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Single guys - don’t brush us all with the dickhead paint
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x
I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….
Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here
It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too 
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Taking the time to talk seams lost on a lot of people, yes we're all on this site for similar reasons but what's the rush some people have of trying to get people straight in to bed then throwing their toys out the pram when it doesn't happen, never any need to be rude. Accept the answer and move on.  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest  "
100% this
also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those “idiots” and “dickheads” have never spoiled anything for me. Nor have they made it any more difficult for me than it already is for single/solo men. |
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By *tooveMan
over a year ago
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"Those “idiots” and “dickheads” have never spoiled anything for me. Nor have they made it any more difficult for me than it already is for single/solo men. "
Yeah but some people can't take rejection and need to blame others. |
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No one else ruins your FAB experience except yourself. There’s no need to put others down or blame them.
FAB works perfectly if you’re a decent person and can be respectful. But that’s for others to decide whether they think you are either - not for you to tell people you are.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have just made my point from the replies - I’m not saying I am a white knight, an angel, a perfect guy, I said don’t tar guys with the same brush.
Some lovely responses in the thread, mainly the ladies at the start, thank you, your spot on x
See the guys jump on - lol, he’s a dickhead, il a gentleman, Friday brings out whatever c
I thought the swinger community was about respect and understanding x
Love you all, don’t pre judge someone for their post
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're not daft, it's really easy to sort the good men from the not so good.
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Yup. ^^ This^^.
Actually the dickheads make it so easy to spot the good guys. You don't even need to announce it. |
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By *tooveMan
over a year ago
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"I have just made my point from the replies - I’m not saying I am a white knight, an angel, a perfect guy, I said don’t tar guys with the same brush.
Some lovely responses in the thread, mainly the ladies at the start, thank you, your spot on x
See the guys jump on - lol, he’s a dickhead, il a gentleman, Friday brings out whatever c
I thought the swinger community was about respect and understanding x
Love you all, don’t pre judge someone for their post
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So you're only interested in pleasing the women. A point that has been made.
Take responsibility for yourself.
You're the one making it difficult for yourself. No one else.
And the dickheads would surely be making it easier for you by being dickheads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest
100% this
also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet"
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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago
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"Only you can make it harder for yourself. If anything the idiots should make it easier for you."
An excellent point. Many of us prove which category we fall into by the way we conduct ourselves on fab and in these forums. Some of us build connections and rapport with others over time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots."
Lol, not at all, just a guy finding his way through the lifestyle, shared my opinion as feel sometimes people to quick to judge. (Rest my case at bs white knight comment)
Sure it’s also warranted on many too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only you can make it harder for yourself. If anything the idiots should make it easier for you.
An excellent point. Many of us prove which category we fall into by the way we conduct ourselves on fab and in these forums. Some of us build connections and rapport with others over time"
So have I, I rest my case at my original post ????? |
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Think alot also has to do with geography.... I mean where I live single men out number single females and couples ridiculously. I never get upset when I'm turned down but can imagine a fair few do, but still no need to be rude or get nasty. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think alot also has to do with geography.... I mean where I live single men out number single females and couples ridiculously. I never get upset when I'm turned down but can imagine a fair few do, but still no need to be rude or get nasty. "
I am also never upset, rude or anything like that.
My original post proves my point about some on here x
Peace to all x |
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"Think alot also has to do with geography.... I mean where I live single men out number single females and couples ridiculously. I never get upset when I'm turned down but can imagine a fair few do, but still no need to be rude or get nasty.
I am also never upset, rude or anything like that.
My original post proves my point about some on here x
Peace to all x "
I've had abuse when I've turned men down, my skins too thick to worry about it. It actually makes me feel good that they're that upset they don't get to meet me. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.
Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint "
Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.
Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint
Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells "
?????? not at all, posting to prove a point.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
My own personality speaks for itself. I don't feel the need to blame others for me being painting me with any brush.
There are those that like me, and those that don't like me. Not a single part of that has anything to do with the actions of other men.
I own the dislike others have for me, just as I own the reasons others like me. Because it is 100% on me and my own personality and actions. |
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.
Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint
Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells
?????? not at all, posting to prove a point.
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Nowt up with being pleasant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all "
To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.
To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.
For the nasty comments - check yourself
Happy fabbing - my point is proven
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"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all
To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.
To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.
For the nasty comments - check yourself
Happy fabbing - my point is proven
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I was raised with the believe that manors cost nothing.... I still live by that today. |
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"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all
To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.
To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.
For the nasty comments - check yourself
Happy fabbing - my point is proven
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my comment wasn't ment to be nasty snipey I was just saying nice guy's finish last or not at all sorry if you felt I ment it in a nasty way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all
To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.
To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.
For the nasty comments - check yourself
Happy fabbing - my point is proven
my comment wasn't ment to be nasty snipey I was just saying nice guy's finish last or not at all sorry if you felt I ment it in a nasty way "
Thanks for the message, no drama either way, each to their own, I am a gent and nice guy, see how many people pile on though
respect and love to all |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x
I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….
Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here
It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too
Peace "
yes agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What colour is dickhead paint. I might like it.
Should imagine a pinkish brownish colour something like radiator water but a tint of pink "
A tint of throbbing neon pink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I clarify that .. I’m a good guy.
Not one of the bad ones that gives us good ones a bad name.
No, I’m a nice guy.
Ladies take note
Note taken! "
Thank you Daizy. Now you’re clear how good I am (compared to those that give us good guys a bad name) - FaF?  |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x
I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….
Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here
It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too
Peace "
We have met quite a few guys but we’ve had so many issues that it’s just not worth the effort anymore.
We’re sure all guys are not the same and there are good ones out there. However we’ve had so many bad experiences that there is this cumulative effect that puts you off repeating the single guy experience after a while. We pretty much now only meet couples. |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
"Can I clarify that .. I’m a good guy.
Not one of the bad ones that gives us good ones a bad name.
No, I’m a nice guy.
Ladies take note
Note taken!
Thank you Daizy. Now you’re clear how good I am (compared to those that give us good guys a bad name) - FaF? "
Well it would be rude not to Dan after you've gone out of your way to prove your good guy credentials |
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"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x
I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….
Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here
It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too
Peace "
Calling people you don't know "rude ignorant wankers" sounds like something a rude ignorant wanker might say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.
Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint
Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells "
It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x
I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….
Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here
It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too
Peace "
Same for women too.
There's a few who aren't egotistical absolute tossers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.
Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint
Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells
It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells "
You may be disgruntled but the standard is to be disgusted In Tunbridge Wells…
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disgusted_of_Tunbridge_Wells
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x
I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….
Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here
It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too
Peace
Same for women too.
There's a few who aren't egotistical absolute tossers. "
Very true - but they are hard to find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.
Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint
Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells
It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells
You may be disgruntled but the standard is to be disgusted In Tunbridge Wells…
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disgusted_of_Tunbridge_Wells
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Oh dear I’ve been saying it wrong all these years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.
Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint
Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells
It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells
You may be disgruntled but the standard is to be disgusted In Tunbridge Wells…
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disgusted_of_Tunbridge_Wells
Oh dear I’ve been saying it wrong all these years!"
Ha ha - nothing wrong with being disgruntled! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I judge every single guy as an individual. If I hadn't I would have missed out on some lovely blokes."
In the same vain, if I’d have thought every takeaway was a greasy cafe riddled with ecoli, I’d never have found the best kebab shop ever.  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've never felt the need to judge anyone by others actions on here. I also have never felt the need to complain about messages I get on here as I use my filters to the max and the very rare crap message I might get I just delete.
No one ruins it for anyone else on here and it's a get out excuse some use because they aren't having the results they want on here I've found. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet"
Totally agree ..
*Puts his hat back on and leaves the room |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest
100% this
also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet"
^ all of the above |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome! |
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"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!"
Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!
Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves!"
I know it's insane to people that aren't all up in my DMs, but I'm actually pretty normal. Not nice though |
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"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!
Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves!
I know it's insane to people that aren't all up in my DMs, but I'm actually pretty normal. Not nice though "
Normal, I don't believe it! |
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"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!"
Omg… is that true Brucey?
This is where I’ve been going wrong this whole time |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!
Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves!
I know it's insane to people that aren't all up in my DMs, but I'm actually pretty normal. Not nice though
Normal, I don't believe it! "
That's fair. Maybe change that for moral? Like...there's something inside me with feelings. I dunno they are weird I try to contain them as much as possible |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!
Omg… is that true Brucey?
This is where I’ve been going wrong this whole time "
I'm not just a pretty cock _ittlebird! |
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"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!
Omg… is that true Brucey?
This is where I’ve been going wrong this whole time
I'm not just a pretty cock _ittlebird!"
I know
By the way when am I gonna get to suck it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!"
Fuck off Brucey.
Ladies, let it be known that I am one of the GOOD ones. Those other guys? Pfft! They ruin it for us nice ones 
Bad guys : don’t act like that, as it ruins it for us good ones.
Ladies, I’m GOOD, and I *apologise* on behalf of all mankind for the bad ones. They ruin it for the rest of us.
Thankfully I’m a good guy. So you can safely fuck me. And ignore what Bruce says. He can fuck off. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!
Fuck off Brucey.
Ladies, let it be known that I am one of the GOOD ones. Those other guys? Pfft! They ruin it for us nice ones
Bad guys : don’t act like that, as it ruins it for us good ones.
Ladies, I’m GOOD, and I *apologise* on behalf of all mankind for the bad ones. They ruin it for the rest of us.
Thankfully I’m a good guy. So you can safely fuck me. And ignore what Bruce says. He can fuck off."
Do you know what's really sad? The fact we can make fun of this (admittedly rather cleverly) but there's some sad truth to it. Those who proudly exclaim they're nice guys are quite shitty if you don't play along with how they want/expect you to behave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.
You are welcome!
Fuck off Brucey.
