I don't think the ethnicity plays a part for me.
Most of my partners have been pasty white, but then I don't live in an exactly diverse area, and growing up goth that pasty whiteness is a plus.
But I've met beautiful people of all colours over the years.
The people I'm drawn to don't tend to adhere to cultural norms, so there's no culture draw based on ethnicity either. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Find people more attractive based on what ethnicity they are?
Cause I sure as shit don't in a negative way. But I do South Asian skin tones so fucking hot. Who knows why!"
I like south Asian & Arabic skin tones. Guess it’s a bit of a fetish because growing up those women were all around but were pretty much off-limits.
But if I find someone hot, the skin tone and make up (or lack of) is hot whether, it’s pale, olive skinned, South Asian or Southeast Asian |
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No, I don’t have ethnicity preferences. But, like Prey, I grew up in a place that wasn’t very diverse. And where I live now isn’t, either. So that’s had an effect on what ethnicities my partners have been over the years. |
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This is going to sound all muddled ...but growing up...going through college and university I would engage with all ethnicities; I genuinely found them attractive and would sometimes ask them out. Only the Caucasian girls would accept my invitations to court.
I grew up in a diverse milieu but cultural 'restrictions' meant that Asian girls were mostly reticent to meet, date or commit, much to my bewilderment.
Basically what I'm saying is I've only ever been with white women, but it was never by design. |
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It is all about the particular person. You can't base likes and dislikes on ethnicity and let's not forget not everyone within a particular ethnic group looks the same. Attraction to someone is a combination of so many difefferent things. The colour of their skin may or may not feature at all. And also preferences, whatever they might be, should not be confused with outright prejudices which sadly also exist. If everybody liked the same, it would be a very boring world.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest thing for me me is them just being a nice respectful human that can hold a conversation and we engage each others minds enough to want to spend time with each other !!
But I’m a simple creature  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No. It's not a thing for me. I do understand it's a thing for some and why it could be but I've never experienced it.
I have noticed that if I'm seeing someone/like someone I'm more likely to notice others who are similar to them. Not sure why that is. Right now I'm finding dark hair and blue eyes very attractive. In a few months that'll probably change.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often wonder if people that fancy me, fancy me because of my ethnicities or skin colour. I hope there’s more than that to it. I don’t think about it much to be honest but from time to time it is on my mind.
I grew up in a richly ethnically diverse environment, but people were just treated as people. I myself am a weird mix ethnically, but yet I identify as Latina. Despite this, somehow, some way I’ve only ever ended up with white men. With women, I’ve been more diverse but again it’s not due to seeking out individuals by ethnicities only. |
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