I think of it as polysaturated.
Everyone is different. People need different amounts and kinds of attention at different points.
I can manage 3 amazing connections apparently. I thought 2 would be my limit. Then there's more casual ones dotted about as well.
But everyone is different. |
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I can get quite hyper for a while chatting to multiple men on different platforms. Over lockdown it was regularly half a dozen or more and there have been times since. I text very fast. But I don't like myself much when I'm doing that, so I don't anymore. I'd prefer just one very good chat. |
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"How many concurrent correspondences can you keep up with it before you start to feel a bit stretched and simply can't engage with everyone even though you would like to.
How do you prioritise ?
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Work or fab or friends?
Work? Easy, we barely speak.
Friends - easy, I don’t have many.
Fab - not as easy. Although not talking to many, if I want to reply properly, I need to sit and type it properly and try not to fuck yo soelli g and grammar as I normally type one handed.  |
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"How many concurrent correspondences can you keep up with it before you start to feel a bit stretched and simply can't engage with everyone even though you would like to.
How do you prioritise ?
Work or fab or friends?
Work? Easy, we barely speak.
Friends - easy, I don’t have many.
Fab - not as easy. Although not talking to many, if I want to reply properly, I need to sit and type it properly and try not to fuck yo soelli g and grammar as I normally type one handed. "
One handed? Not with both thumbs?  |
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I should have specified that I mean on fab or dating apps.
I can enjoy two intense hot chats at the same time but anymore and the intellectual effort dampens the hotness and I don't the bandwidth.
Getting to know people for meets I've found about three is enough to be able to take really read, retain and respond sincerely.
I do like a sprinkling of longer term correspondences that play out over months rather than hours or days. People I know I'm going to meet but not when. |
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