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Ever had a family member of a previous meet contact you?
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I've had this happen today on another site. The son of a guy a meet over a year ago, contacted me to ask questions about my meet. He wants to know when and where? It's obvious the guy i met was playing without permission.
I haven't answered him back. Not sure if i should. I don't want to get involved. What would you do? |
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over a year ago
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Only once, on Fab.
The husband of a lady I met back in the day, in one of my previous incarnations on here, sometime around 2016/7.
He joined Fab after finding out she was on here and obviously saw her veris list.
In a forum thread I started one day, he randomly wrote something like “hey Dan, I hear you’ve been fucking my wife” which was a bit awkward tbf ..  
True story. |
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A cheated on gf reached out, pretending to be the guy. Turned out she wasn’t mad at me but had this hare brained plan that I hide in their wardrobe and jump out and the two of us call him a liar and force him to leave her house. I said no. I had only met the man once, about a year previously.
It was unpleasant because she said he had confessed to her about having met me, the physical description he gave her was accurate but cruel and he also took her to my house and showed her where I live - she was able to describe my house. |
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Could be his wife maybe ?
If you didn't know he was attached & you don't want to get involved then just block them .How have they found you ,did you leave him a verie?
I'd be a bit wary of it tbh op
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Definitely block and stay well away from him as you don't know what shit you'd be getting yourself into
But I do wonder how he found his dad on a site? If it was by accident then imagine the shock he would have had, not only to find him on whatever site it was but to also find out his dad was bi  |
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"Thanks for an your advice. The person must have looked at his dad's phone and seen messages between us.
I've deleted and blocked. I don't want to get involved. "
Best way forward in my opinion.
Not a meet. But someone I dated years ago told me he was seperated when he wasn't.
His wife found and contacted me on FB many months later so he must have told her something and she sent me abusive messages and I just refused to converse. It was obvious he has lied and played down what had gone on between us. But. None of my business. |
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A few years ago I met a guy on another site who told me he had been separated from his wife for over a year and that she lived in Ireland with their kids. I had fun but didn't want to see him again.
A few days later a woman called me and told me she was his wife, had found my number on his phone and that he was a serial shagger and I should be ashamed of myself. I didn't get into a discussion with her, just told her that he said he was single so I didn't feel I had anything to apologise for. I don't know the truth about their relationship, just blocked his number and stayed the hell out of it. |
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A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together
She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin |
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"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together
She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin "
I don't know if I'm alone in this opinion, but for a parent to want to piggyback their child's meet/bf/gf etc, that's pretty fucked up!  |
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"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together
She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin
I don't know if I'm alone in this opinion, but for a parent to want to piggyback their child's meet/bf/gf etc, that's pretty fucked up! "
Call me biased, I’m not one to judge
I actually thought it was very sexy
Until she went weird |
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"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together
She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin "
I'm not really surprised. Going back through the process required to get your contact details this had 'massive weirdo' written all over it. |
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"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together
She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin
I'm not really surprised. Going back through the process required to get your contact details this had 'massive weirdo' written all over it. "
That’s why I tell guys to think with the big brain first. The little brain makes bad choices  |
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"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together
She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin
I'm not really surprised. Going back through the process required to get your contact details this had 'massive weirdo' written all over it.
That’s why I tell guys to think with the big brain first. The little brain makes bad choices "
 very true |
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