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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?"
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not? |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not? "
Nope. I just don't give people information. So any rumours are just that  |
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"This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate"
Are you going for the clique grenade now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate
Are you going for the clique grenade now "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not?
Nope. I just don't give people information. So any rumours are just that "
Maybe I should stop telling people about me. Who knows what people on here actually know about me |
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?"
I know it's frustrating when people tell others how amazing I am and they just believe them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who’s zooming who
Zoom as in zoom calls ?
Hahaha. Either you’re messing or you’re doing your yeah Nora’s old thing
Lol what is zooming 
Take another look and tell me baby"
It’s not to do with sex right? Urban dictionary isn’t helping me at all rn
Is this how I make people feel? |
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"Who’s zooming who
Zoom as in zoom calls ?
Hahaha. Either you’re messing or you’re doing your yeah Nora’s old thing
Lol what is zooming "
Now might be a good time to have a look through the Aretha Franklin singles  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
I know it's frustrating when people tell others how amazing I am and they just believe them "
PD is amazing, everyone. Believe me |
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not? "
Hey, it's Wagatha Christie!
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"Who’s zooming who
Zoom as in zoom calls ?
Hahaha. Either you’re messing or you’re doing your yeah Nora’s old thing
Lol what is zooming
Take another look and tell me baby
It’s not to do with sex right? Urban dictionary isn’t helping me at all rn
Is this how I make people feel?"
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not?
Hey, it's Wagatha Christie!
J"
It’s… Rebecca Vardy’s account! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who’s zooming who
Zoom as in zoom calls ?
Hahaha. Either you’re messing or you’re doing your yeah Nora’s old thing
Lol what is zooming
Take another look and tell me baby
It’s not to do with sex right? Urban dictionary isn’t helping me at all rn
Is this how I make people feel?
Yes "
Oh well sucks to be you guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?"
Not a fan of this either |
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
I know it's frustrating when people tell others how amazing I am and they just believe them
PD is amazing, everyone. Believe me "
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
I know it's frustrating when people tell others how amazing I am and they just believe them
PD is amazing, everyone. Believe me
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Posh also says she is an Angel, not exactly a trustworthy source! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
I know it's frustrating when people tell others how amazing I am and they just believe them
PD is amazing, everyone. Believe me
Posh also says she is an Angel, not exactly a trustworthy source! "
I am. And sweet n innocent. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
I know it's frustrating when people tell others how amazing I am and they just believe them
PD is amazing, everyone. Believe me
Posh also says she is an Angel, not exactly a trustworthy source!
I am. And sweet n innocent."
You are not helping your case! |
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"This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate"
It is fascinating Steve, we are all interconnected sexually in some way on the lounge, like a huge spider web, if veris and profiles couldn't be deleted all would become clear, fab itself is a big olde swinging bowl full of car keys after all |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate
It is fascinating Steve, we are all interconnected sexually in some way on the lounge, like a huge spider web, if veris and profiles couldn't be deleted all would become clear, fab itself is a big olde swinging bowl full of car keys after all "
I've met men who don't use the forums who other forum users met too.
I only noticed because I saw the verifications afterwards.
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
I know it's frustrating when people tell others how amazing I am and they just believe them
PD is amazing, everyone. Believe me
Posh also says she is an Angel, not exactly a trustworthy source! "
The part about me is true though, she'd only tell fibs about herself I reckon |
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"This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate
Are you going for the clique grenade now
I jus-"
See now you have the Sauron observor thing going on. Fine line between observor and participant. Oh wow isn't that interesting I must look closer. All of sudden you are in the middle of the battlefield and you lose your ring.
I don't do friendship goups. Not for a long time. Unless you count teabagging Russian Rust players with a bunch of Americans and scrawling Suka Blyat on the side of their bases. Whilst abusing each other in between. 'Oh I'm sorry I forgot you just kill each other with knives and pointy sticks, not guns - you bunch of medieval fucks. You know high-brow stuff.
I have friends, individual friends. There's some cool people on this forum, I really admire. I'm not going to fuck any of them though... see if you can catch me out sneaking the ring into Mt. Doom. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate
It is fascinating Steve, we are all interconnected sexually in some way on the lounge, like a huge spider web, if veris and profiles couldn't be deleted all would become clear, fab itself is a big olde swinging bowl full of car keys after all "
Six degrees of separation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are the main cliques, d’ya mean?
Pah. It’s a fuck site.
It’s crazy that so much dramarama exists around it though.
Most people just use the site to meet potential fuck partners and steer clear of all the internal drama, but assuming things are as they always have been then there is a lot of village gossip that goes on around some small sub-groups.
