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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve heard of this and never really understood how you separate sex from attraction? "
I guess it’s easiest to say I love everything that goes with sleeping with a guy, I just never feel attracted to the actual person… it’s just purely sexual enjoyment |
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I’ve had plenty of sex without attraction, being inebriated, randy or in a group. Possibly other reasons for example I liked something about them that allowed me to be sexually attracted but maybe not physically attracted.
So you could go with animal passion or at the time you fancied doing it, as ultimately it happened and if you enjoyed it, maybe don’t question it.  |
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"How do you end up having sex with a guy if you don't find him attractive? Is this a gay post or a post for all sexual orientations? "
"Every hole is a goal."
Some men would fuck a hole in a barbershop floor.
I'd you have used an anonymous gloryhole, you obviously don't care who is serving you, just want to come.
This is the same thing. |
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"I’ve heard of this and never really understood how you separate sex from attraction? "
Simply it’s just the cock is all they are interested / aroused by The rest of the man is nothing more than a delivery mechanism
It’s very common I have seen over the years. . No different than men fucking women they don’t find physically attractive but just want a pussy this fuck .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you mean it’s totally a physical thing and you’re not attracted to men in a romantic/kissing way? So you are attracted but just physically? If so I get what you mean. "
Not really, more so that it’s just the sex I enjoy. The man doesn’t really matter |
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"Have had play with another woman once but not at all attracted to women! Was in a 3 sum scenario! X"
I'm with you there hun.
I've invented the term BI-NEUTRAL.
So I'll happily play with a woman in a sexy couples meet, so go through the sex act but feeling neutral about her. Not attracted but can enjoy because we're giving each other pleasure.
A lot of bi men I meet are BI-NEUTRAL. So they're equally active/passive oral/anal but not attracted to the men. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 41 weeks ago
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I have to find someone attractive and like them enough to put my penis in them, so the situation would never occur, regardless of my sexual preferences. If both those conditions aren't met, I will be more likely to go and have a wank. |
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"I’ve had plenty of sex without attraction, being inebriated, randy or in a group. Possibly other reasons for example I liked something about them that allowed me to be sexually attracted but maybe not physically attracted.
So you could go with animal passion or at the time you fancied doing it, as ultimately it happened and if you enjoyed it, maybe don’t question it. "
Been sucking and fucking other boys, guys from late teens to mid twenties. And MMMmmmm...ffuuucccckkkkkk...experienced, kinky, hung, older, Dom men being my main attraction now.
Have never been emotionally or romantically attracted to other males honestly. And i'd luv to eat your sexy little asshole sexy, thanks for your input gurl. |
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"I'm not attracted to guys, but I do love their cocks.  It is just a sex act with someone and you don't need to be romantically attracted to enjoy it."
Plenty of men out there feel the same, shame more aren’t more honest about it and feel they need to hide it through fear of judgement |
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I’m a bisexual man. I prefer sex with the ladies. But in a mmf situation, I like to be able to literally get stuck in. It can be the most amazing experience if your mindset isn’t clouded by what goes where. In this day and age, who gives a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Not no attractoin
But my date preference is woman
Not in to date guys
guys for me are a play toy
They use me as they sex doll I use them as mine
Then off about or day or what ever
With a thanks for the one off
Or see you next week when need that ich scratched
I am good with that
That’s not to say it’s a splat and run out the door though
I do expect time to be spent talking and laughing and jokeing and what not afterwards
but date dates are off the table |
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"Jesus if a guy wasn’t actually attracted to me there’s no way I’d be having sex with him. "
But how would you know he wasn't attracted to you? I doubt they'd straight up tell you for fear of not getting a fuck lol
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"Jesus if a guy wasn’t actually attracted to me there’s no way I’d be having sex with him.
But how would you know he wasn't attracted to you? I doubt they'd straight up tell you for fear of not getting a fuck lol
Evie "
Good point. It’s not easy.
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I’d say there needs to be attraction there. Most men looking for men have lists of what they like. Some might say they aren’t attracted to men, but they have a type - so they do find them attractive. Most in denial when it comes to admitting they like men. |
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I think if you have the urge/need, just go with it!