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By *TG3 OP   Man  over a year ago

Dorchester

Well do they

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some do.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton

Yes....

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By *oveallMan  over a year ago

kells

Not sure what you meen . baby hunting women . snag a good looking fella . quick luv . then elbow him .. It sure happens .... Dad's have feck all rite's ... Girl power ....

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Let's not use this as an attempt at undermining a problem that impacts women far more

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Let's not use this as an attempt at undermining a problem that impacts women far more "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some do I'm sure.

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By *EAT..85Woman  over a year ago

Nottingham

For sure!

But not all and not all of the time...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not sure what you meen . baby hunting women . snag a good looking fella . quick luv . then elbow him .. It sure happens .... Dad's have feck all rite's ... Girl power .... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

God yeah. Cash machine is an object.

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By *d4fun73Man  over a year ago

Shipley

Only if you're famous with a lot of money

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By *adMerWoman  over a year ago

Sandwich

Yes women can be equally guilty of objectifying.

I do look at some men as more of a beautiful sculpture than completely human.

Many of these because they are just a profile and a few photos. Even some actual real life men can be classified this way in my mind. Usually when the personality isn’t quite so beautiful.

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Id say no different from most men doing it woman just caught on

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth

Of course they do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hell yes

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By *ovetolick78Man  over a year ago

The Shire

Diet used this idea for years.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman  over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Let's not use this as an attempt at undermining a problem that impacts women far more "

And let's not dismiss mens feelings when it does happen to them.

Does it happen to women more or are men less vocal about it through fear of ridicule

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Obviously. But not all women.

And not all men.

And not all women at all men and not all men at all women.

Or men with men.

Or women with women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Obviously. But not all women.

And not all men.

And not all women at all men and not all men at all women.

Or men with men.

Or women with women.

"

Well said

Don't tar everyone with the same brush

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Let's not use this as an attempt at undermining a problem that impacts women far more

And let's not dismiss mens feelings when it does happen to them.

Does it happen to women more or are men less vocal about it through fear of ridicule"

I'll be sure not to do that when I see men talking about how it's made them feel

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By *ovetolick78Man  over a year ago

The Shire

I've had a woman just walking past my grab my crotch say very nice and carry on walking.... Must admit I didn't know what to do with myself, felt very strange.

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By *rown_Bread78Man  over a year ago

Leeds

Obviously, yes

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS  over a year ago

Carlisle

Both do!

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

I’m sure we do, what we don’t tend to do is shout “oy love show us ya man boobs” whilst walking past one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes a fair few do!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple  over a year ago

Lincoln

Absolutely. Just look at threads whenever the rugby is on TV

LvM

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan  over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m here to be objectified, sometimes. On Fab, I mean. It can be kind of sexy, in the right context. (And yeah, creepy in the wrong context.)

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By *ealMissShadyWoman  over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Let's not use this as an attempt at undermining a problem that impacts women far more

And let's not dismiss mens feelings when it does happen to them.

Does it happen to women more or are men less vocal about it through fear of ridicule

I'll be sure not to do that when I see men talking about how it's made them feel "

I am sure you would be the lovely little sunflower you always are with your bright and cheery comments....

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By *ovetolick78Man  over a year ago

The Shire


"Absolutely. Just look at threads whenever the rugby is on TV

LvM"

*coughs quietly *

Ex rugby player here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, they do. I've done it. I think in general though, women are more respectful about it. Not all women obviously, but most of us wouldn't make anyone uncomfortable or act on it like so many men do.

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By *ovetolick78Man  over a year ago

The Shire

As an ex roofer I spent many hours on scaffold admiring the views in the sunshine, never felt the need felt the need to shout out tho or whistle

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Let's not use this as an attempt at undermining a problem that impacts women far more

And let's not dismiss mens feelings when it does happen to them.

Does it happen to women more or are men less vocal about it through fear of ridicule

I'll be sure not to do that when I see men talking about how it's made them feel

I am sure you would be the lovely little sunflower you always are with your bright and cheery comments...."

Do you think I should just attempt sarcasm instead ?

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!! "

Sorry

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"Not sure what you meen . baby hunting women . snag a good looking fella . quick luv . then elbow him .. It sure happens .... Dad's have feck all rite's ... Girl power .... "

¿Qué?

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!!

Sorry "

^^she's not really sorry

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By *ovetolick78Man  over a year ago

The Shire


"ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!!

Sorry

^^she's not really sorry "

Nor are you.

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!!

Sorry

^^she's not really sorry

Nor are you. "

Oh hell no.

I'm a raging pervert and proud. But I hide it well from the muggles.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!!

Sorry

^^she's not really sorry "

Shhhh don't let the cay out of the bag !

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!!

Sorry

^^she's not really sorry

Shhhh don't let the cay out of the bag ! "

It's ok. Only one person noticed

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"ALL THE DAMN TIME!!

It happens to me so much I’m scared to leave the house…..and I’ve had to block single women from messaging me on here….jeeeezzzz!!!

Sorry

^^she's not really sorry

Shhhh don't let the cay out of the bag !

It's ok. Only one person noticed "

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By *TG3 OP   Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Absolutely. Just look at threads whenever the rugby is on TV

LvM"

what do you mean, nobody's here they're all watching the rugby?

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By *rlandoMan  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

who cares

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By *reya73Woman  over a year ago

Whitley Bay

#not all women

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

It has been done

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By *ansoffateMan  over a year ago

Sagittarius A

A smidge

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By *ub slut PennyTV/TS  over a year ago

St Austell

I really hope so x

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By *ove to exploreMan  over a year ago

Cardiff

Please correct me if I’m wrong, but I think the responses of ‘some do’ is accepting that every woman on FAB being included in that ‘some do’ bracket lol

The problem of objectification at it’s core, is not actually the initial act of objectifying; it’s how it’s then processed, perceived, and/or acted upon in the short and longer term, as well as the influence of privilege based bias.

Some do argue that the latter is negligible, completely negated or even a privilege women in kink/bdsm/swing have and often take advantage of. I’m certainly sitting on the fence on that one though, I must admit ; even if it is to be fair, I do recognise the privileges in life in general are unbalanced in male favour so…

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