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I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Because some people like it, and others don't?
I wasn't meaning any badness by it. I was genuinely asking. Don't ask you don't know "
I wasn't thinking there was.
That's just all I have in answer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell you what my lovely, let’s balance it up a bit to play fair on behalf of mankind.
I’m prepared to give some vulvas a good licking (I’m a solid 5.5 to 6 out of 10 on my oral skills, even if I say so myself) and nobody needs to give me a BJ back.
Can’t say fairer than that!
Deal, ladies? DM’s open   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard to comprehend why someone refuses to go down on women as I enjoy it and, for me, it adds to the enjoyment of the whole experience.
However, I understand it is a personal matter and the person has the right to choose. After all if we were all the same we would be sheep. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"The only men in this earth that don’t eat box is Jamaican men. I don’t make the rules"
There’s lots of cultures where men rarely give any foreplay to women in my experience. There’s obviously some exceptions but they are rare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t say I understand why men wouldn’t, but if it were me who didn’t want to give, I would ask to receive. As long as a guy isn’t fundamentally inconsiderate and selfish I suppose it needn’t be a big deal |
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If my partner suddenly decided she didn't want to give me Bj's I'd talk to her ask her why etc but reluctantly except her decision but if she said she didn't want me giving her oral anymore we would have to have a very serious conversation about our future, Giving oral is my favourite part when having sex, I love watching her orgasm at least once with my tongue/fingers before penetration and I'd struggle to have sex without doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only men in this earth that don’t eat box is Jamaican men. I don’t make the rules
There’s lots of cultures where men rarely give any foreplay to women in my experience. There’s obviously some exceptions but they are rare. "
I remember getting teased when I told my friends I went down on someone. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell you what my lovely, let’s balance it up a bit to play fair on behalf of mankind.
I’m prepared to give some vulvas a good licking (I’m a solid 5.5 to 6 out of 10 on my oral skills, even if I say so myself) and nobody needs to give me a BJ back.
Can’t say fairer than that!
Deal, ladies? DM’s open "
You're such a gent, Dan |
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Personal preference is allowed, obviously, and I’d never try to force anyone (I wouldn’t enjoy it if I thought they weren’t enjoying it) but it is a deal breaker for me. It’s how I cum, so if he won’t give it then I won’t meet him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally love giving oral. I think it’s a honour for a woman to let me get close up to her most sensitive spot. I also love to receive it too of course. But I think it’s a sign a woman trusts you down there and I love it. |
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"The only men in this earth that don’t eat box is Jamaican men. I don’t make the rules
There’s lots of cultures where men rarely give any foreplay to women in my experience. There’s obviously some exceptions but they are rare.
I remember getting teased when I told my friends I went down on someone.
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"Errr, you gave her an orgasm!?"
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I don't know why, I'm just glad there are men out there that don't like it, as I hate receiving oral, so we would be a good fit |
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"The only men in this earth that don’t eat box is Jamaican men. I don’t make the rules
There’s lots of cultures where men rarely give any foreplay to women in my experience. There’s obviously some exceptions but they are rare. "
Germans? Heir Flick? Hello hello... Before our time obviously!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only men in this earth that don’t eat box is Jamaican men. I don’t make the rules
There’s lots of cultures where men rarely give any foreplay to women in my experience. There’s obviously some exceptions but they are rare.
I remember getting teased when I told my friends I went down on someone.
"Errr, you gave her an orgasm!?"
LvM"
More like ‘ewww you bowcat’ |
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Generally I love to go down but, lately my wife asks to avoid if they are not tested.
it could lead to oral STD, I test myself as frequently I can.
If the person I need prefer I use a condom for oral I m happy to wear it |
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"Pending on any men admitting they won't give oral...just like every other thread like this! "
I was thinking same,many maybe won't like to admit it.
It'll be all men saying they love it etc .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pending on any men admitting they won't give oral...just like every other thread like this!
I was thinking same,many maybe won't like to admit it.
It'll be all men saying they love it etc .
Miss"
In my experience they all say they do and mostly don't deliver! So I'm dubious about all the ear breather claims. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I love eating out shall we say xx
Can do it for hours or until my tongue gets paralysed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I think for some bi curious women they find the wetness a bit much! And sometimes people have had bad experiences with cleanliness / smells in their youth? I personally love giving and receiving! |
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Quite happy to go down on a woman and all i ask in return is a smile and a thankyou… some jewellery, a cooked breakfast and morning blowjob…. A bit of lunch and an afternoon handjob while im watching the moto gp bike racing - a light tea and some cheeky anal And a lift home… too much to ask for??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell you what my lovely, let’s balance it up a bit to play fair on behalf of mankind.
I’m prepared to give some vulvas a good licking (I’m a solid 5.5 to 6 out of 10 on my oral skills, even if I say so myself) and nobody needs to give me a BJ back.
Can’t say fairer than that!
