The men who've been 'bi' for ages and for whatever reason won't change their profile soon become clear enough I find.
I just had a few messages from a plain Straight, which I often do. That is a 'hide the interest' thing for sure (ie most aren't purely curious - they are simply bi).
Maybe bi-curious is just 'half hiding' it?
I think a lot of it is about 'hedging the bets', but you can't satisfy everyone on Fab you just can't. Some will demand x and while others will outright deny it.
It's best not to worry what the odd profiles asks for I say. It's like ticking every interest box and leaving your profile beguilingly empty! It probably works against you in the end.
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By *ash OP Man
over a year ago
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"I fab life, it can mean someone who likes cock, but isn't emotionally into men. It can also mean someone who is only willing to be sucked or suck.
It can also genuinely mean they are curious. "
Hmmm, I think this might be me then.. I'm not sure though.. |
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"Pretty much anywhere in the spectrum between straight as fuck and fully bisexual.
This. I see it as hete exible, but that isn't really an option on Fab.
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Why the heck is R O F L emoji without brackets?  it was supposed to be Hetero flexible (without space)
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I list as bi curious because Hetero flexible isn't an option. I find women with a penis as sexy as women with a vagina. I'm also comfortable orally with a bi couple. But, I'm only attracted to women and not other men. It's weird, damn labels! |
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"I fab life, it can mean someone who likes cock, but isn't emotionally into men. It can also mean someone who is only willing to be sucked or suck.
It can also genuinely mean they are curious.
Hmmm, I think this might be me then.. I'm not sure though.."
We meet guys to suck cock, I got to a gay bar with a dark room and glory holes and suck cock, but I don't walk down the street and look at guys.
I feel slightly bad/fraud calling myself bi because I feel its a disservice to real bi guys, but anyone who's straight would clearly call I was bi so who knows. |
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"Being a straight person whole my life, who has never touched another dick, I would like to try and hold someone to see how it feels
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The intense rush of inner heat from a man's body is very different to a woman's I find, as is their overall feel. The muscle feels like an engine. There is just a small layer of softness under the skin that is electric. I'm not really a kisser, or not with the new mean I meet at least, but kissing is an incredible rush of energy between two males!
Men tend to know what goes well with each other too of course, just as it goes with all same-sex coupling I would guess.
It's worth experiencing if you can for sure! Cocks themselves can be a little different to each other somehow, so it's hard to say. I like mine groomed but a lot of men just haven't heard of that sadly!
Woman are soft and deep of course - and something else entirely. It's hard not to feel emotions with them I find.
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"I've always thought its someone that's up for the sexual fun but without any attraction or interest in a relationship of someone of the same sex.
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Many completely bisexual people like myself only have interests in relationships with one sex though (from me it's always women). I see my bisexuality simply as both heterosexual and homosexual, and my love and relationship interest is with women.
To me the word 'curiosity' suggests it's simply just that - looking to explore. I accept that people can be curious for absolutely ages though.
I do know some full-on bisexual men who have kept at 'Curious' for years though too!
I've always been bisexual (though I've had a few big gaps, some even in interest) and have never had any interest in a relationship with a man, even if we become quite close.
Bisexuality is interesting because for people who are interested in monogamy (as I am providing my partner is too), it kind of just 'filters away'.
It's certainly not the threat to relationships that a lot of people think it is. (There are plenty of people of all sexes out there for those who have decided to cheat! It's silly to think it multiplies.) But some people are afraid of bisexuality for sure (and prejudiced too - even traditionally amongst gays) - so I sometimes think of bisexuality as the last sexual taboo.
Maybe that social fear is a reason some are reluctant to 'fully' jump in too.
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There are broad spectrums in many things. I like to think that "curious", whether it be a female or a male, means someone not adverse to pushing some boundaries on occasions - or sometimes 'sharing' a bit more than hetro's might.
If it's more than very occasional then I guess that's bi. |
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Truly, it's reasonable for people to have a curiosity, especially when it's not their predominant sexuality. Sexuality is very complex anyway and when we've not hit puberty and adulthood with a clearcut understanding of what our interests are, it's often not a case of just knowing exactly what we'll love to experience.
1 good or bad shag won't necessarily give you the definitive answer |
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"Truly, it's reasonable for people to have a curiosity, especially when it's not their predominant sexuality. Sexuality is very complex anyway and when we've not hit puberty and adulthood with a clearcut understanding of what our interests are, it's often not a case of just knowing exactly what we'll love to experience.
