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"What has the world come to when paying someone a compliment is seen as being rude and offensive, and the compliment was not crude in anyway.   "
Depends on the compliments, most I take no notice of, there all fake anyway.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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But saying 'you'll never lose your glasses with that nose and those ears....' has to be done in a very specific manner.
Otherwise it doesn't come across as the compliment you intended.
Apparently.....  |
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By *r-8-BBC OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"But saying 'you'll never lose your glasses with that nose and those ears....' has to be done in a very specific manner.
Otherwise it doesn't come across as the compliment you intended.
Apparently..... "
I wouldn't take offence because I know your either joking as bad as it is or your trying to get under my skin which isn't working |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But saying 'you'll never lose your glasses with that nose and those ears....' has to be done in a very specific manner.
Otherwise it doesn't come across as the compliment you intended.
Apparently.....
I wouldn't take offence because I know your either joking as bad as it is or your trying to get under my skin which isn't working "
I so hope this response is written somewhat with irony in mind. |
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"What has the world come to when paying someone a compliment is seen as being rude and offensive, and the compliment was not crude in anyway. "
We need this info.
Who gave the compliment?
Who received the compliment ?
Exactly , what was the compliment?
Where did the compliment take place ?
How many others were present and heard it ?
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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i hate false flattery via messages there no way of knowing most use it just to creep oh ill be nice then she mat drop her knickers type thing ...in person its different most still use it in a creepy way tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't control how other people react. It's not worth expending energy figuring out people unless they're important to you and even then it can be a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice tits seems to work fine on here. Just stick with that.
I sometimes stretch to "cute tush" too. Got to stick to the classics."
Depending on the age of the woman, saying “you’ve got an arse like a Renault Megane” will either get you a blowjob or a punch in the face. |
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"Nice tits seems to work fine on here. Just stick with that.
I sometimes stretch to "cute tush" too. Got to stick to the classics.
Depending on the age of the woman, saying “you’ve got an arse like a Renault Megane” will either get you a blowjob or a punch in the face."
'chill out, I meant the sports version, love...' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m gonna say this once and be as blunt as I can.
There has always been hypersensitive people in the world. The difference these days is that many of us are starting to understand our sensitivities and protect them from insensitive people… who we are ironically very sensitive to.
If someone is sensitive, chances are they’ve experienced trauma in their childhood and they are now on high alert. They will “react” to protect themselves from someone they perceive to be displaying red flags. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are just more angrier these days… I use to love smiling at women… now I just keep my eyes down and walk along…
A lot of things not right with the world.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are just more angrier these days… I use to love smiling at women… now I just keep my eyes down and walk along…
A lot of things not right with the world.."
Those pesky women. Tut. |
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"People are just more angrier these days… I use to love smiling at women… now I just keep my eyes down and walk along…
A lot of things not right with the world..
Those pesky women. Tut. "
Cheer up, Sally, might never happen. 
As it happens, I don't find I smile at people less than I used to... |
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Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are just more angrier these days… I use to love smiling at women… now I just keep my eyes down and walk along…
A lot of things not right with the world..
Those pesky women. Tut.
Cheer up, Sally, might never happen.
As it happens, I don't find I smile at people less than I used to..."
I'd smile back at you YOLO |
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By *r-8-BBC OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"I mean, that would bug me too, tbh, because wrinkles and stretch marks don’t stop someone being sexy"
I did not say she wasn't sexy. I was pointing out that her body after having two kids and being in her 40s is close to perfection, and her partner doesn’t have to take 1000s of pics at different angles to hide what isn't there.
Now tell me where is the insult or point out what I have said that is offensive? |
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I think people are just a little desensitised. Yes this is a sexual site but that still doesn't mean that a bit of originality or uniqueness would go amiss.
Some women get 100s of messages a day and they will all be the same:
God you're hot AF
Great tits
Wanna fuck ASAP?
You look great for a mum/older/fat woman.
Sometimes that guy will send the same message more than 3 times in a day.
Even horny women want to have a giggle first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean, that would bug me too, tbh, because wrinkles and stretch marks don’t stop someone being sexy
I did not say she wasn't sexy. I was pointing out that her body after having two kids and being in her 40s is close to perfection, and her partner doesn’t have to take 1000s of pics at different angles to hide what isn't there.
Now tell me where is the insult or point out what I have said that is offensive?
It wasnt offensive but people will find offence if they want to. Nothing you can do about that  "
Spot on - says more about them |
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By *r-8-BBC OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"I mean, that would bug me too, tbh, because wrinkles and stretch marks don’t stop someone being sexy
I did not say she wasn't sexy. I was pointing out that her body after having two kids and being in her 40s is close to perfection, and her partner doesn’t have to take 1000s of pics at different angles to hide what isn't there.
Now tell me where is the insult or point out what I have said that is offensive?
It wasnt offensive but people will find offence if they want to. Nothing you can do about that "
Thank you for being honest and answering my questions without making excuses |
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By *r-8-BBC OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response. "
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't? |
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"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response.
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't?"
I mean, she said she'd taken 1000 photos to get one she was half satisfied with. She's probably very conscious of every stretch mark and wrinkle, and you saying that she's beautiful because she doesn't have those when she almost certainly does in other angles and lighting probably made her feel like shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response.
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't?
I mean, she said she'd taken 1000 photos to get one she was half satisfied with. She's probably very conscious of every stretch mark and wrinkle, and you saying that she's beautiful because she doesn't have those when she almost certainly does in other angles and lighting probably made her feel like shit."
