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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...... so how are you supposed to meet?!!
Just been winked, with this on their profile. "
More than likely they can't accomodate but want to meet locally as in not travel far. |
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It's a paradox and I'd clarify in my profile, if I'd selected those options.
I'm a little too tightly fixated on the literal meaning. I include people who meet at hotels as that they can accom. Fab could do with a few more options to help to simplify things |
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"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that  "
Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either.  |
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"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that
Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either. "
My experience is that the positive leads to people just assuming they can take what they like.
"Can accommodate" means "I'm coming over". "Can travel" means "you're coming hundreds of miles".
What if I can accommodate occasionally, people I know and trust, and I'm only prepared to travel locally? Either way I'm going to piss people off, no matter what I choose (because reading is hard and people are entitled) |
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"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that
Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either. "
They probably want to go out… but whether that’s “out out” will depend on who is messaging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that
Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either. "
Exactly that. You aren't coming here but I'm not prepared to travel the earth to suck on your dick sunshine  |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that
Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either. "
How does it equate to not wanting to go out?? I mean, I don't drive so I would probably have to meet at least within the town I live in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it in mine. It puts off those incapable of thinking outside the box "
Haha. Exactly this.
I have this on my profile but it hasn't stopped me meeting!!
From my point of view, I'm sick of guys assuming that I will accommodate them 25/7 and I will travel hundreds of miles if I say I can to either option. Neither is the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cannot travel 360 miles for a neros lol
I have travelled but by coach not car to reach out and stay in hotel but when cost of living is damaging my purse.. Not yet
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"I don't drive and my daughter lives with me. I find ways.
This is same for me! Don't drive and have 2 daughters living at home! Very very rare I'm ever home alone! One works from home x"
Yes mine too! I did have both until recently but she's bought a house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it to mean can’t travel far.
If I drive 2hrs out and 2hrs back then I’ve no time to do anything. "
Someone drove from Bromich to Kent.. It is doable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have it in mine. It puts off those incapable of thinking outside the box
Haha. Exactly this.
I have this on my profile but it hasn't stopped me meeting!!
From my point of view, I'm sick of guys assuming that I will accommodate them 25/7 and I will travel hundreds of miles if I say I can to either option. Neither is the case. "
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