1 good or bad shag won't necessarily give you the definitive answer "
"Sexuality is very complex"
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"Is bicurious actually a thing or it's just a Bi person still to acknowledge their preference?
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I'm not sure bi-curious is a real thing. I'm guessing it is code for I fancy men but I'm anxious so don't expect too much, or make too many demands. |
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"Is bicurious actually a thing or it's just a Bi person still to acknowledge their preference?
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Fuck knows there seam to have put something in the water its due the amount of men here that fab straight or bi curiouse .so I'm sure youl find your answer .I'm a straight man and not bi curiouse bone in my body so can't understand it. |
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"Just pop it in your mouth, slide your tongue over it, give it a squeeze and a shake. Now decide.
Where do I take this test?"
Right place. Right time. Right now. |
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"I list as bi curious because Hetero flexible isn't an option. I find women with a penis as sexy as women with a vagina. I'm also comfortable orally with a bi couple. But, I'm only attracted to women and not other men. It's weird, damn labels! "
I've come to the same conclusion as you.
Putting a label on it doesn't really work. |
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"I list as bi curious because Hetero flexible isn't an option. I find women with a penis as sexy as women with a vagina. I'm also comfortable orally with a bi couple. But, I'm only attracted to women and not other men. It's weird, damn labels!
I've come to the same conclusion as you.
Putting a label on it doesn't really work."
This.
For an awful lot of men I think it comes down to liking cock, not men.
I don't walk down a street and see a guy and wonder what his cock is like or think he's attractive. But I see a naked guy and I'm like, oh I want to suck that cock.
I have no issue if people want describe me as bi, however I'm hesitant to lable myself as bi in the real world because I feel it's somewhat disrespectful to guys are are bi, as in they fancy men and women.
For me, sucking cock is very much on the kink/fetish side, a massive part of why I do it is because it's a bit taboo, since I don't actually fancy men.
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"How do you know you're bisexual until you try? Until you're sure, you're only curious...
LvM"
Yes. But also no…. But also yes.
How often do you have to try? |
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My view is sexuality varies from person to person and can change through out your life . I now consider myself bi sexual but if I go back 25 years the idea of sucking a cock or being wanked off by a man would never have occurred to me .
To me curious implies the are thinking about it but not acted upon that thought .
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There's different levels of bi tho surely, I've no issues with sucking and being sucked, happy to rim a sexy ass but I'm more bottom when it comes to going further. I can and have topped but think my submissive side comes out more when there's another mam involved. |
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"My view is sexuality varies from person to person and can change through out your life . I now consider myself bi sexual but if I go back 25 years the idea of sucking a cock or being wanked off by a man would never have occurred to me .
To me curious implies the are thinking about it but not acted upon that thought .
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I can relate to this. I spoke to someone who I consider to be very intelligent and I touch with stuff.
Fluid. And it realy doesn’t matter, we are just sexual. You can be with a man and then a woman. Crave one and then not crave them at type of sex for years,…
Imagine yourself straight for all your life, and then you just felt like being with the same sex just once toward the end of your life. What were you? Straight or bi or something else. Nobody will care?
Just get on with it. If someone asks that matters, then it matters.  |
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"I list as bi curious because Hetero flexible isn't an option. I find women with a penis as sexy as women with a vagina. I'm also comfortable orally with a bi couple. But, I'm only attracted to women and not other men. It's weird, damn labels!
I've come to the same conclusion as you.
Putting a label on it doesn't really work.
This.
For an awful lot of men I think it comes down to liking cock, not men.
I don't walk down a street and see a guy and wonder what his cock is like or think he's attractive. But I see a naked guy and I'm like, oh I want to suck that cock.
I have no issue if people want describe me as bi, however I'm hesitant to lable myself as bi in the real world because I feel it's somewhat disrespectful to guys are are bi, as in they fancy men and women.
For me, sucking cock is very much on the kink/fetish side, a massive part of why I do it is because it's a bit taboo, since I don't actually fancy men.
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"Yes bi curious is definitely a thing so for me I only feel and act bi when a women is involved "
I think if you are regularly having sexual encounters with men, regardless of whether a women there too, then that ship has sailed. |
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