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...by finding yourself enjoying or being turned on by the thought of something that you wouldn't have expected? As in, you're sexting with someone and they suggest something that you've never considered before, but the thought of it suddenly turns you on? Or been with a partner and they've suggested doing something and you've let them and you turned out to be really into it? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes.
A Person recently suggested trying something and I'd not thought about it before but his darn eyes and kisses had me thinking this could be be a very good idea. It wasn't that I let him to do it, it was more, he opened my eyes to it.
It really, really, was a very good idea. I'm quite open to things in the right mood. |
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An example:
I never understood the appeal of spanking. At all. Live and let live, it does things for other people but nothing for me. Etc.
Until one day I’m chatting with a girl (DMs over Twitter, if you must know). And she’s telling me, in great detail, what exactly it does for her. Mentally, and physically. The sting. The tingle. The relinquishing of control. The way each smack across her cheeks makes her cunt wetter and wetter until she’s literally dripping and desperate to be fucked.
Suddenly I get it. Not in a universal ‘I’ll spank women now’ kind of way. Just in that I understand, completely, why she likes it and hell yes I’m now turned on by the idea of doing it with her. (Specifically with *her*. Not everyone.) |
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"An example:
I never understood the appeal of spanking. At all. Live and let live, it does things for other people but nothing for me. Etc.
Until one day I’m chatting with a girl (DMs over Twitter, if you must know). And she’s telling me, in great detail, what exactly it does for her. Mentally, and physically. The sting. The tingle. The relinquishing of control. The way each smack across her cheeks makes her cunt wetter and wetter until she’s literally dripping and desperate to be fucked.
Suddenly I get it. Not in a universal ‘I’ll spank women now’ kind of way. Just in that I understand, completely, why she likes it and hell yes I’m now turned on by the idea of doing it with her. (Specifically with *her*. Not everyone.)"
I do love those conversations, where the depth of desire is shared in intricate detail and it inspires a vicarious arousal in me.
Nice description too, you sexy bastard.  |
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over a year ago
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"An example:
I never understood the appeal of spanking. At all. Live and let live, it does things for other people but nothing for me. Etc.
Until one day I’m chatting with a girl (DMs over Twitter, if you must know). And she’s telling me, in great detail, what exactly it does for her. Mentally, and physically. The sting. The tingle. The relinquishing of control. The way each smack across her cheeks makes her cunt wetter and wetter until she’s literally dripping and desperate to be fucked.
Suddenly I get it. Not in a universal ‘I’ll spank women now’ kind of way. Just in that I understand, completely, why she likes it and hell yes I’m now turned on by the idea of doing it with her. (Specifically with *her*. Not everyone.)"
Mate, you really need to write that blog again.  |
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"God no.
Lights out. Missionary. Under the flannelette. Must never deviate.
In truth - I scare myself sometimes. If it’s pitched right I could potentially even find the above sexy "
Do it with the right person and it might just be mind-blowing  |
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"God no.
Lights out. Missionary. Under the flannelette. Must never deviate.
In truth - I scare myself sometimes. If it’s pitched right I could potentially even find the above sexy
Do it with the right person and it might just be mind-blowing "
Got any flanelette? |
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I can be quite shy and lacking in confidence, so never thought I'd enjoy going to sex clubs and being watched. When we first started talking about going to one I couldn't imagine having sex in front of others, but after our first visit I was converted! Now I wish we'd gone sooner. I'm much more of an exhibitionist than I thought! - Mrs P |
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Yeah all the time. Sometimes in the heat of the moment when I’m agreeable and in the headspace to be led astray I’ll do and say all sorts of things and then spend the duration of the post game shower wondering how things escalated to such an extent |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"...by finding yourself enjoying or being turned on by the thought of something that you wouldn't have expected? As in, you're sexting with someone and they suggest something that you've never considered before, but the thought of it suddenly turns you on? Or been with a partner and they've suggested doing something and you've let them and you turned out to be really into it? "
Oh yes. Definitely yes.
Literally have on my profile that one of the things that I am looking for is learning other people's kinks and discovering more of mine. |
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"An example:
I never understood the appeal of spanking. At all. Live and let live, it does things for other people but nothing for me. Etc.
Until one day I’m chatting with a girl (DMs over Twitter, if you must know). And she’s telling me, in great detail, what exactly it does for her. Mentally, and physically. The sting. The tingle. The relinquishing of control. The way each smack across her cheeks makes her cunt wetter and wetter until she’s literally dripping and desperate to be fucked.