I’m really detached these days so know (and want to know) nothing about all the “communities” and their dramas, but I do recall back in the day there were all sorts of off-site chat groups bickering behind the scenes (I saw some interesting screen shots) and even the big lounge socials were like a soap opera (apparently) with lots of lamppost pissing and confrontation based on who snogged or fancied who etc!
I’m glad that these days I’m party to absolutely none of it so have no idea who’s shagging who or who said what about whom..
It is (and always has been interesting) to watch the dynamics of the forums though, the games people play, who can say or do whatever they want and seem to get a “free pass” and who, well, can’t … but it’s always been like that and I guess mirrors “real life” in that respect!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?"
Gossipers |
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not? "
I have on the back of forum threads that had nothing to do with me and I hadn't contributed to.
Someone put 2 and 2 together and got 7 and started a rumour which in turn had people asking me if it was true.
I deliberately fed particular people misinformation which was returned to me in a roundabout way so that said it all.
On another occasion a fab friend told me how she despised a certain forum poster and how he gave her the creeps.
Within an hour of my response the target of her ire repeated my answer word for word in a forum thread which told me he really was a dick and she was a fake friend. |
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"What are the main cliques, d’ya mean?
Pah. It’s a fuck site.
It’s crazy that so much dramarama exists around it though.
Most people just use the site to meet potential fuck partners and steer clear of all the internal drama, but assuming things are as they always have been then there is a lot of village gossip that goes on around some small sub-groups.
I’m really detached these days so know (and want to know) nothing about all the “communities” and their dramas, but I do recall back in the day there were all sorts of off-site chat groups bickering behind the scenes (I saw some interesting screen shots) and even the big lounge socials were like a soap opera (apparently) with lots of lamppost pissing and confrontation based on who snogged or fancied who etc!
I’m glad that these days I’m party to absolutely none of it so have no idea who’s shagging who or who said what about whom..
It is (and always has been interesting) to watch the dynamics of the forums though, the games people play, who can say or do whatever they want and seem to get a “free pass” and who, well, can’t … but it’s always been like that and I guess mirrors “real life” in that respect! "
I came back and blocked a select few....my business is my own....
But seeing as you MrPickle, I'll chat to you |
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not?
Hey, it's Wagatha Christie!
J
It’s… Rebecca Vardy’s account!"
What are you saying like?
J |
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"This place is super interesting sometimes. Seeing what friendship groups exist. Seeing who is shagging who. How it all impacts interactions. It’s fascinating in a cool way not in a I hate it here way. The more you know the easier this place must become to navigate"
I guess what’s fascinating to some is chip paper to others OP.
It neither interests me nor do I want to know about it.
I also couldn’t give a monkeys what’s said about me. Because if it was important it would be said to my face.
Life is like that sometimes…
Not my life though. By choice  |
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I usually laugh when I get a message or approached at a social by someone with the opening line "I know you don't do gossip but you have to hear this"
They go on to tell me about fabbers I've never heard of and haven't a clue where they're from or who they're doing.
I avoid drama as much as possible but it's currency for some and I've been dragged into other peoples drama simply by talking to the wrong person or in a couple of cases refusing to talk to the right person.
I've come to the conclusion that saying no to some people is a trigger for all sorts of background shenanigans. |
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not?
Nope. I just don't give people information. So any rumours are just that "
I heard a rumour that you have giant boobies and like to get them out. No idea where we heard it  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not?
Nope. I just don't give people information. So any rumours are just that
I heard a rumour that you have giant boobies and like to get them out. No idea where we heard it "
That's so not true.
Maybe.
Possibly. |
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Sometimes it can be nice to see people flirting, especially if they think they're being subtle about it.
Mostly though, jealousy, bitching, backstabbing and lamppost pissing are involved (or at least it used to be like that, I'm not around much to notice any more). That's not nice  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's unusual to chat about others when chatting with a friend
I do it all the time.
It's either that or what my dogs have been up to.
Why what have they been up to? "
Oh my word, where shall I start?
Firstly, one puked up a huge pile of God knows what on my living room floor last night.
I got up this morning and found it. I was relieved it wasn't dark orange poo, to be honest. |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's unusual to chat about others when chatting with a friend
I do it all the time.
It's either that or what my dogs have been up to.
Why what have they been up to?
Oh my word, where shall I start?
Firstly, one puked up a huge pile of God knows what on my living room floor last night.
I got up this morning and found it. I was relieved it wasn't dark orange poo, to be honest. "
your friends or your dogs  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I don't think it's unusual to chat about others when chatting with a friend
I do it all the time.
It's either that or what my dogs have been up to.
Why what have they been up to?
Oh my word, where shall I start?
