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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?
Never ever ever let a bastard family member babysit.  "
Heck that sounds serious - hope all is weel for you now x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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On the whole... Not much. I have lived a really happy life, have/had a fantastic family and continue to do so. A small blip a few years ago but overall, a great life.
I look forward to the future.
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?
Learned to drive instead of leaving it so late in life and have a 2nd child. "
You might be a better driver for it though? |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
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"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?
Never ever ever let a bastard family member babysit. Heck that sounds serious - hope all is weel for you now x"
Still have to stop killing, but hey life goes on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were married at 21 so there is not a lot to change relationship wise .
Maybe we would have started swinging earlier and maybe I would of got out of farming whilst the going was good instead of working on a series of crap to crappier jobs . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything? "
Well im not that far past that age really but I am honestly glad of most of the mistakes I made looking back now. At the time it was bad but now i think fuck it thats whats made me |
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Made a lot of very large mistakes, and a lot of bad choices, but the journey made me who I am now, and as my lovely man loves who I am now, then I wouldnt change a thing.
(except not getting the opportuinity to say goodbye to my Dad ) x  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I'm not sure I would change much. I think the other choices would have led to different experiences but I'm not sure the outcome would be any different.
The only thing I might do I press for more follow-up after being attacked just before my 21st birthday. I might not have had some of the health problems that followed. |
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"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?
Learned to drive instead of leaving it so late in life and have a 2nd child. You might be a better driver for it though? "
Then again I'd have never met my best friend, who has been there for the last 5 years of my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything? "
I would go back to the last few weeks of 2012...was last time I had good, hardcore sex  lately, its been "nice and gentle" |
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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago
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"Can I be 18 - in which case absolutely! I'd have left my abusive ex after the first time he hit me.Just because its you, Ruby... you can be 18 again "
Can I be 18 too please Aphro? Some of us started our grown life a little younger than 21! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
I've mulled this question over before. My conclusion is no. I've made stupid decisions and mistakes in my life but I've always learned something from them which has made me a better person, I feel.
I have no regrets in my life. Cannot see the point. And I am happier now than I have ever been. Had I not had some rough times because of stupid decisions made then I would not appreciate what I have now quite so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess the trouble with changing your own past would be the ongoing cause and effect principle it might create upon the lives everyone else….
So for that reason, it seems unfair to selfishly change the path of your own life without taking responsibility for impact that could have on the lives of others…… so nah,,,, nowt!   |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can I be 18 - in which case absolutely! I'd have left my abusive ex after the first time he hit me.Just because its you, Ruby... you can be 18 again
Can I be 18 too please Aphro? Some of us started our grown life a little younger than 21! "
Of course you can, Paris... I think I ll stick to maybe 30 for a bit? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I've mulled this question over before. My conclusion is no. I've made stupid decisions and mistakes in my life but I've always learned something from them which has made me a better person, I feel.
I have no regrets in my life. Cannot see the point. And I am happier now than I have ever been. Had I not had some rough times because of stupid decisions made then I would not appreciate what I have now quite so much."
There is a good argument to support this - we would not be what we are today if it had not been for all the experiences... although some people might say they had experiences they really rather not have had. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can I be 19 and just said to someone fuck off I aint doing it... "
Absolutely - think you should do that and you ll probably feel better (even if it can only be done in theory!) |
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Hi chez here if i could i wouldn't be without any of my children i love them to bits but i wouldn't have had my first child at 17 and i would have stopped at three children! And not wasted 15years with a loser and a waste of space! But then again i met my now lovely husband and it was right time for both of us we are perfect together so if i had to go through everything to get him at the end then its all been worth it! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi chez here if i could i wouldn't be without any of my children i love them to bits but i wouldn't have had my first child at 17 and i would have stopped at three children! And not wasted 15years with a loser and a waste of space! But then again i met my now lovely husband and it was right time for both of us we are perfect together so if i had to go through everything to get him at the end then its all been worth it! "
I agree with that I would not want to change anything re my children and family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it.OMG can you imagine? "
It didn't exist then, as didn't the Internet! Its got a lot to answer for lol!!! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it.OMG can you imagine?
It didn't exist then, as didn't the Internet! Its got a lot to answer for lol!!!"
It did when I was 30 lol |
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"Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it.OMG can you imagine?
It didn't exist then, as didn't the Internet! Its got a lot to answer for lol!!!It did when I was 30 lol "
I was meaning if i was 21 in 2013 not 21 in 1980.
and OMG yes i can imagine, all these lucky young people on fab mmmmm |
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