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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago
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Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.
I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.
I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"
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We have met plenty of couples who only one of them actually does account admin.
For example Jools hardly ever uses the forum,she will occasionally very occasionally post on here or sometimes her single account.
She leaves most of the stuff to me on here.
Doesn't mean she's not real,she reads everything like a silent business partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!"
If I let her do the cooking it would be a single female profile! Bahasa  |
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"Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.
I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.
I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"
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There must be a certain thrill in extracting pics and videos from people because like you say. Why do it when you can just watch porn. I've thought this for years even going back to my online dating days. Just such a waste of time picture collectors. I now share very little privately. Just a face pic or two. |
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We've experienced a few chancers message us on here we suspect. But we don't interact a lot online so the chances are the slightest tingling of the spidy senses and we're probably not going to interact. We mainly do our swinging at clubs and parties. It's kind of hard to fake being a couple in the real world unless you've got a very convincingly blow up doll  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting question?
Do girls ever pretend to be couples or dudes? Not that I’ve ever seen…. I could be wrong though.
Kinda tells you something lol
I don’t get the false profile thing, but do wish Reading someone’s bloody profile was somehow mandatory ?? |
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"Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.
I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.
I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"
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Even then people are always what they seem or try to portray....not every one is as genuine they seem, be careful out there op its a dangerous world, full of fucked up people... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think also some men get a kick out of showing intimate pics of their wife off in a 'joint' account. The wife probably has no idea that her trust has been betrayed. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!
One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him."
Did you chat to him for a week? |
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"Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.
I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.
I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"
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“I’m Brian, and so’s my wife”.  |
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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago
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"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!
One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him.
Did you chat to him for a week?"
I know where you are going with this.
Yes I did chat to him on and off over a week after realising very quickly he was just another single guy posing as a couple.
Put it down to research to see how long he could keep up the pretence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!
One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him.
Did you chat to him for a week?
I know where you are going with this.
Yes I did chat to him on and off over a week after realising very quickly he was just another single guy posing as a couple.
Put it down to research to see how long he could keep up the pretence."
You will have learned more about that type of man so you can avoid in the future.
If you did sex chat, that answers your OP. He was having fun wanking about a 'real meet'. It's personalised porn. |
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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago
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"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!
One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him.
Did you chat to him for a week?
I know where you are going with this.
Yes I did chat to him on and off over a week after realising very quickly he was just another single guy posing as a couple.
Put it down to research to see how long he could keep up the pretence.
You will have learned more about that type of man so you can avoid in the future.
If you did sex chat, that answers your OP. He was having fun wanking about a 'real meet'. It's personalised porn."
I purposely avoided sex chat. |
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Because they're sad, depraved and desperate for attention. It's pathetic and they're spotted a mile off.
Tell tale signs on first appearance:
- Only verified by 1 cam and it's bloke.
- No verifications at all.
- Won't get photo verified.
- Low quality photos of the female on the profile
We all know how to spot them, there's other ways too but let's not make it easy for them to sneak through.
Cunts. 
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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Because they're sad, depraved and desperate for attention. It's pathetic and they're spotted a mile off.
Tell tale signs on first appearance:
- Only verified by 1 cam and it's bloke.
- No verifications at all.
- Won't get photo verified.
- Low quality photos of the female on the profile
We all know how to spot them, there's other ways too but let's not make it easy for them to sneak through.
Cunts.
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Couldn't have put it better myself. |
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"I had one the other day asking to rate his wife, I said “not gonna answer that unless your wife knows”
They’re no longer on the site  "
Thanks for the integrity there. Men challenging men is so important.
I hate all the wife chat and sharing threads in the other forums.
Always want to ask
Did your wife consent to this !!! |
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"I had one the other day asking to rate his wife, I said “not gonna answer that unless your wife knows”
They’re no longer on the site
Thanks for the integrity there. Men challenging men is so important.
I hate all the wife chat and sharing threads in the other forums.
Always want to ask
Did your wife consent to this !!! "
Ah you’re very welcome I find that a lot of the time on places like this integrity is often lacking.
I agree with your wife chat comment, I hardly believe their wives know they’re doing this. |
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"I do that.
Just trying to work out why they do it."
Try this for size. Wanking and watching porn is okay ........ BUT pretending to be a couple and speaking to ( let's say you ) you , they can take their fantasy that one step further. In their head they are acting out their desire with a real person and getting real time responses.....
Just DONT have conversations until you have seen a cam or spoken on the phone at least. Even then keep the convos short until you have met.
If they are a long time before they will cam or speak ...... STOP the conversations and block.
Why do people keep allowing themselves to be take for fools is the Q I always ask myself ..... |
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It's easy to change from Couple to Single isn't it? I used to get emailed quite a lot by someone who just never did it, and at some point I just realised that he didn't really want to. I think his actual 'now single' status was something he eventually brought up in the chat. But why waste your own time and others? I was actually looking for single people, but I didn't appreciate his dishonesty at all.
And we always have our profile text too (serious people *do* look at them) so there is never any excuse to mislead in this way.
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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I do that.
Just trying to work out why they do it.
Try this for size. Wanking and watching porn is okay ........ BUT pretending to be a couple and speaking to ( let's say you ) you , they can take their fantasy that one step further. In their head they are acting out their desire with a real person and getting real time responses.....
Just DONT have conversations until you have seen a cam or spoken on the phone at least. Even then keep the convos short until you have met.
If they are a long time before they will cam or speak ...... STOP the conversations and block.
Why do people keep allowing themselves to be take for fools is the Q I always ask myself ..... "
But I do I know until I have messaged them in the first instance? |
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"I do that.
Just trying to work out why they do it.
Try this for size. Wanking and watching porn is okay ........ BUT pretending to be a couple and speaking to ( let's say you ) you , they can take their fantasy that one step further. In their head they are acting out their desire with a real person and getting real time responses.....
Just DONT have conversations until you have seen a cam or spoken on the phone at least. Even then keep the convos short until you have met.
If they are a long time before they will cam or speak ...... STOP the conversations and block.
Why do people keep allowing themselves to be take for fools is the Q I always ask myself ..... "
And it's perplexing how some will engage in sexual chat too  |
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