Firstly, one puked up a huge pile of God knows what on my living room floor last night.
I got up this morning and found it. I was relieved it wasn't dark orange poo, to be honest.
your friends or your dogs "
Dogs. Fortunately, my friends are house-trained. |
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Doesn't fascinate me at all, I don't really care who's fucking who.
There is a lot of game playing which I don't have time for, I mean if your deliberately feeding people information to see if it gets back that's just effort and some school ground tactics.
I've stopped joining in certain forum posts because I don't want my privacy/pics discussed in stupid group chats and I'm very aware that happens it's petty and childish but least someone is getting some entertainment right at the expense of others.
People meet, people make friendships, people fuck that's the nature of the site, at the most part the site promotes anonymity however there's a few forumites that ignore this which totally spoils it and for what a bit of gossip.
So no it doesn't fascinate me.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Doesn't fascinate me at all, I don't really care who's fucking who.
There is a lot of game playing which I don't have time for, I mean if your deliberately feeding people information to see if it gets back that's just effort and some school ground tactics.
I've stopped joining in certain forum posts because I don't want my privacy/pics discussed in stupid group chats and I'm very aware that happens it's petty and childish but least someone is getting some entertainment right at the expense of others.
People meet, people make friendships, people fuck that's the nature of the site, at the most part the site promotes anonymity however there's a few forumites that ignore this which totally spoils it and for what a bit of gossip.
So no it doesn't fascinate me.
Mrs "
It’s a tiny, tiny , tiny minority of people who need to know everything about everyone. It’s really not representative of FAB or the forum but like tiny little bit of toxic poison that spreads everywhere |
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"Doesn't fascinate me at all, I don't really care who's fucking who.
There is a lot of game playing which I don't have time for, I mean if your deliberately feeding people information to see if it gets back that's just effort and some school ground tactics.
I've stopped joining in certain forum posts because I don't want my privacy/pics discussed in stupid group chats and I'm very aware that happens it's petty and childish but least someone is getting some entertainment right at the expense of others.
People meet, people make friendships, people fuck that's the nature of the site, at the most part the site promotes anonymity however there's a few forumites that ignore this which totally spoils it and for what a bit of gossip.
So no it doesn't fascinate me.
Mrs
It’s a tiny, tiny , tiny minority of people who need to know everything about everyone. It’s really not representative of FAB or the forum but like tiny little bit of toxic poison that spreads everywhere "
Yeah it maybe the minority but I stay clear of toxic, this is a bit of fun for us, nothing more nothing less, I won't be dragged into people's dramas or petty games, that's when the fun stops.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Doesn't fascinate me at all, I don't really care who's fucking who.
There is a lot of game playing which I don't have time for, I mean if your deliberately feeding people information to see if it gets back that's just effort and some school ground tactics.
I've stopped joining in certain forum posts because I don't want my privacy/pics discussed in stupid group chats and I'm very aware that happens it's petty and childish but least someone is getting some entertainment right at the expense of others.
People meet, people make friendships, people fuck that's the nature of the site, at the most part the site promotes anonymity however there's a few forumites that ignore this which totally spoils it and for what a bit of gossip.
So no it doesn't fascinate me.
Mrs "
I know for a fact in the past there have been kik / telegram groups of forumites where gossip, personal information and pictures of others not belonging to said group was shared.
It made me far more wary and cautious regarding who I would talk to and how much I'd be willing to share. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it fascinating how people assume they know things about others and decide to share the information about... without finding out if it is true or not. Does that count?
Yep. Have you tried deliberately feeding people misinformation to see if they’re chatty patties or not?
Hey, it's Wagatha Christie!
J
It’s… Rebecca Vardy’s account!
What are you saying like?
J"
It was my favourite celeb drama |
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"Doesn't fascinate me at all, I don't really care who's fucking who.
There is a lot of game playing which I don't have time for, I mean if your deliberately feeding people information to see if it gets back that's just effort and some school ground tactics.
I've stopped joining in certain forum posts because I don't want my privacy/pics discussed in stupid group chats and I'm very aware that happens it's petty and childish but least someone is getting some entertainment right at the expense of others.
People meet, people make friendships, people fuck that's the nature of the site, at the most part the site promotes anonymity however there's a few forumites that ignore this which totally spoils it and for what a bit of gossip.
So no it doesn't fascinate me.
Mrs
I know for a fact in the past there have been kik / telegram groups of forumites where gossip, personal information and pictures of others not belonging to said group was shared.
It made me far more wary and cautious regarding who I would talk to and how much I'd be willing to share. "
This is exactly why I won't join certain posts now & I'm very wary, we had multiple warning messages about the chats and pics & private messages being shared.
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