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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be like that, but as I’ve been here over the years, I’ve developed a ‘fuck it……there’s nothing to lose by dropping a message to their box’
Life’s too short. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I find the 'in' but they're clearly not interested by their limited responses back! I don't instigate messages with many people, so if I do it's not just bullshit ego stroking chat that many constantly do on here. But I guess you'd have to know me to realise that! Which takes us back to the beginning...  |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Birmingham Airport |
I tend to wait until I have something worthwhile to say in context but generally I don't bother on the assumption that any feelings won't be reciprocated.
Or I send a message then delete it from sent items so I have no idea if it has been read or not.
Despite my occasional bravado, making the first move is a big step. I can understand your hesitancy! |
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I can be quite shy about it especially if I don’t think I’m their type so I’ll often just fab a load of pics and hope they get the message 
If there are hints the interest might be reciprocated or I’m feeling brave I’ll message though. |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
All the time..all the damn time 
Tinder |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh I just laughed so much at the responses. Because as always, true to form the assumptions are right there.
Now, who said it was a man? Or a sexual interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I just laughed so much at the responses. Because as always, true to form the assumptions are right there.
Now, who said it was a man? Or a sexual interest?"
No assumption made on my part.
The opinions still stands. Message ‘em, you got nowt to lose. |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
Usually come up with a smart comment but ruin it by making a typo so it makes no sense. Then go back to say it was a typo and should have said ‘x’….by then the moment had gone.  |
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Nah. Just say hit “reply privately” and if they respond then all is good. Fear is such an inhibitor in this life, now sometimes fear of certain things is good (it’s a survival trait after all) but fear of rejection (through a non-response), well that’s fab (certainly for single guys, although I’m sure it’s the same for others), but as long as we take that rejection with grace and do not read too much into it (you’re just not for them, it’s no biggie really) it doesn’t mean everyone will feel the same or that you aren’t “good enough”.
Deep breath and dive in, sometimes the pool is cold, but after a while you get used to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink.
I’m never too shy. Want me to play wingman and find you an ‘in’?"
Nope, in true two year old independence style ...I'm going to do it myself!  |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
Ah a morning mystery who will be the lucky recipient should this beautiful lady message them or will it be forever a mystery |
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"The OP fancies one of the Mods. Fact.
Nicecouple init? Their filters are tighter than my arsehole
I got through  "
Oh mylady of the forum moderation my love be still my beating heart yet another suitor stands in the way Suitoress in this case . I got through as well but yet still a dream to actually meet . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every man in the forums are now checking their inbox
Ha ha she's cruel... giving them all hope "
Should I state that 8pm I'll send a message and see how many go online at that time? |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly too shy to just message or wink."
I think if someone else wrote this, you would probably tell them to take a deep breath and go for it with a message. So go and send that message PW you got this |
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"The OP fancies one of the Mods. Fact.
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Nicecouple init? Their filters are tighter than my arsehole "
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No, it's not them.
But I do fancy Mrs Nicecouple. She is the thinking-man's crumpet and torments me daily.
You're right about the filters though. |
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"Every man in the forums are now checking their inbox
Ha ha she's cruel... giving them all hope
Should I state that 8pm I'll send a message and see how many go online at that time? "
I don’t think I will need to unfortunately for me |
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I think you shouldn’t overthink it and if you want to say hi then just drop a wink or message to say “Hey - been following you on threads and thought I would say hi.”.
Worse case is they ignore you and you are where you are now. Best case you are  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
I think this dilemma is generally more an issue for woman (in general, not all) than it is for men.
Largely because men don't often get rejected, it's more ignored/lost in the pile of messages in a ladies inbox.
Men (general not all!) on the other hand mostly have an empty inbox, so there is not much chance to get lost. The ignore/rejection is all the more obvious and a clear sign that they have zero interest.
Men will just go for it and worry less in the doing, some react badly to the result though. |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
Would it help if i DM you first so you didn't have to make the 1st move |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys inboxes are blowing with tumble so just send it, the worst thing that can happen is he will send you a sky remote comparison photo and you have seen them already, crack on |
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Its a little known fact that most men are a bit thick when it comes to women’s hints and flirting - in fact a pussy pic labelled fuck me is occasionally misconstrued as the sender being surprised’fuck me!!’ As opposed to a request or instruction - safest thing is hello…. I find you very interesting and would really like to chat/suck/lick/finger/wank/shag *( delete as appropriate ) you at your earliest convenience…now show me your tits/pussy/cock/arse/book collection *( as above) immediately!!
Please feel free to use this versatile template!!
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly too shy to just message or wink."
I sympathise wholeheartedly OP.
How about starting the said thread yourself?
(Or ask RTG to do it for us shy ones instead) |
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"The OP fancies one of the Mods. Fact.
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Nicecouple init? Their filters are tighter than my arsehole
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No, it's not them.
But I do fancy Mrs Nicecouple. She is the thinking-man's crumpet and torments me daily.
You're right about the filters though."
Punch up between Nero and Pickle |
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"The OP fancies one of the Mods. Fact.
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Nicecouple init? Their filters are tighter than my arsehole
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No, it's not them.
But I do fancy Mrs Nicecouple. She is the thinking-man's crumpet and torments me daily.
You're right about the filters though.
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Punch up between Nero and Pickle "
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Or a threesome? |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Birmingham Airport |
"I just wait for the
“8pm nice message thread”. Perfect excuse.
I then proceed to friend zone myself "
Take a seat, I'm permanently in...
THE FRIEND ZONE
zone
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
The dilemmas is if you message them they might block you and you then can't see their pics, if you don't message them you may be missing an opportunity to start a conversation that goes somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every poster I like in the forum either wouldn’t like me in that way or I can’t message anyway because I’m too young.
Them be the breaks.
N'awww "
I’m glad I got in your box  |
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"Every man in the forums are now checking their inbox
Ha ha she's cruel... giving them all hope
Should I state that 8pm I'll send a message and see how many go online at that time? "
Was the message sent . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every man in the forums are now checking their inbox
Ha ha she's cruel... giving them all hope
Should I state that 8pm I'll send a message and see how many go online at that time?
Was the message sent ."
Nope I bottled it. |
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"Every man in the forums are now checking their inbox
Ha ha she's cruel... giving them all hope
Should I state that 8pm I'll send a message and see how many go online at that time?
Was the message sent .
Nope I bottled it."
Dam wanted a good result for you . |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
It's OK. You can send a message to us. We don't bite.  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Every poster I like in the forum either wouldn’t like me in that way or I can’t message anyway because I’m too young.
Them be the breaks.
N'awww
I’m glad I got in your box "
Not yet, Pickle, but when you do you better have lubed  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
Honestly don't be shy it's ok, I'm expecting it now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink.
Honestly don't be shy it's ok, I'm expecting it now "
You were so so dam nice to me in reply to the last message I sent you, Honestly I'll treasure it forever.
I couldn't possibly message you again. |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
You are certainly amazeing the interesting threads you put up and questions you ask. |
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"Ever get it where you like someone in the forum, yet no matter what you can't find that 'in' to reply to them in a thread and never get to interact with them in the process?
And you're clearly to shy to just message or wink."
No not really I'm not shy |
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