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Whats the first thing you look for on a profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just message them and ask for a fuck. No point looking at the profile, we're all on here for the same thing. Age, sexuality, location, it's all irrelevant. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I just message them and ask for a fuck. No point looking at the profile, we're all on here for the same thing. Age, sexuality, location, it's all irrelevant. "
,, no messing straight to the point,,
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"I just message them and ask for a fuck. No point looking at the profile, we're all on here for the same thing. Age, sexuality, location, it's all irrelevant. "
Guess who inbox is going to be full. |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
1st Bio - I want info about who they are as a person. Some humour, some personality. A sense of could I share a drink with them and enjoy thier company. An idea for a conversation opener and if I might be what they are looking for.
2nd pics - if they only have lots of dick pics or pics with other people then probably not going to be a match
3rd veris - what was said about them and what did they say about the other person.
4th location - I really need to move this up higher.
5th preferences. |
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Bio first. If it’s a few words. Delete
Then pics. No public pics. Delete
Then look if pics are old. If they are. Delete
Then look if pics have them “balls deep” in someone else. Delete.
Then look if they’re verified. If not. Delete.
Then possibly read message. Maybe.
Then might reply.
I’m a hard taskmaster… but it works for me  |
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Pictures first.
We're not superficial, we read the bio and key information next and it doesn't matter how attractive they are to us if it reads they're not for us then they're not for us. Then if that's all good the verifications. But a good photo range both tell us do we find them physically attractive (obviously no good reading futher if we don't). And most importantly it then gives us a very quick insight to what they're like in terms of personality and how they like to enjoy the lifestyle. For example do they like rope, the outdoors, are they serious or do they not take themselves too seriously etc. We like profiles that have pictures that give a flavour of the person or couple. Specifically with couples we like to see a good range of the male too (it's not blind date) and photos of the couple together and how they are with each other. We like secure power couples who are very much in love and in harmony with each other. You sometimes get a sense of this in photos. |
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By *ntcovMan
over a year ago
Church Gresley / Swadlincote |
Thumbnail pic, if that sparks interest then I'll look at more, starting with location, for some reason I get a lot from Ireland and Scotland looking aty profile and messaging... flattering but not practical distance wise. |
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Location, age, build, bio, veris and sense of humour.
Currently looking for a 60 year old midget from Cork who dishes it out like a Bombay money lender whom I should 'treat this one with respect and you will get your just rewards'.
Call me picky but... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How they’ve written their Bio.
Does it come across friendly & easy going? "
I was just told I appear headstrong from my bio. Not quite the vibe I was going for.  |
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Pics first, then i look to see if they are interested in TVs.
If thats all good I read the profile, providing they are close enough to meet x
Having said that I get a lot of messages from straight guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .
Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?"
You are verified. |
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"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .
Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?"
Yes.
And somehow I managed to get verified and then keep on getting them. What do you mean ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .
Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?"
Stop looking for extrinsic reasons why you haven't found what you wanted. Look at yourself - that's all you can change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First, smoker status.
Then if they are looking for guys, if so, I scan quickly if they mention height as I’m 5’9 I don’t see the point if the woman/ couple are looking for 6ft +. It’s fair as we all have preferences.
Then I read the bio  |
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By *atnayCouple
over a year ago
STEVENAGE |
Verifications, bio and then pics.
If I'm meeting someone off fab. I want to know they are verified. Safety thing I guess. Seconded, want to know if they're what I'm looking for and then if I like pics I'll go from there. N |
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"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .
Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?
You are verified."
I'm not meet verified though ,which is the brick wall I hit when viewing the majority of profiles I am attracted too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"
I read their profile to see would there be a mental connection , both have to be connected, no point in just one being interested. |
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