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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't know about you lot but I know my face and body shape have changed alot in 10 years (even the last 5!) With the age of almost everyone having a camera in their hands, why do I keep getting messages from dudes with pics that are older than some of my knickers? (It's true, some of my knickers are at least 4 years old!).
Obviously it might be a confidence thing but it's almost the same as women using a filter (not the dog earred one).
Does this annoy anyone else or is it just me?
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn't annoy me at all. I quite enjoy some of the legacy and heritage profile photos. They tell me a story about their journey on Fab."
Oh god yes, fab profile absolutely but sending a face pic with the intention of maybe meeting...no lol |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It doesn't bother me if they have other up to date photos
However I agree ,I've changed alot over the years and I think it's misrepresentation if you just have pics from years & years ago.
I've seen a profile on here that's pic is from 2009 and that's the only one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm being honest I have found that I don't think I'm any good at taking pics of myself not to sure if it's because I'm using the camera on my screen instead of the camera on the back of my phone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm being honest I have found that I don't think I'm any good at taking pics of myself not to sure if it's because I'm using the camera on my screen instead of the camera on the back of my phone "
All the cool kids use the back camera these days apparently to take selfies...it's like going old school with our camera, the only upside is we don't have to wait 7 days to see the results! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up? 
LvM"
Agree, time wasters in their own way. |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM"
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too... |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too..."
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x |
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"I don't know about you lot but I know my face and body shape have changed alot in 10 years (even the last 5!) With the age of almost everyone having a camera in their hands, why do I keep getting messages from dudes with pics that are older than some of my knickers? (It's true, some of my knickers are at least 4 years old!).
Obviously it might be a confidence thing but it's almost the same as women using a filter (not the dog earred one).
Does this annoy anyone else or is it just me?
Danish x"
4 year old knickers? Blimey! Show off much? I have some that are 10 years old!
I might need new knickers... 
D x  |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x"
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away. |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away."
BOOOOOOOOOOO
You are everything that's wrong with fab.
Mrs TMN x |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away.
BOOOOOOOOOOO
You are everything that's wrong with fab.
Mrs TMN x"
Single guys can't get a break on here. The women and couples are sooooooooooooooooo demanding. |
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"It doesn't annoy me at all. I quite enjoy some of the legacy and heritage profile photos. They tell me a story about their journey on Fab.
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Oh god yes, fab profile absolutely but sending a face pic with the intention of maybe meeting...no lol"
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Yes, I see your point Danish — if someone is going to attach a tapestry image taken from the Dark Ages then that's a no-no.  |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away.
BOOOOOOOOOOO
You are everything that's wrong with fab.
Mrs TMN x
Single guys can't get a break on here. The women and couples are sooooooooooooooooo demanding."
Apparently couples are the worst. |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away.
BOOOOOOOOOOO
You are everything that's wrong with fab.
Mrs TMN x
Single guys can't get a break on here. The women and couples are sooooooooooooooooo demanding.
Apparently couples are the worst. "
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away."
I'd say it looks better when I'm sitting on it  |
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It doesn’t bother me as long as it’s not taken on a box brownie 
Weirdly we all have a camera in our pocket now… so not being able to take a new face pic if you want to ultimately have “the sex” is a bit of a cop out to say the least when I’m chatting with a view to meet them though. |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away.
I'd say it looks better when I'm sitting on it "
Ok, I admit it...I do look good from that angle!
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away.
I'd say it looks better when I'm sitting on it
Ok, I admit it...I do look good from that angle!
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Thighs 
As you were….
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"I don't know about you lot but I know my face and body shape have changed alot in 10 years (even the last 5!) With the age of almost everyone having a camera in their hands, why do I keep getting messages from dudes with pics that are older than some of my knickers? (It's true, some of my knickers are at least 4 years old!).
Obviously it might be a confidence thing but it's almost the same as women using a filter (not the dog earred one).
Does this annoy anyone else or is it just me?
Danish x"
Mine are 10 year old I still look the same . |
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"If it's the *only* pictures on their profile then I wouldn't entertain them. All I could think would be what's changed that they don't want to put a recent one up?
LvM
I think this is it. If it's all they've got (or to be honest, poor quality recent pics too), but I'm careful not to be too hypocritical as some of my pics are a few years old now, too...
This!
Some of our oldest pics are five years old now but I keep the ones I like - along with plenty new ones. If it's "let's send a face pic" crunch time then it's always an up to date one. Not from miles away... Or with someone else scribbled out... Or blurry... Or wearing sunglasses.
Mrs TMN x
Spoilsport. My face looks best with sunglasses/blurred/far away.
I'd say it looks better when I'm sitting on it "
What's the saying? You're not looking at the mantelpiece when you're sitting on it? Something like that... |
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My pics of Carol are i know quite oldish but they are MY favourite ones of her in her prime plus she still looks as gorgeous and we always send recent ones if so desired but ffs its a no chance if people think shes turned into a Bella Emburg since then, our pics our choice   |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"My pics of Carol are i know quite oldish but they are MY favourite ones of her in her prime plus she still looks as gorgeous and we always send recent ones if so desired but ffs its a no chance if people think shes turned into a Bella Emburg since then, our pics our choice "
.. your right she still looks gorgeous,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Providing they resemble the person a bit, I am not that particularly bothered. I am dreadfully camera shy so totally understand how uncomfortable and awkward selfies can make people feel plus more often than not, people look better in reality anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know about you lot but I know my face and body shape have changed alot in 10 years (even the last 5!) With the age of almost everyone having a camera in their hands, why do I keep getting messages from dudes with pics that are older than some of my knickers? (It's true, some of my knickers are at least 4 years old!).
Obviously it might be a confidence thing but it's almost the same as women using a filter (not the dog earred one).
Does this annoy anyone else or is it just me?
Danish x"
Annoys me a lot yes! If the only pics on your profile are 2+ years old I’m most likely going to ignore and assume you picked up a lot of weight or are hiding something else ! We all have cameras, easy to add a new pic. I don’t mind people not deleting all pic, some we like to keep but I want to see one added this year at least |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm being honest I have found that I don't think I'm any good at taking pics of myself not to sure if it's because I'm using the camera on my screen instead of the camera on the back of my phone
All the cool kids use the back camera these days apparently to take selfies...it's like going old school with our camera, the only upside is we don't have to wait 7 days to see the results! "
Thanks I'll give that a go and see if I can take afew decent pics otherwise I think it will be seeing if I am able to find someone that would help me |
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Everyone has changed…even over a couple of years everyone has changed!
We also went through Covid and that stopped everyone from doing a lot of things, so it’s obvious people are going to change.
Always makes me laugh when someone says I haven’t changed. Of course you haven’t 
K |
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"Everyone has changed…even over a couple of years everyone has changed!
We also went through Covid and that stopped everyone from doing a lot of things, so it’s obvious people are going to change.
Always makes me laugh when someone says I haven’t changed. Of course you haven’t
K "
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You have that same beating heart that torments me. You are still Fab's undisputed pulchritude. You both adorn those photographic montages with in my cerebral, you are here and now. You haven't changed.  So there. |
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