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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This may be a bit wordy so you can skip it if you want... It's just something that's been bothering me over the last couple of weeks so I had to express it.
What makes a female strong, reliable respected and someone to follow and admire?
I don’t know why I wrote this but after watching the Internet YouTube various broadcasting corporation’s social media etc blah blah blah. It’s made me think about what a real woman is and what is desirable I’m a gay man so I don’t find women attractive sexually but I definitely like women as friends and somebody who I can talk to without being discriminated against or put down because (yes) I have emotions. “We all have emotions male and female”.
Women today are labelled as vicious narcissistic disrespectful and the videos media have read show this but I know not every woman is like that they are just being put on the back shelf where the rest of the nasties are being publicised and praised. This is wrong. We should be embracing the original female and not the woke generation female.
A strong woman is able to listen without being domineering and disrespectful to the other person, she is able to sympathise and able to see both sides of the story. A true female Should have empathy without being submissive providing a strong mental approach to deal with awkward scenarios. She can comfort and provide stability in a relaxed atmosphere to help the other person. (You could say the motherly type, The mother is strong and protective and she will go out of her way to protect her offspring) Being a motherly type is not putting Females in the lower Position In fact for many people it’s desirable it’s someone to look up to someone to follow knowing that she can protect them or help them in any way she’s able to.
A true woman does not need to have a high-paying job or a huge success in life but the opportunities there if she wishes to achieve this success, she can still be affectionate and approachable even though she has an authoritative position. If I’m wrong which I don’t think I am most people are attracted to this type of person as a friend, lover, potential partner.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Doesn't really matter at the end of the what I say, does it.
Because it will be wrong to somebody. And 9/10 I'll be told because I'm a man I don't have a say in what it is nor what it should be - unless it aligns with what that person thinks. |
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I've seen the words 'real' and 'true' used to describe women a few times lately. In relation to body size, whether they've had children or not and various other arbitrary characteristics.
A 'real and true ' woman is just a woman. |
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I'd suggest -
Don't get your opinions on women from YouTube or social media.
Don't call women "females".
Don't go down the "everything that's wrong with the world is woke!" rabbit hole.
There's no such thing as a "real" woman (or a "real" man); humans cover a huge variety of personalities and trying to put them into boxes is a waste of time. |
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"What doesnt kill them.
That makes them stronger.
Also Kelly Clarkson."
Gah! That's another saying I dislike.
'oh you've been through an absolutely terrible time and you're not dead. You don't need any help because you're obviously stronger. Here take some more shit ' |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"What doesnt kill them.
That makes them stronger.
Also Kelly Clarkson.
Gah! That's another saying I dislike.
'oh you've been through an absolutely terrible time and you're not dead. You don't need any help because you're obviously stronger. Here take some more shit '"
Me too.
Breaking point should be where it stops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This may be a bit wordy so you can skip it if you want... It's just something that's been bothering me over the last couple of weeks so I had to express it.
What makes a female strong, reliable respected and someone to follow and admire?
I don’t know why I wrote this but after watching the Internet YouTube various broadcasting corporation’s social media etc blah blah blah. It’s made me think about what a real woman is and what is desirable I’m a gay man so I don’t find women attractive sexually but I definitely like women as friends and somebody who I can talk to without being discriminated against or put down because (yes) I have emotions. “We all have emotions male and female”.
Women today are labelled as vicious narcissistic disrespectful and the videos media have read show this but I know not every woman is like that they are just being put on the back shelf where the rest of the nasties are being publicised and praised. This is wrong. We should be embracing the original female and not the woke generation female.
A strong woman is able to listen without being domineering and disrespectful to the other person, she is able to sympathise and able to see both sides of the story. A true female Should have empathy without being submissive providing a strong mental approach to deal with awkward scenarios. She can comfort and provide stability in a relaxed atmosphere to help the other person. (You could say the motherly type, The mother is strong and protective and she will go out of her way to protect her offspring) Being a motherly type is not putting Females in the lower Position In fact for many people it’s desirable it’s someone to look up to someone to follow knowing that she can protect them or help them in any way she’s able to.
A true woman does not need to have a high-paying job or a huge success in life but the opportunities there if she wishes to achieve this success, she can still be affectionate and approachable even though she has an authoritative position. If I’m wrong which I don’t think I am most people are attracted to this type of person as a friend, lover, potential partner.
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How many kids does she have?
Does she wear dresses and never ever wears trousers? |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Sure of their own feelings and not going to allow someone else’s feelings to change theirs.
Good set of values.
Firm but not aggressive.
These characteristics define strength of character and it’s not gender specific. |
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