that finding someone on Fab or another site is now getting less likely .
So not sure why OP posting this thread ? "
Men will fuck any warm body that offers.
Women often want to find the owner of the body attractive in some way.
No matter if 10 million men offered to shag a woman, if she is not attracted to any of them...... |
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"I am lost. For the OP to put this post. From her photo’s , yes no face . But lovely body . Not sure why no sex . No disrespect. But a lot easier for a female on Fab or in real world. OP has that many males to choose from. If OP was a male posting then yes . A lot of variations come into play to have sex. I live in hope , even at my age . Do admit that finding someone on Fab or another site is now getting less likely .
So not sure why OP posting this thread ?
Men will fuck any warm body that offers.
Women often want to find the owner of the body attractive in some way.
No matter if 10 million men offered to shag a woman, if she is not attracted to any of them......"
Add to that respectful too and you're pretty much likely to be like a nun! |
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"I am lost. For the OP to put this post. From her photo’s , yes no face . But lovely body . Not sure why no sex . No disrespect. But a lot easier for a female on Fab or in real world. OP has that many males to choose from. If OP was a male posting then yes . A lot of variations come into play to have sex. I live in hope , even at my age . Do admit that finding someone on Fab or another site is now getting less likely .
So not sure why OP posting this thread ? "
Because the OP is hurting. Women can have a hard time here as well, they just aren't as vocal about it as men. I don't think commenting that women have so much choice and how much easier it is was helpful. |
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PW you are nowhere near the end your extremely desirable and clearly very down to earth. We all have times like these but definitely after 7 months you should be able to focus on exactly what you are enjoying at meets and personally I would focus on these. I did exactly that and it opens up a whole new arena of fun. It could be sub/Dom it could be role play and each of these have so much scope it would take years to become bored. The forums are the best place to start looking at the people who are focused on that little element and change your profile accordingly. Sorry if I went on too long
What ever you do don't give up
If you want to feel free to PM me as I was in a similar situation for about two years leading up to lockdown |
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"I am lost. For the OP to put this post. From her photo’s , yes no face . But lovely body . Not sure why no sex . No disrespect. But a lot easier for a female on Fab or in real world. OP has that many males to choose from. If OP was a male posting then yes . A lot of variations come into play to have sex. I live in hope , even at my age . Do admit that finding someone on Fab or another site is now getting less likely .
So not sure why OP posting this thread ?
Men will fuck any warm body that offers.
Women often want to find the owner of the body attractive in some way.
No matter if 10 million men offered to shag a woman, if she is not attracted to any of them......"
Totally untrue. Over the years I have turned down opportunities, not because I wasn’t tempted but because I had morals back then.
If there is no sex any more it’s due to a lack of appeal or a lack of will. I don’t know the op well enough to say which. |
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"I am lost. For the OP to put this post. From her photo’s , yes no face . But lovely body . Not sure why no sex . No disrespect. But a lot easier for a female on Fab or in real world. OP has that many males to choose from. If OP was a male posting then yes . A lot of variations come into play to have sex. I live in hope , even at my age . Do admit that finding someone on Fab or another site is now getting less likely .
So not sure why OP posting this thread ?
Men will fuck any warm body that offers.
Women often want to find the owner of the body attractive in some way.
No matter if 10 million men offered to shag a woman, if she is not attracted to any of them......
Add to that respectful too and you're pretty much likely to be like a nun! "
Yep! Today I choose nun. |
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It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
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Hash brown? Sausage mcmuffin?
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
Hash brown? Sausage mcmuffin?
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2 hash browns surely |
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
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Hopefully with a new perspective after reflection |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
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Damn... I think I've just met the female version of me....
Girl, we go together like oil and water !!!
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
Hopefully with a new perspective after reflection "
Yeah I'll just find a submissive man that won't fucking argue and complain |
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
Hopefully with a new perspective after reflection "
Not sure why PW is the one who needs a new perspective here.
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
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I kinda like it when you’re venting, reading through I could feel the intensity. Go PW you know you’ll bounce back |
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"It's easy for a woman to lose the will on here when she's given a lot only to find a man will take and take and take and then discard her the second she doesn't do what he wants. And then he'll play the victim and be nasty.
Driving miles to see someone, staying with them overnight, staying for several nights, meals out, cooking meals, booking tickets for date like things, your high sex drive with all your kinks on tap throughout.....isn't enough, they want more or something you clearly stated wasn't available to them or they bitch and whine that you didn't do something they think you should have.
I'm just fucked off. I'll whinge, I'll vent and they'll I'll bounce back.
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Sound intense. Someone didn't read the small print... |
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"I'm starting to think I'm very unfuckable and considering throwing in the towel completely.
I'm simply not good enough, or enough.
It got me thinking.
What do you do when sex is no more? Take up a hobby and play bridge? Or bingo?
But what if you're not old?
What do asexuals do with their time?
Don't get me wrong my life doesn't revolve around sex but it does add a fair amount of excitement.
What do you think you'd do if sex wasn't a thing anymore?"
Spend a few years wrestling with yourself... Hating it... Then move on.. |
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I hope soon things simmer down for you xxxx