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By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?
It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?
It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is. "
Men do it as well |
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By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?
It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is.
Men do it as well "
Okay, maybe not just women then. Still puzzled about the possible reasons? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The same reason we need new handbags and shoes....when I work out the reason I'll let you know. I just like new bags and shoes "
Wait, is this not your first profile   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags 
LvM"
Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back. |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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Often they are men pretending to be women, and they delete when get blocked or banned.. or just start a new one to get fresh interest.
But round here men are forever making new profiles.
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"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags
LvM
Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back. "
Introducing Steve (version 7.4) |
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By *apnDom OP Man
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of. EIther it's in the profile "new profile, verify me again" or I just recognise the same pictures.
I can see how some guys do it to go around some blocks or something, but I think this reason fits women?
So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks? |
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Soooo many reasons. But I think the main is overexposure and wanting to shake off the trail of having been added to a gazillion hotlists. Like seriously, even the most average of women will be on the crosshairs of hundreds of people across the country. So basically to maintain some privacy.
But yeah men and couples also delete and rejoin. I think when you first open an account it's a high but then the realities of the fabs grind eventually make it a low. For men it's the crickets/silence and rejections, for women it's the constant selfish waffle, objectification and abuse. You set up with a specific intention and either achieve it or realise you can't achieve it or your attempts have mixed results. You get fed up and delete. A few weeks, months or years later you have recovered, processed your previous experiences and think you can do better, so you give it another go  Also some profiles are very project-specific too (come fuck my slut next weekend).
A lot of people say just hide and leave it be. I've seen inactive accounts that reignite at later dates, personally I can't leave an account alone, I find it actually addictive. So I delete for a rest. Couples accounts are easier to maintain as they attract way less attention/pressure from ill-behaved people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?
It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is.
Men do it as well
Okay, maybe not just women then. Still puzzled about the possible reasons?"
Lots of reasons, for men I can imagine it doesn't look good if they've been on here for over a year with no verifications
Maybe they were seeing someone so deleted the account and made a new one when it didn't work out
Maybe they wanted to take a break from the site and then after a week or so started to miss it
Maybe they were trying to avoid someone so deleted their account and then made a new one and blocked the other person straight away (I've done this before) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of. EIther it's in the profile "new profile, verify me again" or I just recognise the same pictures.
I can see how some guys do it to go around some blocks or something, but I think this reason fits women?
So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks?"
There's a guy I kept blocking who kept making new accounts to get in contact with me
In the end I deleted my account and made a new one straight away and blocked his @ before he could find my new account
There are so many reasons why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags
LvM
Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.
Introducing Steve (version 7.4)"
Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.
 . Doo doo |
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"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags
LvM
Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.
Introducing Steve (version 7.4)
Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.
. Doo doo "
Yep, dirty Den did it too in EastEnders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags
LvM
Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.
Introducing Steve (version 7.4)
Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.
. Doo doo
Yep, dirty Den did it too in EastEnders "
How many profiles do you reckon he had |
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"Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of."
You've got men blocked so you can't know who does it more loads men's profiles saying "if you remember me verify me", lots of profiles of all genders saying "this is not my first rodeo" or "know how this works".
Oh and yes men returning often say the break was because they were in a mono relationship in-between. It's like gaps in employment history, you gotta give reasons |
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"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags
LvM
Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.
Introducing Steve (version 7.4)
Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.
. Doo doo
Yep, dirty Den did it too in EastEnders
How many profiles do you reckon he had "
DirtyDensDong killed it on here in the 80s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really wouldn't worry yourself about what anyone else is doing on here. But I can think of lots of reasons why it might happen, for starters:
They're fake profiles started by men
Too many creepy men they're trying to lose
They just pop on and off when they're horny
It's really no big deal for a woman to restart a profile - it's super easy to meet and get verified again |
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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago
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"Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of. EIther it's in the profile "new profile, verify me again" or I just recognise the same pictures.
I can see how some guys do it to go around some blocks or something, but I think this reason fits women?