If that’s true, then this a weird world
But everyone is entitled to feel what they want to feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone please answer my question? "
The only person who can is the lady in question. I can't personally see why she thought it rude but I'm not her. Afraid it's not worth anymore of your energy, OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone please answer my question?
The only person who can is the lady in question. I can't personally see why she thought it rude but I'm not her. Afraid it's not worth anymore of your energy, OP. "
Great post |
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By *r-8-BBC OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response.
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't?
I mean, she said she'd taken 1000 photos to get one she was half satisfied with. She's probably very conscious of every stretch mark and wrinkle, and you saying that she's beautiful because she doesn't have those when she almost certainly does in other angles and lighting probably made her feel like shit."
Oh c'mon you gotta do better than than lol
She has 0 stretch marks 0 wrinkles even her arsehole is smooth she looks like a supermodel !
Her body is flawless !
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"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response.
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't?
I mean, she said she'd taken 1000 photos to get one she was half satisfied with. She's probably very conscious of every stretch mark and wrinkle, and you saying that she's beautiful because she doesn't have those when she almost certainly does in other angles and lighting probably made her feel like shit.
Oh c'mon you gotta do better than than lol
She has 0 stretch marks 0 wrinkles even her arsehole is smooth she looks like a supermodel !
Her body is flawless !
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She's had two kids. She will have stretch marks. Your compliment makes out she's only attractive when she successfully masks them. |
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By *r-8-BBC OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"OP what was her response ?
She blocked me
Her blocking you doesn't necessarily mean she found your comment rude and offensive. Folk block for lots of reasons. I know I do.
Mrs TMN x"
After saying she'd love for us to meet and fuck ?  |
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"OP what was her response ?
She blocked me
Her blocking you doesn't necessarily mean she found your comment rude and offensive. Folk block for lots of reasons. I know I do.
Mrs TMN x
After saying she'd love for us to meet and fuck ? "
She was probably just another time waster, or a guy pretending to be a woman. Loads of those profiles in here |
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"OP what was her response ?
She blocked me
Her blocking you doesn't necessarily mean she found your comment rude and offensive. Folk block for lots of reasons. I know I do.
Mrs TMN x
After saying she'd love for us to meet and fuck ? "
Only she knows the reason. If I had a shrug emoji this is when I would use it. |
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By *r-8-BBC OP Man
over a year ago
LONDON |
"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response.
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't?
I mean, she said she'd taken 1000 photos to get one she was half satisfied with. She's probably very conscious of every stretch mark and wrinkle, and you saying that she's beautiful because she doesn't have those when she almost certainly does in other angles and lighting probably made her feel like shit.
Oh c'mon you gotta do better than than lol
She has 0 stretch marks 0 wrinkles even her arsehole is smooth she looks like a supermodel !
Her body is flawless !
She's had two kids. She will have stretch marks. Your compliment makes out she's only attractive when she successfully masks them."
Omg she's naked, her belly and arse is showing, she looks like she hasn't given birth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response.
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't?
I mean, she said she'd taken 1000 photos to get one she was half satisfied with. She's probably very conscious of every stretch mark and wrinkle, and you saying that she's beautiful because she doesn't have those when she almost certainly does in other angles and lighting probably made her feel like shit.
Oh c'mon you gotta do better than than lol
She has 0 stretch marks 0 wrinkles even her arsehole is smooth she looks like a supermodel !
Her body is flawless !
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this just makes me think she has filters etc.
Even if she doesn't use filters, she's told you she's not body confident. And while you think what you have given is a compliment, to her you may have ignored what she has shared with you and minimised her feelings about herself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Compliments from strangers on the internet hold no weight for me.
Probably same thing for her, I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
You don’t know what is going on in her life currently, can be anything and your supposed “compliment” possibly triggered some sort of trauma related response.
"Supposed compliment." Then what was it, if it wasn't?
I mean, she said she'd taken 1000 photos to get one she was half satisfied with. She's probably very conscious of every stretch mark and wrinkle, and you saying that she's beautiful because she doesn't have those when she almost certainly does in other angles and lighting probably made her feel like shit.
Oh c'mon you gotta do better than than lol
She has 0 stretch marks 0 wrinkles even her arsehole is smooth she looks like a supermodel !
Her body is flawless !
She's had two kids. She will have stretch marks. Your compliment makes out she's only attractive when she successfully masks them."
I think tbh, that's a bit of a reach. We can't know why she had a problem with the compliment anymore than he can. |
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"What has the world come to when paying someone a compliment is seen as being rude and offensive, and the compliment was not crude in anyway. "
Because entitlement. Right and no obligations, because selfishness, because every person is a “beautiful” person. Because there’s always a better option, because uneducated people are influencers. |
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By *tooveMan
over a year ago
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"What has the world come to when paying someone a compliment is seen as being rude and offensive, and the compliment was not crude in anyway.
Because entitlement. Right and no obligations, because selfishness, because every person is a “beautiful” person. Because there’s always a better option, because uneducated people are influencers. "
Because Because because |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because knowledgeable, skilled, experienced people speaking pure facts are being silenced so the feelings of ones, either not so blessed or in denial of such knowledge, aren't hurt. "
^^ he knows. Fact.
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"What has the world come to when paying someone a compliment is seen as being rude and offensive, and the compliment was not crude in anyway. "
yes not sure but suppose its all the fake compliments that fail the real ones  |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"People are just more angrier these days… I use to love smiling at women… now I just keep my eyes down and walk along…
A lot of things not right with the world.."
I wonder if all those women appreciated it at the time or not?
I can see it now. A dark and lonely underpass, the man approaching gives a big smile, the woman thinks .....[insert your opinion/experience here]
I hope you haven't become one of those angry people because of this?
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