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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I have no issue showing mine. Because the majority are just from socials and events, and the ones that aren't you'll never know.
Because if someone ever sent one like this it wouldnt be on public display.
'There we were in Costa just chatting away about holidays in Torremolinos, when our urges took over and he bent me over the table and shoved his huge, throbbing manhood into my pert, round arse in front of all the shocked OAP's and students skipping lectures. When the table broke we had to switch to the counter, spilling several skinny iced mochas in the process and knocking some poor fucker's PSL into the air where it landed on someone's assistance chihuahua. The staff weren't happy. After he spaffed on my face they had more than just coffee to clean up, but the customers gave us a massive round of applause and clubbed together to buy us some tiffin. Starbucks next time.....?' |
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over a year ago
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"I have no issue showing mine. Because the majority are just from socials and events, and the ones that aren't you'll never know.
Because if someone ever sent one like this it wouldnt be on public display.
'There we were in Costa just chatting away about holidays in Torremolinos, when our urges took over and he bent me over the table and shoved his huge, throbbing manhood into my pert, round arse in front of all the shocked OAP's and students skipping lectures. When the table broke we had to switch to the counter, spilling several skinny iced mochas in the process and knocking some poor fucker's PSL into the air where it landed on someone's assistance chihuahua. The staff weren't happy. After he spaffed on my face they had more than just coffee to clean up, but the customers gave us a massive round of applause and clubbed together to buy us some tiffin. Starbucks next time.....?'"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I show mine, I think they add a certain perspective for others to judge on.. Getting people to realise verifications are often for socials and club night rather than 'meets' though now thats the challenge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no issue showing mine. Because the majority are just from socials and events, and the ones that aren't you'll never know.
Because if someone ever sent one like this it wouldnt be on public display.
'There we were in Costa just chatting away about holidays in Torremolinos, when our urges took over and he bent me over the table and shoved his huge, throbbing manhood into my pert, round arse in front of all the shocked OAP's and students skipping lectures. When the table broke we had to switch to the counter, spilling several skinny iced mochas in the process and knocking some poor fucker's PSL into the air where it landed on someone's assistance chihuahua. The staff weren't happy. After he spaffed on my face they had more than just coffee to clean up, but the customers gave us a massive round of applause and clubbed together to buy us some tiffin. Starbucks next time.....?'
Tiffin! What's not to like? "
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I'm very nosy, so although I'm not bothered if someone has hidden them, if they are available I will have a good old poke through them.
Most of the veris I display are purely social, I don't show anything particularly explicit or detailed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no issue showing mine. Because the majority are just from socials and events, and the ones that aren't you'll never know.
Because if someone ever sent one like this it wouldnt be on public display.
'There we were in Costa just chatting away about holidays in Torremolinos, when our urges took over and he bent me over the table and shoved his huge, throbbing manhood into my pert, round arse in front of all the shocked OAP's and students skipping lectures. When the table broke we had to switch to the counter, spilling several skinny iced mochas in the process and knocking some poor fucker's PSL into the air where it landed on someone's assistance chihuahua. The staff weren't happy. After he spaffed on my face they had more than just coffee to clean up, but the customers gave us a massive round of applause and clubbed together to buy us some tiffin. Starbucks next time.....?'
Tiffin! What's not to like?
Sid James and Carry on up the Khyber spring to mind "
Did they like Tiffin?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very nosy, so although I'm not bothered if someone has hidden them, if they are available I will have a good old poke through them.
Most of the veris I display are purely social, I don't show anything particularly explicit or detailed."
do you find people instantly judge on the number rather than content (because they dont actually read them) and make an assumption? |
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I think it's good to show some, especially if they support you being who you are and that you actually meet. If you had hundreds, from many years here, you could perhaps just show some of the most recent ones. Users can still see the summary info |
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"I have no issue showing mine. Because the majority are just from socials and events, and the ones that aren't you'll never know.
Because if someone ever sent one like this it wouldnt be on public display.
'There we were in Costa just chatting away about holidays in Torremolinos, when our urges took over and he bent me over the table and shoved his huge, throbbing manhood into my pert, round arse in front of all the shocked OAP's and students skipping lectures. When the table broke we had to switch to the counter, spilling several skinny iced mochas in the process and knocking some poor fucker's PSL into the air where it landed on someone's assistance chihuahua. The staff weren't happy. After he spaffed on my face they had more than just coffee to clean up, but the customers gave us a massive round of applause and clubbed together to buy us some tiffin. Starbucks next time.....?'"
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
Personally i hide all my verifications and friends because verifications have no value to me other than to confirm lyou are you etc.
People like or need feedback/review with stars on them (good report). People only show verifications that are flattering - like only showing good reviews. Nobody writes bad verifications anyway. Don't need verifications, certainly don't expect any like many seem to.
Worst thing i can think of is someone trying because of verifications. |
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Mostly mine are social veris, of from play I ask for them not to be graphic, more aof who I am as a person, I display them for 2 reasons.
