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Fab Single Men Vs Non-Fab Single Men - Who Wins The Fight?
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A thread not about who wins the fight, but who wins your time..
Rightly or wrongly single men seem to be PNG on here. Cherry and I were talking about her experience with Fab single men before we met and she said that in fact Fab single men are easier to talk to, much more honest and much more considerate, than her experience with men from the vanilla world.
Have you had any good experiences of single men on here you can share? We would love to hear about times when single men have treated you in a way that impressed you or just in a way that made feel good (other than just sexually)
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"What does PNG mean? 
Persona non grata, i presume
Don’t think I’ve ever agreed with you on anything before Bananaman.
You should make a habit of it "
I dunno - do you think a fry up is just a snack and butter a whole loaf of Pat’s just in case when you have guests round? |
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I don't want to name names as they might not be comfortable with that. But there are some absolutely lovely single men on here!
The one who makes cakes and wristbands.
The one who buys me an overly snug t-shirt 
The one who got my bus wankers joke without me having to explain it.
The one who is a really good friend and makes me feel so very safe.
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We only meet "single" (maybe alone is a better phrase) guys, and other than a head who turned up to a pub we were in we've nothing bad at all to say about lone guys on here.
Mrs meets alone regularly and she always has great experiences. |
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"I don't want to name names as they might not be comfortable with that. But there are some absolutely lovely single men on here!
The one who makes cakes and wristbands.
The one who buys me an overly snug t-shirt
The one who got my bus wankers joke without me having to explain it.
The one who is a really good friend and makes me feel so very safe.
Jx"
Those are some good single men right there! *fist bumps every one of them |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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There are definitely some absolute gems of single men on fab. I don't know about "out there" so much as I don't tend to actually socialise with "those people"... you have to go out to do that.
But all of my absolute favourite men are men from fab. And nota just in a sex way. |
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Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps. |
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"We only meet "single" (maybe alone is a better phrase) guys, and other than a head who turned up to a pub we were in we've nothing bad at all to say about lone guys on here.
Mrs meets alone regularly and she always has great experiences. "
Great to hear.
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"Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps. "
I never knew that statistic, and I thought I was a weirdo commenting on threads and never getting a response!! Or is that another statistic entirely too it’s self? The weirdo that comments but know one wants to reply to xx |
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"Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps.
I never knew that statistic, and I thought I was a weirdo commenting on threads and never getting a response!! Or is that another statistic entirely too it’s self? The weirdo that comments but know one wants to reply to xx"
It's the stat I've seen so many times bandied around. It is a small number who use the forums and smaller in the Lounge. Keep commenting, it just takes a little while to get to know what's going on here! You're not weird.  |
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"Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps.
I never knew that statistic, and I thought I was a weirdo commenting on threads and never getting a response!! Or is that another statistic entirely too it’s self? The weirdo that comments but know one wants to reply to xx
It's the stat I've seen so many times bandied around. It is a small number who use the forums and smaller in the Lounge. Keep commenting, it just takes a little while to get to know what's going on here! You're not weird. "
Thank you for your evaluation.
Just for the record I never actually thought I was weird, I was just making conversation as it seems like the hardest thing possible on here for a single man is to actually get some interaction with a woman, but to be honest I’m still at a loss when it comes to the original post |
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"Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps.
I never knew that statistic, and I thought I was a weirdo commenting on threads and never getting a response!! Or is that another statistic entirely too it’s self? The weirdo that comments but know one wants to reply to xx
It's the stat I've seen so many times bandied around. It is a small number who use the forums and smaller in the Lounge. Keep commenting, it just takes a little while to get to know what's going on here! You're not weird.
Thank you for your evaluation.
Just for the record I never actually thought I was weird, I was just making conversation as it seems like the hardest thing possible on here for a single man is to actually get some interaction with a woman, but to be honest I’m still at a loss when it comes to the original post "
Well if you're not weird, just get onto Torso Tuesday or whatever it is, and you'll be fine I think.  |
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To be honest I've always found the men I chat to on fab more interesting, intelligent, attractive and more capable of holding my attention, than anyone I've ever chatted to on any of the usual dating sites.
The ones I've been lucky enough to meet socially or in some cases for much more have proved that I'm right in my judgement.
The other benefit of fab is that I'm more fanciable here than I ever was on dating sites.
Guess I'm not insta model pretty enough for Tinder, too lazy for bumble and possibly my boobs are more attractive than my face
I no longer have my dating profiles elsewhere as a result. |
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"Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps.
I never knew that statistic, and I thought I was a weirdo commenting on threads and never getting a response!! Or is that another statistic entirely too it’s self? The weirdo that comments but know one wants to reply to xx
It's the stat I've seen so many times bandied around. It is a small number who use the forums and smaller in the Lounge. Keep commenting, it just takes a little while to get to know what's going on here! You're not weird.
Thank you for your evaluation.
Just for the record I never actually thought I was weird, I was just making conversation as it seems like the hardest thing possible on here for a single man is to actually get some interaction with a woman, but to be honest I’m still at a loss when it comes to the original post
Well if you're not weird, just get onto Torso Tuesday or whatever it is, and you'll be fine I think. "
What is torso Tuesday point me in the right direction please lol |
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"To be honest I've always found the men I chat to on fab more interesting, intelligent, attractive and more capable of holding my attention, than anyone I've ever chatted to on any of the usual dating sites.
The ones I've been lucky enough to meet socially or in some cases for much more have proved that I'm right in my judgement.
