Was wanting to try anal with my new partner but after her previously promising when it came down to it she point blank refuses. Are there any ladies on here like that?
Are you a lady that likes it or not interested in trying it?
Am I going wrong somewhere?
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"Was wanting to try anal with my new partner but after her previously promising when it came down to it she point blank refuses. Are there any ladies on here like that?
Are you a lady that likes it or not interested in trying it?
Am I going wrong somewhere?
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Making it into something important is only likely to make her feel pressured. Maybe you should start her anal adventures by getting her a strapon and letting her see how much pleasure you get from it?
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My ex nagged for anal so much that it became a turn off from him completely, he knew I didn't like it, he tried multiple times to go in dry, he knew it hurt yet he was relentless in his nagging - now how could he enjoy something he was doing to me that he knew I wasn't enjoying or feeling confident with that is what put me off the most.
It was selfish and relentless I stopped having sex totally because of the whole trying to push me into it literally trying to force his cock I'm my arse at any given opportunity.
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We say, never expect the woman do have something done to her that your not prepared to have done to yourself.
And before the dark age straight guys jump in.... it doesn't make you gay for a woman to do that to you lol.
But anal is not for everyone and takes alot of working up especially if never done before.
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I have introduced several ladies to anal including some who have refused previous partners. They all went on to enjoy it as part of their sex play. It is not acheived by trying to ram a dry cock into a full rectum on the grounds that "You will enjoy it when the pain subsides"  |
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"Was wanting to try anal with my new partner but after her previously promising when it came down to it she point blank refuses. Are there any ladies on here like that?
Are you a lady that likes it or not interested in trying it?
Am I going wrong somewhere?
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What size cock do you want her to use on you? Perhaps let her pick her own choice.  |
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"Was wanting to try anal with my new partner but after her previously promising when it came down to it she point blank refuses. Are there any ladies on here like that?
Are you a lady that likes it or not interested in trying it?
Love a bit of sarcasm
Am I going wrong somewhere?
Making it into something important is only likely to make her feel pressured. Maybe you should start her anal adventures by getting her a strapon and letting her see how much pleasure you get from it?
Cal"
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"My ex nagged for anal so much that it became a turn off from him completely, he knew I didn't like it, he tried multiple times to go in dry, he knew it hurt yet he was relentless in his nagging - now how could he enjoy something he was doing to me that he knew I wasn't enjoying or feeling confident with that is what put me off the most.
It was selfish and relentless I stopped having sex totally because of the whole trying to push me into it literally trying to force his cock I'm my arse at any given opportunity.
Mrs
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that's made me think. Thank you |
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Regardless of plans and promises, if it came to the moment and they weren't genuinely into it, I'd rather do something we were both into at that moment.
If it was me that wasn't into it and the person I was with tried to pressure me into it because I'd promised or indicated I'd be into it some other time, I wouldn't want to ever see them again  |
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N really enjoys it when moment takes her. I also love anal play. She is 'training' me to eventually peg me. Perhaps then use a double ended dildo together. It takes time though.
My friends have always said I'm a right arse!  |
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"N really enjoys it when moment takes her. I also love anal play. She is 'training' me to eventually peg me. Perhaps then use a double ended dildo together. It takes time though.
My friends have always said I'm a right arse! "
Freudian slip...tight arse |
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"My ex nagged for anal so much that it became a turn off from him completely, he knew I didn't like it, he tried multiple times to go in dry, he knew it hurt yet he was relentless in his nagging - now how could he enjoy something he was doing to me that he knew I wasn't enjoying or feeling confident with that is what put me off the most.
It was selfish and relentless I stopped having sex totally because of the whole trying to push me into it literally trying to force his cock I'm my arse at any given opportunity.
Mrs
that's made me think. Thank you "
Good because being repeatedly asked for something you don't want to do sexually is a huge turn off and kinda coercive.
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"Was wanting to try anal with my new partner but after her previously promising when it came down to it she point blank refuses. Are there any ladies on here like that?
Are you a lady that likes it or not interested in trying it?
Am I going wrong somewhere?
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Making it into something important is only likely to make her feel pressured. Maybe you should start her anal adventures by getting her a strapon and letting her see how much pleasure you get from it?
Cal
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Love a bit of sarcasm
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what makes you think that I was being sarcastic?... because I wasn't
Cal
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"Was wanting to try anal with my new partner but after her previously promising when it came down to it she point blank refuses.
Am I going wrong somewhere?
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I think you are going wrong by keeping nagging her. Maybe take no for an answer ? |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"My ex nagged for anal so much that it became a turn off from him completely, he knew I didn't like it, he tried multiple times to go in dry, he knew it hurt yet he was relentless in his nagging - now how could he enjoy something he was doing to me that he knew I wasn't enjoying or feeling confident with that is what put me off the most.
It was selfish and relentless I stopped having sex totally because of the whole trying to push me into it literally trying to force his cock I'm my arse at any given opportunity.
Mrs
that's made me think. Thank you
Good because being repeatedly asked for something you don't want to do sexually is a huge turn off and kinda coercive.
Mrs "
That! Y doesn't swallow, often, as an ex persistently made it a big deal.. We both get off on the pleasure we give far more than receive! Why very little is 'off the table' as we both know the moment we don't enjoy something it stops.. Even if we previously wanted it..
Communication, boundaries and respect, with each other and any we play with! |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Nobody should be held to a "promise" when it comes to sex. Take a hint "
This...
And and as a partner, you shouldn't *want* anything other than ongoing, enthusiastic consent...
Ask yourself this... Why is your desire to fuck an ass more important than your partners happiness, and consent or comfortableness?
And then I check your profile... Should have done that first. It's always the married ones.. |
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