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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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Because it's too early for such an aggressive subject.
First thing - good morning forum people! Hope your Sundays are happy ones.
So, second. When did you last say fuck it? Whether it was to not going for something, not messaging someone, a situation, whatever.
Are you good at recognising and going for what you want, leaning in to it? Or are you prone to overthinking/cautious? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Morning Meli. We throw caution to the wind and say fuck it all the time, normally when we have free time together. It will either be 'fuck it, let's hit a club' or 'fuck it, let's jump in the car, drive and find a hotel wherever we end up'. Life's never dull, last week week said fuck it, got dolled up and walked into a very posh hotel like we owned the place, we then proceeded to have afternoon tea before requesting the concierge order us a taxi.  |
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Morning Meli!
I say 'fuck it' fairly often but about small things and usually not in an overly positive way as it's because I'm doing something I shouldn't (such as buying myself something I don't need/can't really afford) to cheer myself up. 'Fuck it' is often a surrender rather than an affirmation. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Morning Meli. We throw caution to the wind and say fuck it all the time, normally when we have free time together. It will either be 'fuck it, let's hit a club' or 'fuck it, let's jump in the car, drive and find a hotel wherever we end up'. Life's never dull, last week week said fuck it, got dolled up and walked into a very posh hotel like we owned the place, we then proceeded to have afternoon tea before requesting the concierge order us a taxi. "
Oh that sounds fantastic! What a way to do it - impromptu afternoon tea sounds brilliant. You might have inspired me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning Meli. We throw caution to the wind and say fuck it all the time, normally when we have free time together. It will either be 'fuck it, let's hit a club' or 'fuck it, let's jump in the car, drive and find a hotel wherever we end up'. Life's never dull, last week week said fuck it, got dolled up and walked into a very posh hotel like we owned the place, we then proceeded to have afternoon tea before requesting the concierge order us a taxi.
Oh that sounds fantastic! What a way to do it - impromptu afternoon tea sounds brilliant. You might have inspired me."
Go to the gothem hotel manchester, floor 6 and breeze past the attendant and up the stairs to the most upper class cigar bar you will ever see, back down to level 6 and into the resteraunt for tea. Once you finish ask at reception if the hotel Bentley can drop you at the station |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Morning Meli!
I say 'fuck it' fairly often but about small things and usually not in an overly positive way as it's because I'm doing something I shouldn't (such as buying myself something I don't need/can't really afford) to cheer myself up. 'Fuck it' is often a surrender rather than an affirmation. "
Morning O-F!
Ah, I'd not thought too much on the surrender idea as being something of a negative. I guess at least it's about relatively small things? It doesn't sound great though, x
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Oh. Often.
Given half a moment I'll overthink and destroy the joy in something by pulling it into a thousand pieces and picking at every flaw.
I often tell myself fuck it to allow myself to just enjoy something for the joy of itself  |
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"Morning Meli!
I say 'fuck it' fairly often but about small things and usually not in an overly positive way as it's because I'm doing something I shouldn't (such as buying myself something I don't need/can't really afford) to cheer myself up. 'Fuck it' is often a surrender rather than an affirmation.
Morning O-F!
Ah, I'd not thought too much on the surrender idea as being something of a negative. I guess at least it's about relatively small things? It doesn't sound great though, x
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Yeah, it tends to be more of a nihilistic thing I guess, which I then get annoyed with myself about afterwards because I know I shouldn't have done it and there's always some negative consequence even if there's a positive one too - financial, emotional, whatever. Although as I say, tends to be about fairly small things but irritating all the same.
Er...this is a bit heavy for a Sunday morning and I feel like I've derailed what was supposed to be a joyful thread about getting the most out of life, so I'll shut up now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Morning gorgeous Meli, and forumites, happy Sunday!
