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By *irjames OP Man
over a year ago
Warrington |
So what age cap is acceptable and realistically how young do you feel is too young so 85 y and 55y seems ok to me but 55y 25y my head says no feels wrong. I know it’s not but what opinion does everyone have ? |
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I think the golden rule is half your age plus 7 years.
But - where adults are concerned - physical age isn't always a good indicator of emotional nor mental maturity. At least, not in my personal experiences anyway. |
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over a year ago
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"13.
And hoping a certain someone reads this 
Just to clarify.... this is age DIFFERENCE. To avoid any confusion"
Pahahahaha
So by the powers of deduction, Jennie has her sights set on a certain 67 year old  |
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It’s just sex and if there is a mutual physical attract then crack on I say with any adult age group.
A one off fuck is galaxies away from wanting a meaningful relationship where you would require way more mental Compatibility/ lived experiences. |
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If both are adults then there is no right or wrong....
Society will tut though .. putting all their own fears and prejudices onto a relationship they know nothing about.
And if i'm honest, if one of my daughters at 25 had brought home a 55 year old i'd have looked like this  then this  and this  this  this  and there isn't an emoji for screaming ab dabs and blue murder ..... |
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It seems as you age the Half plus seven isn't viable.....
The difference between me and a man of 40 is far too great...... not in terms of age but in terms of thought and action the gap is too wide at my age..
My current beau is 16 years my junior. He was 36/38 when we met - now a man of that age seems so young to me. |
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Any age gap is fine as long as it’s legal, there is consent and the 2 people involved are happy with each other. There are enough actual constraints around life without introducing unnecessary ones. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
As long as it is legal and fully consented to, any age gap is acceptable. People just can't get their heads around it.
Now for me realistically I have my age ranges, they are not etched in stone and worshipped as law of God, there is wiggle room but generally I don't find myself physically or spiritually attracted to many people outside of those ranges. The further from my own age, and especially beyond my upper and lower limits it's less and less likely that attraction exists. There have been a couple of exceptions but generally it's unlikely. If I were however I would still view it as acceptable - again legal and consenting. |
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"13.
And hoping a certain someone reads this
Just to clarify.... this is age DIFFERENCE. To avoid any confusion
Pahahahaha
So by the powers of deduction, Jennie has her sights set on a certain 67 year old "
Or the other way and some 40 year old is going to get lucky soon. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"So what age cap is acceptable and realistically how young do you feel is too young so 85 y and 55y seems ok to me but 55y 25y my head says no feels wrong. I know it’s not but what opinion does everyone have ? "
Are you talking about sex or life partner stuff? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"13.
And hoping a certain someone reads this
Just to clarify.... this is age DIFFERENCE. To avoid any confusion
Pahahahaha
So by the powers of deduction, Jennie has her sights set on a certain 67 year old
Or the other way and some 40 year old is going to get lucky soon. "
Not me! |
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If it's just sex it doesn't bother me. If it's in the context of a loving relationship it doesn't bother me.
My biggest age gap in a relationship was 11 years younger, we got on famously and we are still good friends. The only time people had something to say about age was when I was 16 and my boyfriend was 24. It didn't go down well at home.
People should do what makes them happy I guess, others will judge those things regardless. |
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"I've head the same, half your age +7.
By this logic I could be meeting someone who is 92. I’m not sure that the local nursing home has an overnight guest policy."
Not that it makes much difference but last time I was at school 52+26+7=85 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 43 so apparently early 70s is ok for older and I'd love to enjoy a mature lady, younger the algorithm says late 20s but I personally would go down to 21 if the right girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13.
And hoping a certain someone reads this
Just to clarify.... this is age DIFFERENCE. To avoid any confusion
Pahahahaha
So by the powers of deduction, Jennie has her sights set on a certain 67 year old
Or the other way and some 40 year old is going to get lucky soon. "
Shit got my maths wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13.