1. As I have nothing to hide.
2. It gives people a good Indicator of me as a person.
So when I'm a dick, I can say we'll it clearly says in my veris he's bit if a dick... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally i hide all my verifications and friends because verifications have no value to me other than to confirm lyou are you etc.
People like or need feedback/review with stars on them (good report). People only show verifications that are flattering - like only showing good reviews. Nobody writes bad verifications anyway. Don't need verifications, certainly don't expect any like many seem to.
Worst thing i can think of is someone trying because of verifications. "
The part about only showing flattering ones is nkt true and if so I make sure the veri summary correlates to the those visible.
They are not a badge of ho iur or gold star in my opinion. What they allow is more than the individuals own view of themselves as written in the profile. My question is why are the veris not showing?? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Personally i hide all my verifications and friends because verifications have no value to me other than to confirm lyou are you etc.
People like or need feedback/review with stars on them (good report).
They are not a badge of ho iur or gold star in my opinion. What they allow is more than the individuals own view of themselves as written in the profile. My question is why are the veris not showing??"
People don't show them all for various reasons though. You can't go just by the summary.
People leave the site so they vanish but stay in the summary count.
People fall out and block each other, but again the number stays in the summary.
Sometimes people leave things that are a little too 'detailed' so people choose not to display them.
And in my case, many relate to time as a couple, so they're not really relevant any more.
Plus it's not unknown that someone accidentally leaves a veri on the wrong profile....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Displaying my 3 that're left after others left Fab..
But I'm pretty invisible anyway but it's an easy way to show You're genuine (or well mannered or naughty) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally i hide all my verifications and friends because verifications have no value to me other than to confirm lyou are you etc.
People like or need feedback/review with stars on them (good report).
They are not a badge of ho iur or gold star in my opinion. What they allow is more than the individuals own view of themselves as written in the profile. My question is why are the veris not showing??
People don't show them all for various reasons though. You can't go just by the summary.
People leave the site so they vanish but stay in the summary count.
People fall out and block each other, but again the number stays in the summary.
Sometimes people leave things that are a little too 'detailed' so people choose not to display them.
And in my case, many relate to time as a couple, so they're not really relevant any more.
Plus it's not unknown that someone accidentally leaves a veri on the wrong profile......."
Which are explai able and justifiable hence i'd ask.
People often ask for verified only. And (I may be wrong) I'd want to read what that verified status looks like. You can. Have rhe worst verification, never show and still be verified form it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... but the customers gave us a massive round of applause and clubbed together to buy us some tiffin. Starbucks next time.....?'
Tiffin! What's not to like?
Sid James and Carry on up the Khyber spring to mind
Did they like Tiffin? "
Throughout the film tiffin is used as a euphemism for The Sex: the Khasi rejects an offer of tiffin at one point and says "unlike you British, we are not tiffin-mad". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... but the customers gave us a massive round of applause and clubbed together to buy us some tiffin. Starbucks next time.....?'
Tiffin! What's not to like?
Sid James and Carry on up the Khyber spring to mind
Did they like Tiffin?
Throughout the film tiffin is used as a euphemism for The Sex: the Khasi rejects an offer of tiffin at one point and says "unlike you British, we are not tiffin-mad". "
Aha! I am very uncouth and have never seen it.  |
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We opt to show ours. Most show we attend a specific club and enjoy socials there, some are a little more risky. I like to think the mix shows abit about who we are.
Inturn, we do also like to read others (just because we're nosey) but I don't mind if people have opted to hide them. It's all personal preference x |
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"Personally i hide all my verifications and friends because verifications have no value to me other than to confirm lyou are you etc.
People like or need feedback/review with stars on them (good report).
They are not a badge of ho iur or gold star in my opinion. What they allow is more than the individuals own view of themselves as written in the profile. My question is why are the veris not showing??
People don't show them all for various reasons though. You can't go just by the summary.
People leave the site so they vanish but stay in the summary count.
People fall out and block each other, but again the number stays in the summary.
Sometimes people leave things that are a little too 'detailed' so people choose not to display them.
And in my case, many relate to time as a couple, so they're not really relevant any more.
Plus it's not unknown that someone accidentally leaves a veri on the wrong profile......."
How did I know you would put that on here?  |
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"I'm very nosy, so although I'm not bothered if someone has hidden them, if they are available I will have a good old poke through them.
Most of the veris I display are purely social, I don't show anything particularly explicit or detailed.
do you find people instantly judge on the number rather than content (because they dont actually read them) and make an assumption? "
They may do, I don't know. If they judge negatively then they won't message me, which suits me just fine! |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Would you rather show you’re meet verifications or hide it? "
I show everyone I have. I have nothing to hide. When see someone with hidden varification or gets me thinking what are they trying to hide to everyone? |
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"Would you rather show you’re meet verifications or hide it?
