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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve got this on the Scottish page too but thought that as it’s such a deep topic that carries embarrassment, shame and stigma, I wanted to pop it here too.
Erectile dysfunction is one of those topics guys don’t really want to talk about openly but I wanted to make a post.
We have all had an experience, at some point, of the wee man not wanting to work as he should and it’s soul destroying. Mine was a good while ago, pure nerves as she was banging hot (couldn’t resist the pun). I just couldn’t work out what was going on, I had every single urge to play but the wee man was like a stack of buttons. Thankfully the next time it worked but there was the moment of absolute fear that he wouldn’t when I was next sexually active.
Seeing all these adverts for Hardon pills on telly now that they are no longer prescription only is annoying me. I have a friend, genuine friend, who done a really long cycle for charity and he couldn’t get it up for a while afterwards. The cialis and viagra didn’t help. It turned out to be the damaged blood vessels in the area between his bumhole and balls (perineum) stopping the blood getting to the desired location.
Mind these pills only enlarge the blood vessels and encourage more blood to skoosh up your wully. They don’t make you horny or aroused despite the usual preconceptions. But they can cause long term issues if used incorrectly.
The pills won’t work if the blood can’t get to your dick guys, so if it’s injury related like my chum, you need to rest and heal. Also, if you worry about getting it up, the nerves and brain signals will stop the knob getting hard. Try looking at apps/ community sites such as Mojo and/ or speaking to the gp. Mojo is brilliant, you get a free trial before you need to pay anything. Sign up for it, then after a day opt out of the subscription, they will ask why, select it’s too expensive and you will automatically be offered it all at half price.
The performance pills will only see you hit with headaches, red flushes to the face, dehydration and many other side effects. If you do struggle with getting it up and your NOT waking up with a hardon, speak to your gp as it could be testosterone based.
If your getting hard for wanking sessions on your own, but not with sexual partners it hints stronger towards what my issue was, a mental block or nerves in the moment. There isn’t much worse than a wee voice of doubt in your head when your trying to get your end away. That’s where community sites such as Mojo or actual therapy help can be sought.
It’s a touchy topic, my inbox is always open if anyone needs a chat.
(For clarity, it was my mate, I’m too lazy to cycle anywhere) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve got this on the Scottish page too but thought that as it’s such a deep topic that carries embarrassment, shame and stigma, I wanted to pop it here too.
Erectile dysfunction is one of those topics guys don’t really want to talk about openly but I wanted to make a post.
We have all had an experience, at some point, of the wee man not wanting to work as he should and it’s soul destroying. Mine was a good while ago, pure nerves as she was banging hot (couldn’t resist the pun). I just couldn’t work out what was going on, I had every single urge to play but the wee man was like a stack of buttons. Thankfully the next time it worked but there was the moment of absolute fear that he wouldn’t when I was next sexually active.
Seeing all these adverts for Hardon pills on telly now that they are no longer prescription only is annoying me. I have a friend, genuine friend, who done a really long cycle for charity and he couldn’t get it up for a while afterwards. The cialis and viagra didn’t help. It turned out to be the damaged blood vessels in the area between his bumhole and balls (perineum) stopping the blood getting to the desired location.
Mind these pills only enlarge the blood vessels and encourage more blood to skoosh up your wully. They don’t make you horny or aroused despite the usual preconceptions. But they can cause long term issues if used incorrectly.
The pills won’t work if the blood can’t get to your dick guys, so if it’s injury related like my chum, you need to rest and heal. Also, if you worry about getting it up, the nerves and brain signals will stop the knob getting hard. Try looking at apps/ community sites such as Mojo and/ or speaking to the gp. Mojo is brilliant, you get a free trial before you need to pay anything. Sign up for it, then after a day opt out of the subscription, they will ask why, select it’s too expensive and you will automatically be offered it all at half price.
The performance pills will only see you hit with headaches, red flushes to the face, dehydration and many other side effects. If you do struggle with getting it up and your NOT waking up with a hardon, speak to your gp as it could be testosterone based.
If your getting hard for wanking sessions on your own, but not with sexual partners it hints stronger towards what my issue was, a mental block or nerves in the moment. There isn’t much worse than a wee voice of doubt in your head when your trying to get your end away. That’s where community sites such as Mojo or actual therapy help can be sought.
It’s a touchy topic, my inbox is always open if anyone needs a chat.
*(For clarity, it was my mate, I’m too lazy to cycle anywhere)"
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I think the nerves just make it worse and it is a cycle (not a bike). Some people don't help if they make fun of the bloke.
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Let's not forget that there are other reasons for ED as well as performance anxiety, which include, injury, neurological issues, prostate issues and treatments, getting older, etc, etc. It's far more common than most of us think, so no shame associated with itand well done OP for bringing it into the open. |
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