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Shoud be a dic pic in public photos or not?
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
Very mixed signals from women. I get more attention, if I do have a dic pic. Some women say it should be private. Never sent any in messages, unless they asked for it. I'm not hung, but I'm not ashamed either. It is what it is. So there should be a public dick pic or not? |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"If you want one on public, put it on public. Those who agree will like it, those who don't won't, and you'll know better who's more on your wavelength."
I want to adjust to some norms, but not all. |
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"Very mixed signals from women. I get more attention, if I do have a dic pic. Some women say it should be private. Never sent any in messages, unless they asked for it. I'm not hung, but I'm not ashamed either. It is what it is. So there should be a public dick pic or not? "
Do what suits you OP. Personally I think one is enough though. |
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"If you want one on public, put it on public. Those who agree will like it, those who don't won't, and you'll know better who's more on your wavelength.
I want to adjust to some norms, but not all."
Tailoring your approach to be as meek and inoffensive to as many people as possible is unlikely to yield positive results.
Be you. The people that want who you are are better to connect with than the people who want who you pretend to be. |
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It’s your profile - you choose  Personally, I don’t mind if there’s one dick pic mixed in with other public pics, as long as it’s not too close up or is the only pic available. I don’t like dick pics as profile pics, receiving them in my inbox or if there’s loads of pictures of them and not much else. The worst is when there’s a gallery of dick pics, from every different angle imaginable. |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"It’s your profile - you choose Personally, I don’t mind if there’s one dick pic mixed in with other public pics, as long as it’s not too close up or is the only pic available. I don’t like dick pics as profile pics, receiving them in my inbox or if there’s loads of pictures of them and not much else. The worst is when there’s a gallery of dick pics, from every different angle imaginable."
Believe it or not. It is really helpful actually. |
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"Very mixed signals from women. I get more attention, if I do have a dic pic. Some women say it should be private. Never sent any in messages, unless they asked for it. I'm not hung, but I'm not ashamed either. It is what it is. So there should be a public dick pic or not? "
It's your dick n your profile you rock it however you see fit |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"Tailoring your approach to be as meek and inoffensive to as many people as possible is unlikely to yield positive results.
Be you. The people that want who you are are better to connect with than the people who want who you pretend to be."
I am being me. Just don't want to ruin/miss my chances based on show it or not. |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"OP, you do you. The point is to attract the people you'll get on with, so go for it if that's what you want and leave it if not."
If it would be huge I'd put it out. It's average, so I'm not sure it helps or actually ruining my chances. I'm not crying about my size or feeling totally insecure. |
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"OP, you do you. The point is to attract the people you'll get on with, so go for it if that's what you want and leave it if not.
If it would be huge I'd put it out. It's average, so I'm not sure it helps or actually ruining my chances. I'm not crying about my size or feeling totally insecure. "
Well if they meet you, they're kind of going to find out are they not, no? Not everyone is after something you could hire out for banana boat rides in Benidorm. |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
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Well if they meet you, they're kind of going to find out are they not, no? Not everyone is after something you could hire out for banana boat rides in Benidorm. "
Everybody has something they want to see before message/meet. For me it's bum/legs from some angle with or without clothes. |
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"Very mixed signals from women. I get more attention, if I do have a dic pic. Some women say it should be private. Never sent any in messages, unless they asked for it. I'm not hung, but I'm not ashamed either. It is what it is. So there should be a public dick pic or not? "
i think it depends on what you're looking for. If you're just looking for sex then by all means show it but if you're looking for more of a connection then dont because the women looking for a connection tend to go beyond just a dick and find it vulgar lol
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
" i think it depends on what you're looking for. If you're just looking for sex then by all means show it but if you're looking for more of a connection then dont because the women looking for a connection tend to go beyond just a dick and find it vulgar lol "
Any/Vanilla/dirty/kinky sex, but for a connection that woman needs to be really need to have an dirty open mind. |
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When I have one in my profile pics, I definitely get more attention... from guys. It's rare that women ask to see it until long into chatting (or they just don't at all), so I personally think it puts off more women than it attracts when you've got it out on the profile |
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There should be an unwritten rule not to set a dick pic as ones profile avatar if one is going to post on the forum other than in 'Swingers Chat'. It is downright crass and impolite.
Failing the obvious lack of self discipline, it might be better for the site to do this automatically or never allow dick profile pics. |
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"There should be an unwritten rule not to set a dick pic as ones profile avatar if one is going to post on the forum other than in 'Swingers Chat'. It is downright crass and impolite.
Failing the obvious lack of self discipline, it might be better for the site to do this automatically or never allow dick profile pics."
Dick pic avatars look particularly ridiculous when replying to forum threads on a non sexual topic. |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"When I have one in my profile pics, I definitely get more attention... from guys. It's rare that women ask to see it until long into chatting (or they just don't at all), so I personally think it puts off more women than it attracts when you've got it out on the profile"
You will get male attention if you look masculine with or without dick pic. Funnily more feminine look attracting more female attention. All the 5 woman/couple who messaged me all wanted face or dic pic. They either disappeared when they seen my face, or when I said I'm just 6 inch. I have a quiet few male stalkers though. They all want what I don't want. My success story on Fab. |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"I'd say 1 or 2 would be fine as long as its tasteful and not a cock next to a deodorant can or sky remote "
I have one with deodorant can.
Just to demonstrate I have girth at least. It's private now. |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"It’s your profile OP. Have it however you want it. One thing for sure you’ll not please all the people all of the time. Or some of them. Or maybe none….
But it will it be all yours  "
I want to please the one or some who's willing to meet. If none then carry on with the torn muscle in my left shoulder and pain in the ball. |
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By *unxican OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
"It’s personal preference. Some like a dick pic, some don’t. Too big can put people off.
It’s a risk you take when posting the pic. "
Too big dick? I've checked out 3000 profiles. Lower limit was 7-8 inch mostly, but never seen upper limit. |
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"Very mixed signals from women. I get more attention, if I do have a dic pic. Some women say it should be private. Never sent any in messages, unless they asked for it. I'm not hung, but I'm not ashamed either. It is what it is. So there should be a public dick pic or not? "
Like others have said, it’s your profile, I think a mixture is good, be imaginative and spark a little eroticism, just be genuine |
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