Suddenly I get it. Not in a universal ‘I’ll spank women now’ kind of way. Just in that I understand, completely, why she likes it and hell yes I’m now turned on by the idea of doing it with her. (Specifically with *her*. Not everyone.)"
This ^ Yes it's happened, but knowing the why is just as important to flick that switch 
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"...by finding yourself enjoying or being turned on by the thought of something that you wouldn't have expected? As in, you're sexting with someone and they suggest something that you've never considered before, but the thought of it suddenly turns you on? Or been with a partner and they've suggested doing something and you've let them and you turned out to be really into it?
Oh yes. Definitely yes.
Literally have on my profile that one of the things that I am looking for is learning other people's kinks and discovering more of mine."
How's that working out for you? |
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"I can be quite shy and lacking in confidence, so never thought I'd enjoy going to sex clubs and being watched. When we first started talking about going to one I couldn't imagine having sex in front of others, but after our first visit I was converted! Now I wish we'd gone sooner. I'm much more of an exhibitionist than I thought! - Mrs P"
Wow! I can't imagine going to a club myself so I can imagine that must have been difficult the first time. That's great. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"...by finding yourself enjoying or being turned on by the thought of something that you wouldn't have expected? As in, you're sexting with someone and they suggest something that you've never considered before, but the thought of it suddenly turns you on? Or been with a partner and they've suggested doing something and you've let them and you turned out to be really into it? "
Yes.
That's kind of to be expected. Not everyone will put in graphic detail what they enjoy on a profile because it just attracts potential unwanted attention.
Just because someone likes something, or wants to try something for the first time, it doesn't mean they'd be willing to do or try it with just anyone.
Certain things require an extra element of trust and/or a closer connection with another. |
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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago
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"...by finding yourself enjoying or being turned on by the thought of something that you wouldn't have expected? As in, you're sexting with someone and they suggest something that you've never considered before, but the thought of it suddenly turns you on? Or been with a partner and they've suggested doing something and you've let them and you turned out to be really into it? "
Yes, guess that's how we have broadened our horizons  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yeah, absolutely.
And it’s also worked the other way for me- something that I was into sexually with one partner, I tried with another partner and it just didn’t work for me! |
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"Oh yeah, absolutely.
And it’s also worked the other way for me- something that I was into sexually with one partner, I tried with another partner and it just didn’t work for me! "
I think this ties up with what I was saying earlier.
It’s generally about the person for me, and the moment. If you show me that something turns you into an open-mouthed, panting, wet and desperate mess … god-damn that’s going to turn me on. And make me open to trying whatever it is with you. Dying to try it with you, in fact. But with *you* specifically. |
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"Some things I not only wouldn't put on my profile, I won't mention here because I know what this place is like. Judgey!"
Everyone judges, it's natural. And we all know everything natural is good.
Oh hang on... a moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some things I not only wouldn't put on my profile, I won't mention here because I know what this place is like. Judgey!
Everyone judges, it's natural. And we all know everything natural is good.
Oh hang on... a moment "
Are you feeling unnatural? |
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"Some things I not only wouldn't put on my profile, I won't mention here because I know what this place is like. Judgey!
Everyone judges, it's natural. And we all know everything natural is good.
Oh hang on... a moment
Are you feeling unnatural? "
Always
Never  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you could suggest a lot of things around ovulation time and I'd get turned on at them all.
Failing that two weeks without sex would have the same effect if I haven't murdered anyone yet.
Add alcohol and the above is null and void as her downstairs ceases to have a voice and waves goodbye to anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some things I not only wouldn't put on my profile, I won't mention here because I know what this place is like. Judgey!
Everyone judges, it's natural. And we all know everything natural is good.
Oh hang on... a moment
Are you feeling unnatural?
Always
Never "
But I thought? With the...? Oh never mind.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, absolutely.
And it’s also worked the other way for me- something that I was into sexually with one partner, I tried with another partner and it just didn’t work for me!
I think this ties up with what I was saying earlier.
It’s generally about the person for me, and the moment. If you show me that something turns you into an open-mouthed, panting, wet and desperate mess … god-damn that’s going to turn me on. And make me open to trying whatever it is with you. Dying to try it with you, in fact. But with *you* specifically."
Are you talking about *me* specifically?  |
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