I show everyone I have. I have nothing to hide. When see someone with hidden varification or gets me thinking what are they trying to hide to everyone?"
Can’t deny some will judge you based on your summary verification. xx |
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"I don’t show my veris as I like to have some sort of privacy . People can still see I’m meet verified without having to show the world "
Green check badge will be sufficient for me to meet if the profile fits my criteria … “chemistry “ xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I show a few 
If a profile doesn’t have any on display I’m unlikely to message them
Is the green check badge not enough to guarantee it’s not a fake profile? xx "
What would make it a fake profile?
Also what would a veri actually guarantee? |
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"Mine are mostly social verifications as I do a weekly pub quiz social and coffee meet ups.
I still get people saying I’m fake! Can’t win. "
People will judge you whether it’s shown or not. Be yourself. You’re a lovely woman !! |
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We post everything, if the poster chooses to share graphic sex details that doesn't reflect on us it reflects on them. The sex itself may very well get intense and messy, but for those that don't say so it's usually implied anyway. |
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"I show a few
If a profile doesn’t have any on display I’m unlikely to message them
Is the green check badge not enough to guarantee it’s not a fake profile? xx
What would make it a fake profile?
Also what would a veri actually guarantee?"
I get your point …. They may have clicked with other meets but doesn’t guarantee they will click with you. xx |
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I show mine, my bio is quite stern due to stupid messages I have gotten but its nice for a stranger to see from my verifications that I'm chilled quite easy to talk to
I like to read others it's gives a rough idea of how each person is with respects that mine and their acquaintance may be the opposite or similar |
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"Meet veris? As in people I've had sex with? Nope. Zero chance.
Sometimes I have one up from a dear friend but it's so vague that people won't think I have. I prefer it that way."
I can only imagine what a veri would look like anyway "5 seconds after my pants came off her lips clamped on and it was like being trapped in a cow milking machine set for 25 pints, needed hospital attention for sever dehydration and surgery to remove the massive grin from my face. An experience I'll never forget, even after years of therapy".
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Meet veris? As in people I've had sex with? Nope. Zero chance.
Sometimes I have one up from a dear friend but it's so vague that people won't think I have. I prefer it that way.
I can only imagine what a veri would look like anyway "5 seconds after my pants came off her lips clamped on and it was like being trapped in a cow milking machine set for 25 pints, needed hospital attention for sever dehydration and surgery to remove the massive grin from my face. An experience I'll never forget, even after years of therapy".
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I saw one that stated "she had a mind dirtyer than Irish Roman Catholic Priest".
This got me in my histarics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only show them to be transparent.
I hate graphic ones, but then again we wouldn't meet anyone who we think would be vulgar in their veri if they left us one. I do like funny ones though.
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"I show a few
If a profile doesn’t have any on display I’m unlikely to message them
Is the green check badge not enough to guarantee it’s not a fake profile? xx "
To me it’s not enough lol I wanna know it it’s real meet or just cam. And reading veris is like reading a hotel review before you place a booking hahaha gives you an idea of what you might expect |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"I show a few
If a profile doesn’t have any on display I’m unlikely to message them
Is the green check badge not enough to guarantee it’s not a fake profile? xx
To me it’s not enough lol I wanna know it it’s real meet or just cam. And reading veris is like reading a hotel review before you place a booking hahaha gives you an idea of what you might expect "
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No interest in my or others verifications really but I am more interested in the type of people they met up with. So if they had verifications from bare group meets for example, the likelihood is I wouldn't want to meet them myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I show a few
If a profile doesn’t have any on display I’m unlikely to message them
Is the green check badge not enough to guarantee it’s not a fake profile? xx
What would make it a fake profile?
Also what would a veri actually guarantee?
I get your point …. They may have clicked with other meets but doesn’t guarantee they will click with you. xx"
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I show a selection of mine, mainly from social meets. I don't particularly like anything that goes into graphic detail, more something that (a) indicates I'm a real person, and (b) indicates that meeting me was a positive experience.
When writing veris for others I try to relate a short humourous anecdote that tells how much I enjoyed the experience, while leaving anything salacious to the imagination. |
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We have the summary displayed, but even that is misleading. We’ve met many people (even a number of forumites) that we never verified or had verifications from. Some people who did verify us have left the site altogether, and those veris disappear, and we’ve met some people many many times. For us it isn’t something we care about very much, and it’s not something we pay much attention to with others. |
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By *lsiePTV/TS
over a year ago
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I show a bunch of my veris. They feel like little kisses on the forehead. They show aspects of me that I don't necessarily put on my profile, and I think they give people a better opportunity to see what I'm like.
I like seeing veris on other profiles for the same reason. Let me see what other people think of you. Let me see how you've behaved, what you're into, how your personality comes across.
I've never understood people who are out off by a lot of veris. Babe, it's a website for nsa sex. The people on it are having sex with eachother. |
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