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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago
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"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??"
I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??
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"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??"
What is easily avoided?
Are you annoyed because people don't reply to say no thanks? |
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"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??
I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??
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No, i notice threads on ‘bombardmebt’ amid parallel tales of muktiple messages. As such a second, third missive seems worth apunt. A no thanks wiuld stymie inwelcome missives. Fuether for a ‘live’ site things get too snotty. |
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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago
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"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??
I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??
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Welcome for what? Did he ask you to correct his post?"
You are 100% correct 
OP I'm sooper sorry no offence intended I overstepped  |
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"No, i notice threads on ‘bombardmebt’ amid parallel tales of muktiple messages. As such a second, third missive seems worth apunt. A no thanks wiuld stymie inwelcome missives. Fuether for a ‘live’ site things get too snotty."
You're wrong and naive. Very often a 'no thanks' simply receives more messages. |
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"No, i notice threads on ‘bombardmebt’ amid parallel tales of muktiple messages. As such a second, third missive seems worth apunt. A no thanks wiuld stymie inwelcome missives. Fuether for a ‘live’ site things get too snotty."
If someone doesn't get a reply, it's their own stupid fault if they send more messages.
Saying no thanks often gets abuse- hence why some people don't reply. |
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"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??
I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??
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Welcome for what? Did he ask you to correct his post?
You are 100% correct
OP I'm sooper sorry no offence intended I overstepped "
It was helpful to me. I have a headache and it was hard to read.
However, I am still not sure I fully understand the OP.
I think it's the lack of context mostly, at this point though. |
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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago
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"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??
I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??
Welcome
Welcome for what? Did he ask you to correct his post?
You are 100% correct
OP I'm sooper sorry no offence intended I overstepped
It was helpful to me. I have a headache and it was hard to read.
However, I am still not sure I fully understand the OP.
I think it's the lack of context mostly, at this point though."
Thanks Hans but my slapped wrist is well deserved |
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"Not sure what you're trying to say OP.  "
I think the point is that...
If people replied "no thanks" rather than just leaving messages unread/deleted, you'd get less messages from butthurts wondering why you're not responding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure what you're trying to say OP.
I think the point is that...
If people replied "no thanks" rather than just leaving messages unread/deleted, you'd get less messages from butthurts wondering why you're not responding."
Ah ok. What does this mean then?
"No, i notice threads on ‘bombardmebt’ amid parallel tales of muktiple messages. As such a second, third missive seems worth apunt. A no thanks wiuld stymie inwelcome missives. Fuether for a ‘live’ site things get too snotty" |
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I replied yesterday to a few guys saying no, thank you, they're too far away for me. Polite, I thought.
Both of them then replied back to negotiate. They will drive to me. But I don't want that. And also, I don't want to negotiators. I've said no. Politely. Now fuck off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad."
Apology accepted.  |
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad."
I think you can have a pass on that one.
On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass. |
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.
I think you can have a pass on that one.
On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass."
Rather have a hamster. Just sayin. |
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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.
I think you can have a pass on that one.
On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.
Rather have a hamster. Just sayin. "
I never got the parrot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.
I think you can have a pass on that one.
On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.
Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.
I never got the parrot "
I KNEW it!! Fraud Squad! |
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.
I think you can have a pass on that one.
On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.
Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.
I never got the parrot "
Hey Parrots aren't like cookies, you can't just grab them from the Amazon. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.
I think you can have a pass on that one.
On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.
Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.
I never got the parrot
Hey Parrots aren't like cookies, you can't just grab them from the Amazon.
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Either you had one to swap for a hamster or you didn't, mate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Saying a polite no thanks doesn't always end it though, sometimes they want a reason or send something nasty and have to be blocked "
Even if they're given a reason they argue.  |
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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago
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"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.
I think you can have a pass on that one.
On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.
Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.
I never got the parrot
Hey Parrots aren't like cookies, you can't just grab them from the Amazon.
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Then why did you take the cookie |
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"Its not about fault. It’s about common decency. I know eirld has moved on but generally if addressed i was taught to reply. Dont have to agree, but ought reply. It used to be just manners. "
Site rules clearly state no reply=no thanks.
Also as soon as I reply to someone to say no it stops my future filters from working on this person.
I'll continue to not reply thanks.
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"Saying a polite no thanks doesn't always end it though, sometimes they want a reason or send something nasty and have to be blocked
Even if they're given a reason they argue. "
Yep, you're not wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats awhole another ball game.
It’simportant to recognise how. libido can interfere with natural restraint. Isn’t this place ‘all about’ unhinged libdo. Lord have Metcy! ??"
No. I'm not going to recognise that libido interferes with natural restraint. We are all adults here and should behave like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe conider te extent of neural diversity inpeople.hat is true for you(complete control) is not attainable to more instinctive types perhaps. "
No, I won't thank you. I have neurodiverse people in my life and they understand rules. |
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Some people are very uptight for libertines.
If for instance you see a message is unsent, see it in context of message onslaught. See whatever missive remains unseen so send another. Lookibg for sense and maybe understandinrather than permission. |
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