The other benefit of fab is that I'm more fanciable here than I ever was on dating sites.
Guess I'm not insta model pretty enough for Tinder, too lazy for bumble and possibly my boobs are more attractive than my face
I no longer have my dating profiles elsewhere as a result. "
It was our conversation at MLS which sparked the conversation with Cherry and she agreed with you lady. It got me to thinking that single men on here could do with hearing how in a lot of cases they are preferred to their vanilla / ‘real world’ counterparts.
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"Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps.
I never knew that statistic, and I thought I was a weirdo commenting on threads and never getting a response!! Or is that another statistic entirely too it’s self? The weirdo that comments but know one wants to reply to xx
It's the stat I've seen so many times bandied around. It is a small number who use the forums and smaller in the Lounge. Keep commenting, it just takes a little while to get to know what's going on here! You're not weird.
Thank you for your evaluation.
Just for the record I never actually thought I was weird, I was just making conversation as it seems like the hardest thing possible on here for a single man is to actually get some interaction with a woman, but to be honest I’m still at a loss when it comes to the original post
Well if you're not weird, just get onto Torso Tuesday or whatever it is, and you'll be fine I think.
What is torso Tuesday point me in the right direction please lol "
It’s where a lot of women & men post photos of, or change their main profile photo to photos of their torsos.
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"Forum men are less than 1% of the site. I find Forum men generally to be pretty good and some of them are even friends!
As for the rest, I have never come across so many unpleasant, misogynistic, women-hating dickheads as I have on Fab. And I've spent considerable time on kink sites, dating and hookup apps.
I never knew that statistic, and I thought I was a weirdo commenting on threads and never getting a response!! Or is that another statistic entirely too it’s self? The weirdo that comments but know one wants to reply to xx
It's the stat I've seen so many times bandied around. It is a small number who use the forums and smaller in the Lounge. Keep commenting, it just takes a little while to get to know what's going on here! You're not weird.
Thank you for your evaluation.
Just for the record I never actually thought I was weird, I was just making conversation as it seems like the hardest thing possible on here for a single man is to actually get some interaction with a woman, but to be honest I’m still at a loss when it comes to the original post
Well if you're not weird, just get onto Torso Tuesday or whatever it is, and you'll be fine I think.
What is torso Tuesday point me in the right direction please lol "
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1507868
NotSoPosh's occasional threads are great for men to join in too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Of late
Some great one offs
Maybe 3 days off.. Then ghost.
In the past ive met some sexy intelligent men, had great times.
To get things started again boy it is hard |
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"Of late
Some great one offs
Maybe 3 days off.. Then ghost.
In the past ive met some sexy intelligent men, had great times.
To get things started again boy it is hard"
We hope you manage to get something started soon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love that men on here are generally very open minded, really generous with their thoughts and feelings, and have weird and kinky, sometimes tortured, adventurous little souls and are willing to share all of that with slightly odd and nosey women. I think it would be hard to start up the same sort of conversations with non-fab men in the cold light of day, as you could launch into on here, and for that I love the fab men and the chances to indulge in chats. |
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"To be honest I've always found the men I chat to on fab more interesting, intelligent, attractive and more capable of holding my attention, than anyone I've ever chatted to on any of the usual dating sites.
The ones I've been lucky enough to meet socially or in some cases for much more have proved that I'm right in my judgement.
The other benefit of fab is that I'm more fanciable here than I ever was on dating sites.
Guess I'm not insta model pretty enough for Tinder, too lazy for bumble and possibly my boobs are more attractive than my face
I no longer have my dating profiles elsewhere as a result. "
A little different but over on fab guys, this is so true. There's someone for everyone. I find that fab dating is much more inclusive. Ratios make that feel unreal for men but that doesn't make the inclusiveness any less real. |
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"I love that men on here are generally very open minded, really generous with their thoughts and feelings, and have weird and kinky, sometimes tortured, adventurous little souls and are willing to share all of that with slightly odd and nosey women. I think it would be hard to start up the same sort of conversations with non-fab men in the cold light of day, as you could launch into on here, and for that I love the fab men and the chances to indulge in chats. "
Do you reckon that's because you've met on here, you're more comfortable opening up about your kinks without being judged? |
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There have been some amazing single guys on here over the years. Some memorable moments are spending 2 hours laughing so much over dinner that we were asked to leave as soon as we'd finished eating as we were apparently disturbing the other diners; going for a walk and he brought me a CD of birdsong because we'd had a conversation about me loving to hear the birds twittering in the morning; someone telling the staff in TGI Friday's that it was my birthday because he thought it was funny to get them to come over and sing to me; and numerous times where I've sat having a cuppa with guys and just had some really pleasant, non-sexual conversations with them.
Honestly, I don't find the men on here any different to the men I know away from here, in general...some are lovely, and my kind of people; most are just there, not unpleasant, but not of any interest; and some are douchebags. |
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Men on Fab aren't a different breed of human. Some are amazing, some are open with their kinks, some are great friends. But so are men who aren't on Fab.
Some men are desperate, disrespectful, untrustworthy, abusive. On Fab or not. |
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"Men on Fab aren't a different breed of human. Some are amazing, some are open with their kinks, some are great friends. But so are men who aren't on Fab.
Some men are desperate, disrespectful, untrustworthy, abusive. On Fab or not."
This 
Fab acts like the removal of real life filters, people say way more on here than they do in real life.
I’ve got two amazing real life single men friends I met on here and a couple more who are looking like they’ll be the same |
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