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First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
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"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…
…we’ve had quite a few of those 
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Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up  |
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"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…
…we’ve had quite a few of those
K
Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up "
Ohhh I didn't realise they don't get the thread. Explains a lot!! |
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"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…
…we’ve had quite a few of those
K
Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up
Ohhh I didn't realise they don't get the thread. Explains a lot!!"
Same for the ones who claim we had chatted previously and were at the point of deciding when and where to meet......ermmmm, nope, my site supporter features would show me previous contact and conversation |
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over a year ago
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "
brilliant. I'm stealing that.
I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "
Concerned? No.
If people ghost it's on them. My block button works perfectly.
There'll then be no zombie resurrection unless they set up a new profile and as most are easy to spot when they do that they're easy to recognise and avoid.
I have no issue with things being in no rush, conversations taking place over weeks or months and there being absolutely no hurry to anything happening via Fab. Makes for a stress free site life.
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That's always been submarining to me.
I quite like the term Zombying. Although I think I prefer that for the ones whom maintain contact, but in a lifeless manner.
As long as it is acknowledged it's not something I would be concerned about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "
That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny... |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?
That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny..."
If they send a hi message now and then they call that the friend part of friend with benefits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No I’ve military mates that I might not have spoken to in years pop up and say fancy a brew! As if it was last week we last caught up.
Life’s busy. If I’d arranged to actually meet and it went silent I might be a bit reluctant to arrange something straight off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?
That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny...
If they send a hi message now and then they call that the friend part of friend with benefits. "
Romance ain't dead, Nanna!  |
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?
brilliant. I'm stealing that.
I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers."
Often with the same freaking cut and paste job too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…
…we’ve had quite a few of those
K
Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up "
Cheers that's great news thank you never knew that maybe reason why ive had a few of those lately |
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?
brilliant. I'm stealing that.
I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers."
And some of them seem impervious to being able to make the connection/memory retrieval, despite multiple cues you may give them. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?
That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny...
If they send a hi message now and then they call that the friend part of friend with benefits.
Romance ain't dead, Nanna! "
Some even send kisses |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"No I’ve military mates that I might not have spoken to in years pop up and say fancy a brew! As if it was last week we last caught up.
Life’s busy. If I’d arranged to actually meet and it went silent I might be a bit reluctant to arrange something straight off "
That's mates though. A cup of tea isn't the same as putting your penis inside someone. |
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?
brilliant. I'm stealing that.
I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers.
And some of them seem impervious to being able to make the connection/memory retrieval, despite multiple cues you may give them."
If they have forgotten my name that's a instant sod off... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...
Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...
Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "
I ain’t fleeing anywhere, if I’m ghosted by anyone they’re blocked never to return  |
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