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"Drooled " Come on you can’t blame him!!! Xxx | |||
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"When he shouted at me" This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. | |||
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"Having to leave at the end of an amazing one." Oddly enough mine was having to politely hang around on a poor one. | |||
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"When he shouted at me This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. " I didn't think it sounded tame at all It sounded scary. Sorry this happened to you. | |||
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"When he shouted at me This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. I didn't think it sounded tame at all It sounded scary. Sorry this happened to you. " Thank you. I dismissed it at the time but it's stuck in my head. | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else " My ex had a man rub red Heat in her vagina, that was a short unpleasant meet. | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else My ex had a man rub red Heat in her vagina, that was a short unpleasant meet. " Why the hell did he do that? | |||
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"Had a guy from a couple walk in, jam a finger up Penny's arse and then seem shocked when she ripped him a new one." What a dick!! | |||
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"Started wanking under the table in the pub on a first social. He may have thought he was being subtle but he absolutely was not." No fucking way! WTAF. Did you encourage him or were you mortified/stunned etc | |||
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"Got an unexpected slap around the face that he thought I would enjoy." Unacceptable to do that without prior discussion and consent!! | |||
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"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point " That's assault pure and simple. JFC. So dangerous! I'm so sorry. | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else " One guy just didn't show up The other left before anything could start after they booked the hotel | |||
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"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point " Jeezus. I'd have been raging! I hope you're ok x | |||
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"Started wanking under the table in the pub on a first social. He may have thought he was being subtle but he absolutely was not." Wha?! | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else One guy just didn't show up The other left before anything could start after they booked the hotel " Any reason given? | |||
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"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him. " That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting? | |||
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"A more amusing one... knocked my full length mirror over on the way out if the bedroom and it shattered. " That would have been so embarrassing. Sorry about mirror but feel for that fella. What happened next? | |||
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"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him. That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting? " He said it was because high heels are a cutting risk. Needless to say he was asked to leave pretty quick. | |||
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"So. I’ve got a few. 1) back at uni someone who didn’t tell me she was a virgin. She bled all over my sofa. She was super apologetic and I thought it was charming in a way. 2) a co worker who cheated on her bf and had a panic attack after I had finished. She kept asking if I had removed my condom because she felt very wet inside. ( I had not- for the record - but it was an instant turn off from then on) 3) a young guy who couldn’t get his Willy hard. 4) a guy who had clearly not douched but also had some… downstairs incident while having sex as a bottom. Those are my top 4 " Taking a woman’s virginity and making her bleed is number one on your list of the worst things someone’s done on a meet? wow | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it " That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!! J x | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it " Used all my eggs!! | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else " Couple arrived late (2hrs) when I offered to host, Hubby was absolutely belted, pissed out his head, cut very short they couldn’t get a taxi, I was that keen to get rid I drove them home, suffice to say blocked and learned from that experience | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it Used all my eggs!! " I have some free range if you ever run short | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it Used all my eggs!! " But check thr banging omelette you got to eat | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it " Sacrilege! | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!! J x" Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab | |||
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"Turned up at door eating with mouth open and food stains on him. " Sounds like a classy fella… | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!! J x Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab " Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you. | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!! J x Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you. " You had respect for me, lies all lies | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it Sacrilege! " Blasphemy | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it Used all my eggs!! I have some free range if you ever run short " Oh thank you. | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it Used all my eggs!! I have some free range if you ever run short Oh thank you. " Thy pleasure is all ours | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!! J x Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you. You had respect for me, lies all lies " Total respect!! You’re one of the good guys xx | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!! J x Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you. You had respect for me, lies all lies Total respect!! You’re one of the good guys xx" Shusssh, don't tell them all, I've got a rep as a twat to maintain and uphold... | |||
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"Turned up at door eating with mouth open and food stains on him. " Did you shag him? | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it " That’s pretty shocking behaviour | |||
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"Being throttled in the back of a car. I couldn’t speak. I froze and was not responding. He was quite rough and it was scary. Bruised neck and sore throat. He messaged following that and seemed surprised when I said how he had been. I never saw him again. He is still on the site. " Christ! That's a criminal offence and he's surprised? | |||
