ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.
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The only time a man is in charge is when the woman instinctively knows its about to all go tits up! The lady can then retake the reins of power and give you that 'look'.  |
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Every happy secure couple I've met with the woman has been in charge, her husband/partner and I follow her lead.
I don't get involved with those women who I think are coerced into it for their husbands sake, and I've met loads of them, usually in a club setting to be honest, never in a private meet. |
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"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.
what are your thought ppl?"
I am concerned about your use of apostrophes.   |
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"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.
what are your thought ppl?"
I would have to agree. The lady is in charge xxx |
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"The Naked Handyman sorry for miss use of written english.
Thanks people it's just like i said to Wendy at the end of the day she has the final word."
Hey no need to apologise. Just feel the poor old apostrophe needs to be supported sometimes - gets a raw deal mostly.
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I'm not sure about the woman being 'in charge' as such, but I'm always very aware of the fact that women, especially singles, are porentially at some risk in this environment, bearing in mind some of the headcases that are out there!
So certainly initially, I'm happy to let the lady set the agenda with regard to where, when and what. It's important that a lady feels safe and secure, and you can be sure that with a lady feeling safe and comfortable, any activity that follows will be sooo much better. |
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"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.
what are your thought ppl?"
But if you didn't like the look of a potential meet, would you still run it by your partner and do what she says? |
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When couples are concerned i always thought it was a joint effort . If i don't like i won't meet. If she doesn't like she won't meet so at the end of the day we both have to agree as we play together and have each others interests at heart and like to see each other happy or it could be classed as 1 sided or selfish  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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As a single lady I need to feel comfortable with all people about to be involved in the fun but yes I need to feel comfortable and wanted.
I have found too many couples are very intune with each other but seem unable to engage with me before play enough to arouse me before we start to get naked.
Reading that back it sounds wrong.
I like to stand chatting with a couple and be chatted up so I feel aroused and encouraged to play. Its good to feel wanted and stimulated before we get naked.
I have been chatting with a couple and meeting soon and they have me sooo aroused already. Roll on that meet.
Fruit x |
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I don't think anyone should be in charge, within a couple you have your boundaries already discussed and when you meet someone should be a mutual decision to play and what takes place.
"Power" to one person is not appropriate imo. |
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If were looking for a meet then i always talk with wendy about every one who is interested and if she's interested we go on from there, where as myself i am very easy goning and find that as long as she is ok with things then so am i. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.
what are your thought ppl?"
Of course us women have the ultimate say in a relationship based on equality |
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We talk things over all the time but if it was decided that were were going to play on a meet Morrigan would have the final say, after all she is the one that will be penetrated.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ULTIMATE DOMINATION OF ALL KINKY PEOPLES"
"who's incharge " Indeed !
Shek your heads !
Mistress is incharge !
You just don't Know it yet !
Mistress Charlotte  x |
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