I'm learning to let go and say fuck it more often! Being uptight and trying to control everything is so unhealthy for me! So although a bit scary at times, just letting go of outcomes and going with the flow, being spontaneous is very freeing! |
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Morning all, i used to say fuck it and go for anything years ago, but I've been more reserved lately. Work is busy, home life is chaos most days. Sometimes you miss out but it makes the good times even more worth it. Kettles on if you fancy a cuppa Meli. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
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A week last Saturday put a deposit down on a mean machine.
The following Monday, rolled into work. 8.30 meeting was told the engineering dept was going to lose 10 jobs and everyone had been given notice.
Took delivery of car yesterday, and have a knot in my stomach after saying fuck it. Good chance I will be saying Fuck it again on Fri. 13th Oct. When they announce who stays or who goes.
Cellar vie or whatever the French is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I said fuck it, I’m going to do what’s right for me on Friday and will probably do the same again soon with a different situation.
I wish I would just say, fuck it, and ask if this one woman is DTF, but also I enjoy the not having to deal with possible rejection
Anyway. Good morning, Mels. |
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I did a massive fuck it last week. I so t go into details, but it was huge. I’m mostly good with it… occasional wobble and what the fuck did I just do?
As long as I don’t turn the fuck it into fuck it up…. We will be grand. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Go to the gothem hotel manchester, floor 6 and breeze past the attendant and up the stairs to the most upper class cigar bar you will ever see, back down to level 6 and into the resteraunt for tea. Once you finish ask at reception if the hotel Bentley can drop you at the station "
Oh I'm so happy you said Manchester! Thank you for the great recommendation, that's the next date sorted. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Morning _eli, have a great Sunday.
I'm an over thinker it's a curse!! However I do have the occasional fuck it moment, it's rare but it happens.
Mrs "
Morning Mrs Knight! I hope you do too. Overthinking can be an utter nightmare, x |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Because it's too early for such an aggressive subject.
First thing - good morning forum people! Hope your Sundays are happy ones.
So, second. When did you last say fuck it? Whether it was to not going for something, not messaging someone, a situation, whatever.
Are you good at recognising and going for what you want, leaning in to it? Or are you prone to overthinking/cautious?"
I say this probably once an hour |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Friday night at the London fab social, I said fuck it and asked the hot bartender if he wanted to do a shot with me and asked for his number. I got it. "
Oh yay! Go you! This is brilliant.
A long time ago I got to watch a friend go full flirt mode on a very hot bartender - fluttering her eyelashes, flicking her long hair and doing full doe eyes. All to exchange a cheap bottle of wine for a more expensive one.
Women are beautiful things. Scary. Yet beautiful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because it's too early for such an aggressive subject.
First thing - good morning forum people! Hope your Sundays are happy ones.
So, second. When did you last say fuck it? Whether it was to not going for something, not messaging someone, a situation, whatever.
Are you good at recognising and going for what you want, leaning in to it? Or are you prone to overthinking/cautious?"
Happy birthday for tomorrow op |
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By *icktMan
over a year ago
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"Because it's too early for such an aggressive subject.
First thing - good morning forum people! Hope your Sundays are happy ones.
So, second. When did you last say fuck it? Whether it was to not going for something, not messaging someone, a situation, whatever.
Are you good at recognising and going for what you want, leaning in to it? Or are you prone to overthinking/cautious?"
Hi Meli
I have them often, they range from small to large. Like fuck it what’s the worst that can happen, to fuck it don’t pay the tax man and use it for a holiday instead! Not long come back lol do it more as long as it’s not hurting anyone. Apart from the tax man, he can suck salty balls! Lol xx |
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By *eli OP Woman
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"Because it's too early for such an aggressive subject.
First thing - good morning forum people! Hope your Sundays are happy ones.
So, second. When did you last say fuck it? Whether it was to not going for something, not messaging someone, a situation, whatever.
Are you good at recognising and going for what you want, leaning in to it? Or are you prone to overthinking/cautious?
Happy birthday for tomorrow op"
Aww thank you! That's really lovely, x |
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