So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks?"
1. Got a boyfriend so deleted, we split up, rejoined.
2. After a bad meet, thought wtf am I doing here, deleted, came back when missed the forums
3. To get rid of a really nice verification I left for someone who turned out to be a complete dick next time I saw him.
4. To avoid someone I blocked who repeatedly set up a new profile to find me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- speaking for myself I keep ‘disappearing’ because my profile’s routinely targeted and suspended by admin asking me to ‘photo verify’ even though I’ve meet verifications & have been a member over 10yrs… I’ll never take a nude pic with my face visible whilst brandishing a fabswingers sign 
It’s anyone’s guess as to how long this profile will last |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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I thought about going in the past, but the effort of coming back is so much more for a guy and if you become single, this place is good, compared to other apps. A woman can achieve in a few months what takes a guy several years, coming off is a much bigger decision |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soooo many reasons. But I think the main is overexposure and wanting to shake off the trail of having been added to a gazillion hotlists. Like seriously, even the most average of women will be on the crosshairs of hundreds of people across the country. So basically to maintain some privacy.
But yeah men and couples also delete and rejoin. I think when you first open an account it's a high but then the realities of the fabs grind eventually make it a low. For men it's the crickets/silence and rejections, for women it's the constant selfish waffle, objectification and abuse. You set up with a specific intention and either achieve it or realise you can't achieve it or your attempts have mixed results. You get fed up and delete. A few weeks, months or years later you have recovered, processed your previous experiences and think you can do better, so you give it another go Also some profiles are very project-specific too (come fuck my slut next weekend).
A lot of people say just hide and leave it be. I've seen inactive accounts that reignite at later dates, personally I can't leave an account alone, I find it actually addictive. So I delete for a rest. Couples accounts are easier to maintain as they attract way less attention/pressure from ill-behaved people."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't get it."
New women profiles get hounded by desperate men, desperate for fresh meat. Any meat.
Could be fake profiles started by a wanking man.
Might be hiding from someone.
Might be doing something dodgy and Admin deletes them.
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Not my experience op, some do leave then join again. Some fakes pop up and are removed. Doesn’t seem to be just women either.
Could be that if you’re only looking for women that’s the only profiles you see? |
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Because they are driven away by the fucktards on here. They then come back and its still the same. So off they go. Can't blame them really.
Also, they don't need veris so no need to keep the old profile. |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"- speaking for myself I keep ‘disappearing’ because my profile’s routinely targeted and suspended by admin asking me to ‘photo verify’ even though I’ve meet verifications & have been a member over 10yrs… I’ll never take a nude pic with my face visible whilst brandishing a fabswingers sign
It’s anyone’s guess as to how long this profile will last "
You don't need a nude pic with your face showing, you can use a clothed pic with your face visible. |
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So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks?
There's a guy I kept blocking who kept making new accounts to get in contact with me
In the end I deleted my account and made a new one straight away and blocked his @ before he could find my new account
There are so many reasons why "
I had someone do this... but he always has the same username... so I know you block straight away. Be dangerous if he had half a brain. |
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"- speaking for myself I keep ‘disappearing’ because my profile’s routinely targeted and suspended by admin asking me to ‘photo verify’ even though I’ve meet verifications & have been a member over 10yrs… I’ll never take a nude pic with my face visible whilst brandishing a fabswingers sign
It’s anyone’s guess as to how long this profile will last "
You don't need to be nude |
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I've been here for ten years and this is only my second profile ,apart from my couple one.
Both men & women do this though,shame Coyote isn't on maybe she could shed some light as she is regularly unlos.
Maybe they get bored ,they're up to no good and get caught out.
Or they get blocked by the same people all the time so leave and rejoin to get over the block.
They get pestered or regularly stood up and lose interest/faith in the site.
Some maybe fake profiles too
I only look for men so only notice men in my updates and they're are a few who regularly delete and pop back up within a week or so.
I don't know why they do it,but I wouldn't meet a profile that's constantly leaving and rejoining tbh. |
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