I mean, as long as the person I'm with is interested in my genitalia in the relevant moments, does it matter what genitalia they're interested in in others?

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I mean, as long as the person I'm with is interested in my genitalia in the relevant moments, does it matter what genitalia they're interested in in others?"

It shouldn’t but to some it does. Quite why that might be is something for them to answer.

In a one on one situation, I can only assume one or two reasons why who a bisexual guy has been with previously might be an issue

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By *s-two-75Couple over a year ago

As stated by previous comments some do some dont.

Mrs us-two loves it and that’s all that counts for us.

We see a lot of biphobia and false information and stigma around bi men here, but If bi is not for you then jog on to another profile is our approach

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By *ack201895Man over a year ago

Manchester

I've found most people are either indifferent or don't like it. Only a handful of people have considered it a positive, most of them couples.

But of course that's just my experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Very well said. I couldn't agree more. I haven't come across any women being bi phobic towards men, just men being bi phobic towards other men however, they would be so happy to be with a bi woman. What is the difference?

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

Not all but some yes, one of my old fwb said it was a turn off for her if she knew a guy was bi and that's fair enough because it's just a preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very well said. I couldn't agree more. I haven't come across any women being bi phobic towards men, just men being bi phobic towards other men however, they would be so happy to be with a bi woman. What is the difference?

You know that men and women have different bodies?

The phobia comments... I'd rather be childishly called homophobic/ biphobic than fuck someone I'm not attracted to.

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By *s-two-75Couple over a year ago

Bi women are seen as feminine, sexy and a turn on to both men and women.

Falsely, Bi men are portrayed to be not masculine, which is complete bollocks, I’ve known gay men who are more masculine than straight people and you never guess for 1 minute are gay.

Then there’s the camp that think a bi man is high risk, which again is false as most of us get regular tested, all jabbed and take extra precautions such as prep.

More at risk from the cheating straight married ones who never tests ever as they can’t escape the wife or think they are fine and no risk.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Totally depends on the man, bisexuality on its own no.... if I find the man a turn on then he'll still be a turn on if he is bisexual.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Bi women are seen as feminine, sexy and a turn on to both men and women.

Falsely, Bi men are portrayed to be not masculine, which is complete bollocks, I’ve known gay men who are more masculine than straight people and you never guess for 1 minute are gay.

Then there’s the camp that think a bi man is high risk, which again is false as most of us get regular tested, all jabbed and take extra precautions such as prep.

More at risk from the cheating straight married ones who never tests ever as they can’t escape the wife or think they are fine and no risk."

Again very wise words.

I know I'm not exactly a big buff man, I have a dad bod.

I do agree that the straight married men with the wondering eye are a higher risk, as they don't test at all.

I am married myself and we used to swing together within the bi and straight communities. I'm now on a single profile with my wife's blessing as she no longer takes part in the scene. We are both still tested regularly even if I've not met, as our own sexual health is important to us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All of them? No