Deal, ladies? DM’s open
You're such a gent, Dan "
I try. And try. No offers in my inbox mind  |
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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago
Tipton |
"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
How strange as maybe I should start a thread / Post on women who don't give Oral
As my 3 X girlfriend's Didnt !!! But I still gave them Oral |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I have no problem applying my tongue to ANY part of the female anatomy - it's one of the best plus most important sexual acts out there. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
As a orally fixated man, I struggle to get my head around this. But I imagine it's a version of not kissing. Even harder for me to understand, a friend of mine from many years ago, proudly told a group of us that she never allows a man to go down on her because it's disgusting (oh and she didn't do blow jobs either). Up until then, I had been harbouring a slight crush on her, but that soon evaporated. |
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I an not sure why thus happens but I love going down on a woman, I have a fantasy about being squirted on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell you what my lovely, let’s balance it up a bit to play fair on behalf of mankind.
I’m prepared to give some vulvas a good licking (I’m a solid 5.5 to 6 out of 10 on my oral skills, even if I say so myself) and nobody needs to give me a BJ back.
Can’t say fairer than that!
Deal, ladies? DM’s open
You're such a gent, Dan
I try. And try. No offers in my inbox mind "
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I haven’t experienced any men or women who don’t want to but I would imagine those who don’t want to don’t like it  |
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I guess it's personal preference for the guys who won't go down on a woman, but I love them for it, because it's even more a satisfying experience to bring a woman off on your tongue, then have her tell you how long it's been since it happened, as other guys won't/never do 
I never expect a woman to suck my cock btw, and can honestly say; it was 2017 the last time I received a bj to completion.
The bi women question? Some ladies are just 'pillow princesses' that's all. If you like the taste of pussy, just get your fill |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
St Peter Port |
"I find it hard to comprehend why someone refuses to go down on women as I enjoy it and, for me, it adds to the enjoyment of the whole experience.
However, I understand it is a personal matter and the person has the right to choose. After all if we were all the same we would be sheep."
That's a very sheepist point of view! |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
Works both ways. How many women's profiles do you see saying thy want oral but won't give it?
Probably more than men. |
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Women aren't my preference so I'm not an expert but there seems to be cultural differences around this.
I remember there was an episode of The Sopranos when it was on air where Uncle Junior's mistress takes a beating off him because she tells the other women he likes to go down on her and he ends up embarrassed and humiliated by it. The women all seem shocked that he likes to do it and it becomes a bit of a joke. Maybe the Catholics don't do it. Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t fathom men not wanting to do it. The only reason I wouldn’t do it is if your pussy is grim. Nothing I enjoy more than losing myself in someone’s pussy and just sucking on the clit and fingering them and what not. Making a woman cum with your tongue is Top Tier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious
Works both ways. How many women's profiles do you see saying thy want oral but won't give it?
Probably more than men."
I don't know, how many? I don't think it's possible to calibrate how many people don't reciprocate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people don't like the feel or taste of doing it, that goes both ways for giving and receiving oral on either m or f. I know some mates that aren't fussed on receiving blowjobs. All down to preference.
I love giving oral but I get why others don't. |
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WHEN I was married……….My wife liked me doing it to her; judging by the amount of orgasms she would have, anyway. Didn’t want to do it , but if she asked me, like a dutiful husband, I forced mysely to do it.
FORCED myself, yeah right….. Loved it. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
Could be the smell or taste puts them off, such a variation in both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think oral is so sensual and helps build the whole sexual tension between the two(or more lol).
I personally adore to lick pussy and ass and it gives me great feeling seeing woman cums as i eat both pussy and ass.
Ofcourse i love also receiving oral..feels great , but sometimes had women that either didnt like receiving or also didnt like giving, it s ok but i would love if we do all |
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There are simply some that are nicer than others. Some can be cute and tasty, and some... just aren't... If it's the right one you have to pry me off like a limpet. I've met a couple of women who definitely weren't fans of it though, and some who weren't fans of giving head themselves. You have to roll with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate it. I want to like it because I love giving pleasure, but I can't.
Bad experiences I guess. Usually when I try it makes me retch and it's so embarrassing for us both I don't try any more.  "
Good for you being honest about it. I grow a little tired of the "I could go down on you for hours" brigade |
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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
I like to give a lady oral pleasure, but a bad hygiene would put me off |
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I love going down on a woman, being brutally honest i reckon my sex game is a bit lacking so i tend to try and make up for it by making sure a sweaty, moaning mess occurs before sex is even considered...plus a turned on lady is hot! |
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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago
Alcester |
I'd love to go down over a woman, have only tasted a few times as most girls I met weren't into receiving. That's one reason I probably have a huge worn knicker / tights fetish, crave the scent, but not many females get that either and are impossible to get genuine ones.
On the other side of the fence though, I don't want to receive oral, or have penetrative sex. I love getting turned on, I do masturbate very easily. I have my fetishes, kinky desires and wishes. However the 'having sex' and recieving oral, turns me off in seconds, and no one likes a cold wet slug, with a runny none |
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"I hate it. I want to like it because I love giving pleasure, but I can't.
Bad experiences I guess. Usually when I try it makes me retch and it's so embarrassing for us both I don't try any more.
Good for you being honest about it. I grow a little tired of the "I could go down on you for hours" brigade "
Yes, I think a few people are being dishonest on here!
It's a major sticking point in my sex life because a lot of women love it and expect it and I want to do it for them. I really do. Meets I like have left because of it. |
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"I'm just curious.. why do some men not like giving oral to a woman. But some expect the woman to give then oral. And why some bi woman won't go go down on a woman but expect the other woman to go down on them?. Just curious "
It happens the other way around as well |
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LvM
but they has to be good with with fingers though. 