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By *esterfun OP Man over a year ago

Mid ulster

I've been on fab a couple of weeks and finding it really difficult to even chat to anyone any tips?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get a divorce.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First plsce to look is always your profile, then what you’re saying in messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Get a divorce.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Get a divorce.

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There's no need to shame him or inflict that loaded remark.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you haven't asked for profile advice but that might be a good start. There's threads on it, just use the search forums

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Get a divorce.

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Don't do all the constant sexy talk, some of us just want to natter about stuff, with no agendas of innuendos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you haven't asked for profile advice but that might be a good start. There's threads on it, just use the search forums

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you tried following rules 1 and 2? Best place to start if your new

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't do all the constant sexy talk, some of us just want to natter about stuff, with no agendas of innuendos "

I like chatting about stuff. There are some good natterers on here.

Plus OP it is fun just to join in the banter on some of these threads.

As others have said, also look at your profile and see if it needs to give people more of an idea about you and your personality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Get a divorce.

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There's no need to shame him or inflict that loaded remark."

How is it shaming him? He asked for advice. It's a swinging site not a cheating site.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman over a year ago

Essex

It takes time. Forums are a great way to get chatting.

*most* forumites are a friendly chatty bunch.

Think of it like the pub. Getting to know the regulars first, rather than just randomly trying to buy ladies a drink.

Look at the threads on profiles, photos, etc.

Good luck

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

I really think many won't engage with you as you are married, unless you are here with your wife's knowledge

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The married will put some off op & you've barely written anything on your profile to entice people.

Write a bit about what you can offer a meet and what your interests are too .sell yourself .

Most women look at a profile before a message and if they don't like it,they won't read your message I'm afraid .

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