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"The girl I was fucking, farted. I haven’t been hard since." Hey man I'm sorry to hear that, I did also just burst out laughing tho, your comment came outta left field haha | |||
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"Haven’t had a fab meet yet, but one of my worst experiences was a guy at uni who kept comparing me to his girlfriend throughout. And then when he’d finished he started crying out of guilt for cheating on her." | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it That’s pretty shocking behaviour " Criminal tbf | |||
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"Haven’t had a fab meet yet, but one of my worst experiences was a guy at uni who kept comparing me to his girlfriend throughout. And then when he’d finished he started crying out of guilt for cheating on her." Idiot lol | |||
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"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer" Shit happens!!! | |||
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"Ate my Galaxy Ripple " Galaxy ripple for a nipple | |||
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"Ate my Galaxy Ripple " I could have assisted | |||
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"Ate my Galaxy Ripple " Unforgivable! | |||
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"While fucking on a meet thought I could feel her coil, she said I don’t have a coil fitted. On further investigation turn out to be a Budweiser bottle top. " | |||
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"While fucking on a meet thought I could feel her coil, she said I don’t have a coil fitted. On further investigation turn out to be a Budweiser bottle top. " Now that is an impressive trick for when you can't find a bottle opener! | |||
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"This is about a meet that actually didn't turn into a meet per se. I arrived at the pre-arranged location and telephone my meet to confirm house number. As a security measure I asked on the telephone for my date to confirm they could see the vehicle I was driving. They correctly described my car. I parked on their drive and knocked on their door. The door was answered by a woman, clearly not the person I had just spoken to. There was the sound of children coming from inside of the house. She looked shocked and if I am honest frightened to find a six feet plus transvestite stood at her front door. I made hasty apologies and beat a retreat. Once I had got my car off of her drive I tried to telephone my meet. No great surprise that the call was not answered. Also no great surprise that I was blocked by the profile I thought I was meeting. This was occurred several years ago and had been arranged via a non-fab site. I now have new and more stringent security checks in place for when I do meet." I'm sorry this happened to you, but there are some sick people out there that would include a woman and her children in their idea of fun | |||
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"While fucking on a meet thought I could feel her coil, she said I don’t have a coil fitted. On further investigation turn out to be a Budweiser bottle top. Now that is an impressive trick for when you can't find a bottle opener! " Got no words...probably to old these days | |||
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"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him. That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting? He said it was because high heels are a cutting risk. Needless to say he was asked to leave pretty quick. " That is fantastic. Had he been cut by heels at some point? Some kind of unresolved trauma. Poor man. Reaching out for connection... | |||
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"Ate my Galaxy Ripple " No words. How very rude. B*st*rd! | |||
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"When he shouted at me This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. " Go on then we will bite. What did he shout at you about ? | |||
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"When he shouted at me This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. Go on then we will bite. What did he shout at you about ?" Nosey lol | |||
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"Ate my Galaxy Ripple Unforgivable!" I know!! | |||
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"Ignored a boundary, told him to stop, he didn't. Police got involved. " Rightly so | |||
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"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful." Absolutely this. And it’s barely scratching the surface of how bad things can get for women. | |||
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"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful. Absolutely this. And it’s barely scratching the surface of how bad things can get for women." True... Sad but true. | |||
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"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him. That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting? He said it was because high heels are a cutting risk. Needless to say he was asked to leave pretty quick. " Is a first aid kit a bad thing? Would a risk assessment form be worse? | |||
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"I am so shocked by this thread." Offended i guess? | |||
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"When he shouted at me This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. Go on then we will bite. What did he shout at you about ?" Does it matter? They felt vulnerable | |||
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"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer" So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out? Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole... I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. | |||
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"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out? Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole... I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. " Fucking good answer | |||
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"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out? Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole... I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. " Fucking good answer | |||
