I understand and appreciate what this site is about as I've been here on and off over a great length of time.
Because my profile is 100% honest and I face up to the realities of life I've found many people want to discuss my experiences and evaluate it with their journeys.
Do others on here find that the realities of the fundamentals of this site and their personal lives clash and do they encourage this to help others?
I for one will continue to help others on the somewhat daunting journey they and I travel.
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"I have been fairly open about my particular issue. This has prompted others to contact me and the ensuing discussions have been mutually supportive. "
This is whats happening to me and I fully support helping others  |
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"It's not something I advertise, but if friends/family or assorted others found out about it I really wouldn't care that much.
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It's more the issues I am dealing/dealt with rather than friends and family finding out but like you I'd cope if they did |
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There's a clear delineation between my life on here (fab and the fora) and my real life. My circumstances for being on here aren't unusual but there's nothing remarkable about my story and journey that would warrant anyone asking for help.
The help - for whatever reason otherwise - is there if they wish to reach out. |
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Sharing life experiences is something I cherish dearly and feel a privilege to receive.
I believe it can help people, but it is not my motivation, intimacy is. I am approachable for support and have reached out to and for others.
I am quite sure that in itself clashes with how some people choose to relate to others.
I don't have a preformed idea of what the fundamentals of the site are. I don't find it a challenge to operate within the rules. I am not sure I have understood that part fully, apologies. |
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I think that if you're able to help people through the same thing you're experiencing it's a good thing...as long as you also get support.
If any experience from my 'real' life could help someone I'd try to do whatever I felt able to. |
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"Sharing life experiences is something I cherish dearly and feel a privilege to receive.
I believe it can help people, but it is not my motivation, intimacy is. I am approachable for support and have reached out to and for others.
I am quite sure that in itself clashes with how some people choose to relate to others.
I don't have a preformed idea of what the fundamentals of the site are. I don't find it a challenge to operate within the rules. I am not sure I have understood that part fully, apologies."
Primarily its a sex site but I get people are all here for their own reasons and use the site for their own purposes wants and desires - I initially joined many years ago and have had a lot of fun along the way in the forums at socials and meeting people and still do although less in the forums these days but part of me has shared a lot of conversations with people who have experienced or are experiencing their journey and I was very curious whether others have experienced being supportive to others in an equally similar situation - I dint think I explained this very well |
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"I think that if you're able to help people through the same thing you're experiencing it's a good thing...as long as you also get support.
If any experience from my 'real' life could help someone I'd try to do whatever I felt able to."
Deffo this |
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"There's a clear delineation between my life on here (fab and the fora) and my real life. My circumstances for being on here aren't unusual but there's nothing remarkable about my story and journey that would warrant anyone asking for help.
The help - for whatever reason otherwise - is there if they wish to reach out."
I like this and get it |
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