Ladies, let it be known that I am one of the GOOD ones. Those other guys? Pfft! They ruin it for us nice ones
Bad guys : don’t act like that, as it ruins it for us good ones.
Ladies, I’m GOOD, and I *apologise* on behalf of all mankind for the bad ones. They ruin it for the rest of us.
Thankfully I’m a good guy. So you can safely fuck me. And ignore what Bruce says. He can fuck off.
Do you know what's really sad? The fact we can make fun of this (admittedly rather cleverly) but there's some sad truth to it. Those who proudly exclaim they're nice guys are quite shitty if you don't play along with how they want/expect you to behave."
Yeah but in reality they’re bad. Not like us good ones. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
The dickheads are the dickheads and they aren’t going to pay a blind bit of notice of what’s been said here!
I don’t get why so many people are so fixated about others… just concentrate on the one factor you can control… you!!!!
Me…. I am in the villain arc stage of my swinging life.. I’m having a blast!!! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Nah, they can do. We're all pretty shit really. Not worth the hype"
Various different degrees on the shit scale…….
I just love it when people say….. but oh I’m different!!! Well get your arse at there and show people you are….
The good guys out there are looking at this and laughing… they are already having a blast |
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If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….
‘Someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. This is sometimes referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome", which is used to describe a sense of entitlement to sexual or romantic attention from women simply for being "nice", and irrational anger when that attention is not forthcoming.’
Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:
• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman
• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”
• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”
• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.
• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place. |
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"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….
‘Someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. This is sometimes referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome", which is used to describe a sense of entitlement to sexual or romantic attention from women simply for being "nice", and irrational anger when that attention is not forthcoming.’
Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:
• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman
• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”
• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”
• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.
• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place."
I'm just fairly normal and slightly wrinkled.... Its not up to me to decide if I'm a "nice guy" or not, but I will always be polite. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….
‘Someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. This is sometimes referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome", which is used to describe a sense of entitlement to sexual or romantic attention from women simply for being "nice", and irrational anger when that attention is not forthcoming.’
Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:
• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman
• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”
• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”
• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.
• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place."
Exactly this. And me and Samantha are just friends who may one day play twister and be in awkward sexual positions but that's fine ok? My erection may make the game slightly less comfortable but because I'm a good sport I am willing to play.
She knows it would be more comfortable loose and free, and she knows it's there, of course she does. But it's fine. Because I'm not a self labelled nice guy |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Has anyone said 'nobody ruins your experience but yourself' or ' people don't tar all people of any gender with the same brush' yet?
Sorry if they have. I've been busy living life to the full as a single guy. |
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"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….
‘Someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. This is sometimes referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome", which is used to describe a sense of entitlement to sexual or romantic attention from women simply for being "nice", and irrational anger when that attention is not forthcoming.’
Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:
• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman
• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”
• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”
• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.
• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place.
Exactly this. And me and Samantha are just friends who may one day play twister and be in awkward sexual positions but that's fine ok? My erection may make the game slightly less comfortable but because I'm a good sport I am willing to play.
She knows it would be more comfortable loose and free, and she knows it's there, of course she does. But it's fine. Because I'm not a self labelled nice guy "
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….
‘Someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. This is sometimes referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome", which is used to describe a sense of entitlement to sexual or romantic attention from women simply for being "nice", and irrational anger when that attention is not forthcoming.’
Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:
• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman
• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”
• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”
• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.
• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place.
Exactly this. And me and Samantha are just friends who may one day play twister and be in awkward sexual positions but that's fine ok? My erection may make the game slightly less comfortable but because I'm a good sport I am willing to play.
She knows it would be more comfortable loose and free, and she knows it's there, of course she does. But it's fine. Because I'm not a self labelled nice guy
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest "
Exactly.
The women I’ve met don't really go on about it , they laugh about the odd weird message but don’t seem that fussed , it’s seems to be a handful of people on the forums who just enjoy whining - they probably never meet anyway! It can’t be that bad, they are still here.
As for abusive people just report and block I don’t know what purpose moaning about men in general on here serves, it certainly won’t change them.
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest
Exactly.
The women I’ve met don't really go on about it , they laugh about the odd weird message but don’t seem that fussed , it’s seems to be a handful of people on the forums who just enjoy whining - they probably never meet anyway! It can’t be that bad, they are still here.
As for abusive people just report and block I don’t know what purpose moaning about men in general on here serves, it certainly won’t change them.
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Women love to moan |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Has anyone said 'nobody ruins your experience but yourself' or ' people don't tar all people of any gender with the same brush' yet?
Sorry if they have. I've been busy living life to the full as a single guy. "
We are the game-playing , fun-having otters of the universe. We cannot hurt or be hurt anymore than illusions on a TV screen. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Has anyone said 'nobody ruins your experience but yourself' or ' people don't tar all people of any gender with the same brush' yet?
Sorry if they have. I've been busy living life to the full as a single guy.
We are the game-playing , fun-having otters of the universe. We cannot hurt or be hurt anymore than illusions on a TV screen. "
Otters rock.
Especially those ones that stick their hands through the holes for hugs........ |
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