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"1) I’ve been stealthed a couple of times. 2) One guy was in my bedroom and told me he was short of money boo hoo, so I said “I don’t have any money to give you - I’ve got a fiver in my purse” and he started picking objects up and throwing them at me telling me to sell them and get him money. 3) Another guy -first meet in met in a hotel. He went out for a cigarette and he came back in the room with a man I’d never met or spoken to. Strange man comes and sits on the bed next to me and I am terrified. So I kick off and shout at them and luckily they go out to “finish smoking” and I get up and ask the hotel staff to take me out through the back door. So they guy keeps ringing me and apologising. Saying it was all a misunderstanding and he didn’t mean to scare me. This goes on for a year and in the end I relent and agree to meet him again. He then sneaks out the room and doesn’t come back. The whole thing was a spite fuck, for a whole year he had been planning his vengeance! But when he left he forgot his dildo - that he had made to be an exact replica of his dick. I still have it and don’t have to deal with the rubbish man " Crazy story...fuck !!! | |||
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"A finger nail snagged me inside it was a bloodbath! " I always make sure I trim my finger nails | |||
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"A more amusing one... knocked my full length mirror over on the way out if the bedroom and it shattered. " I trust that was over 7 years ago | |||
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"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out? Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole... I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. " Shit happens | |||
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"Those that are mentioning farting - you do realise that this means the person is totally relaxed when this happens? Technically it should be a compliment J x" Just like belching in certain countries after eating | |||
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"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out? Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole... I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. Shit happens " Agree totally... | |||
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"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it Used all my eggs!! " Fancy an omelette? | |||
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"When he shouted at me" what did you do?? | |||
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"Looked nothing like her pictures..." plenty of them about heh! | |||
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"The girl I was fucking, farted. I haven’t been hard since." " thats a hard one to get over " | |||
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"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point " looks meam everything. Imagined if he hadnt,would you have married him? K | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else One guy just didn't show up The other left before anything could start after they booked the hotel " your doing really well heh. | |||
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"This Is different. This is what someone has NOT done when turning up for a meet. A lady did not wash, clean, or do any maintenance down there or her body after I spent ages grooming, showering and preparing for a meet. The stench that hit the room when I pulled down her pants was foul..and I'm sorry I gagged. Needless to say..I made an excuse and left.. she knew exactly what was the issue cuz the smell was unbearable... This had scarred me for months..shame cuz she said her husband never went down on her for years and I was looking forward to doing it for her..now I know why. She was such an attractive woman as well. All looks..no basic hygiene." wtf!!!!!! | |||
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"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful." I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy. Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable. And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly. And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all. Take names girls and block accordingly | |||
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"When he shouted at me what did you do?? " Why are you implying she did anything?? | |||
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"Punched in the face and kneed in the balls on my first meet by a woman who wanted me to retaliate because that was her kink. I didn't and left her there. " | |||
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"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful. I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy. Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable. And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly. And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all. Take names girls and block accordingly " Well said xx | |||
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"Punched in the face and kneed in the balls on my first meet by a woman who wanted me to retaliate because that was her kink. I didn't and left her there. " I've read your story before and it still shocks me! | |||
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"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point looks meam everything. Imagined if he hadnt,would you have married him? K" WTAF? | |||
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"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful. I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy. Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable. And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly. And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all. Take names girls and block accordingly " With all respect to you and all victims of assault everywhere, the OP of this thread asked for people too describe the worst things that happened on a meet and everyone here has the option of telling their story. Some of them are funny, some disgusting and some are harrowing. No one is comparing anything. | |||
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"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful. I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy. Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable. And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly. And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all. Take names girls and block accordingly " It's not a competition for worst experience. | |||
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"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful. I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy. Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable. And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly. And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all. Take names girls and block accordingly " It’s not a comparison exercise | |||