And hoping a certain someone reads this
Just to clarify.... this is age DIFFERENCE. To avoid any confusion
Pahahahaha
So by the powers of deduction, Jennie has her sights set on a certain 67 year old
Or the other way and some 40 year old is going to get lucky soon.
Shit got my maths wrong!"
This is so on brand  |
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora"
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap. "
Which word? Cougar?  |
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap.
Which word? Cougar? "
 . Yup. I’m probably too old to even be one of those now! Is there one up from a cougar? |
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"So what age cap is acceptable and realistically how young do you feel is too young so 85 y and 55y seems ok to me but 55y 25y my head says no feels wrong. I know it’s not but what opinion does everyone have ? "
Acceptable to whom, precisely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap.
Which word? Cougar?
. Yup. I’m probably too old to even be one of those now! Is there one up from a cougar? "
I think cougar is the final level. Sorry |
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap.
Which word? Cougar?
. Yup. I’m probably too old to even be one of those now! Is there one up from a cougar?
I think cougar is the final level. Sorry "
I’m just pleased you didn’t say Hippo or cow! |
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For a quick sex meet off fab or in a club, we've played with guys as young as 18/19, but probably mid 50s would be our upper age limit. So we don't really care about the gap as such.
For a relationship, probably around 5-7 years. My logic is generally if you weren't in school at the same time, you probably won't have much in common life wise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap.
Which word? Cougar?
. Yup. I’m probably too old to even be one of those now! Is there one up from a cougar?
I think cougar is the final level. Sorry
I’m just pleased you didn’t say Hippo or cow! "
I’d never call you that to your face  |
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap.
Which word? Cougar?
. Yup. I’m probably too old to even be one of those now! Is there one up from a cougar?
I think cougar is the final level. Sorry
I’m just pleased you didn’t say Hippo or cow!
I’d never call you that to your face "
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Long as it’s legal who cares what people think.
I was on holiday last year and there was a couple. Man 50’s girl 18 maybe 17. The looks they got and the tutting from people when they came round the pool for an hour a day. But they seemed the happiest couple around the hotel. |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"I think the golden rule is half your age plus 7 years.
But - where adults are concerned - physical age isn't always a good indicator of emotional nor mental maturity. At least, not in my personal experiences anyway."
Totally this. Some people in my age range are immature and some below it are mature.
My time on fab is certainly making me more likely to look at younger and older guys than I did before. |
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By *addyyBoyyCouple (MM)
over a year ago
stoke on trent |
20 year gap between me and my partner, we are a very open gay couple and always hold hands out, we get a lot of looks and can sometimes hear them muttering under their breath but we just don't care. We are happy and proud |
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Max 20 years older in your 20's.
10 dow 20 up in your 30's.
20 down 10 up in your 40's.
10 years older/younger after your 50's.
It's logical for men. Women can do whatever they want without judgment.
Most people can accept 15-20 year age difference. Obviously as long as it's legal and you're not a gold digger.
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I am attracted to much younger men and I am very self conscious about the societal norms around this very subject.
It doesn’t really matter behind closed doors, as long as the attraction is mutual and with full consent but I always pay close attention to how the person I am with is feeling about being seen with me in public. If they appear comfortable and confident, I’m more than happy to take it to the next level, if they are not - for whatever reason - I know we won’t be compatible.
Hope that makes sense. |
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We don't really factor age. We just fancy the people we fancy. However we tend to stay away from people in their early 20s because we have older kids that age range and just feels a bit off. Met plenty of great young adults socially on our travels but it too close to home sexually for us. |
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"For me I’d say 15 years younger. Maybe one or two years older. I don’t tend to go for older.
I didn’t know you were a cougar, Nora
Yuk. Hate that word. In their 40s usually for me but I wouldn’t go younger than 15 years gap.
Which word? Cougar?
. Yup. I’m probably too old to even be one of those now! Is there one up from a cougar? "
I'm sure I've heard the next one up is Jaguar |
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