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" I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy. Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable. And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly. And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all. Take names girls and block accordingly " You said what I was thinking, thank you. All those insisting this isn't a comparison competition are, I think somewhat willfully ignorantly, missing the point. If the tone of a conversation goes in a particular direction, it can be in very poor taste to shoehorn in something else. I'd also like to point out the person who openly mocked my story on this thread, as if assault is a joke?! And I chose one story out of many I could have answered to this question, I heavily edited it for privacy and for brevity. And I was actually OK after, I wasn't too shaken up by it thankfully - I've had other experiences that have, for example, been less violent but caused much more psychological damage. And yet someone thinks it's appropriate to make light of it here. and while Fab rules prevent me saying exactly what the message said, I've also received a private message from someone else calling me a gendered slur and saying that it was my fault because I met someone from here. It's very telling of the attitudes found here, in real life, and the wider world. The men who laugh at or ignore the women's stories here are as bad as the men committing the crimes (yes, I mean the actual crimes listed in this thread) - they're part of the problem, making this behaviour acceptable, and distancing themselves from it as if it is nothing to do with them, blissfully ignorant of the fact that their casual attitudes allow and perpetuate a culture that these things happen in. | |||
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"Was asked to go on holiday with a lady and not taking the bull by the horns...and then losing her phone number. Number one regret in my life by a long chalk" You hesitate, you maaturbate | |||
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"For goodness sake, I’m sure the OP started this thread thinking it would be lighthearted. He’s not to know that us women have slightly more menacing experiences. Neither are the posters who didn’t read through all the thread and just posted at the end. Not everybody reads every post. It doesn’t mean they are belittling women’s experiences. It doesn’t mean they need to be blocked. Jeez. Can we just stop with the men vs women posts that seem to have started up again recently?" Hear here | |||
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"A brief history of my experience in this thread, TLDR version if you will. OP: what's your worst experience here? Me: physical assault Man1(on pm): urgh you're promiscuous and you deserved that to happen to you Me: ..... Man2: wow men assaulting women is funny, I'm gonna make a public jokey comment about that Me: .... Man3: ew a woman had a normal bodily function ew ew ew Me: wow, this experience holds a mirror up to behaviour I experience all the time, men really are letting the side down Woman: God you're all making a fuss, stop being so horrible to men it's not a big deal. Uhhh yeah I think that covers it! So glad I decided to participate, reminds me why I love fab so much " Sorry to hear you have been assualted and this should highlight how precautious women need to be, shocking that some men make a some joke about it tbh. I'm sure the original question wasn't thinking of the serious things that can happen. Hope experiences in the future are a lot better | |||
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"A brief history of my experience in this thread, TLDR version if you will. OP: what's your worst experience here? Me: physical assault Man1(on pm): urgh you're promiscuous and you deserved that to happen to you Me: ..... Man2: wow men assaulting women is funny, I'm gonna make a public jokey comment about that Me: .... Man3: ew a woman had a normal bodily function ew ew ew Me: wow, this experience holds a mirror up to behaviour I experience all the time, men really are letting the side down Woman: God you're all making a fuss, stop being so horrible to men it's not a big deal. Uhhh yeah I think that covers it! So glad I decided to participate, reminds me why I love fab so much " I'm really sorry to hear you received that private message - what an arsehole to do that when you'd had such a horrible experience. I did say it wasn't a competition because...it isn't. I don't think people read the whole thread before posting so wouldn't have necessarily known how serious some of the comments were. And several men acknowledged the difference in worst experiences for the sexes. | |||
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"Got an unexpected slap around the face that he thought I would enjoy." | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else " The lady turned up and looked the spitting image of Jimmy Saville. You can imagine how difficult it was to get an erection. I made an excuse that I had double booked myself with some friends but did t want to stand her up so we didn't have very long. Sorted her out with a fingering and oral and set her on her way never to be solicited again. | |||
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"A brief history of my experience in this thread, TLDR version if you will. OP: what's your worst experience here? Me: physical assault Man1(on pm): urgh you're promiscuous and you deserved that to happen to you Me: ..... Man2: wow men assaulting women is funny, I'm gonna make a public jokey comment about that Me: .... Man3: ew a woman had a normal bodily function ew ew ew Me: wow, this experience holds a mirror up to behaviour I experience all the time, men really are letting the side down Woman: God you're all making a fuss, stop being so horrible to men it's not a big deal. Uhhh yeah I think that covers it! So glad I decided to participate, reminds me why I love fab so much " Well if that’s how you want to misinterpret my post you crack on. | |||
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"and while Fab rules prevent me saying exactly what the message said, I've also received a private message from someone else calling me a gendered slur and saying that it was my fault because I met someone from here. " I wish the site could/would permaban people like this one. | |||
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"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else " Met a cpl. Mr and his mrs getting on great. Her mr was clearly rat arsed. Anyway we progressed to the bedroom where we got it on with our own partners and as usual john made me cum several times. Then when we swapped john and his mrs were going at it very well when that dickhead decided it was ok to bite my breast so hard he left his teeth marks very deeply imprinted. He then started to fuck me but decided to pull both sides of my hair so hard he pulled a fair few handfulls out. I went nuts along with john. Pushed the guy off me and we both left. His mrs was so upset as she was really enjoying herself. Lesson learned we now will not meet anyone who has been drinking. Mrs | |||
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