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This is for lads.
So you put your profile to like women as you do.
Then 4-5 times a day you get guys wanted some discrete bj or fuck and go type deal.
You reply saying you’re straight but then they see that as a challenge and say they like that.
Hunny that defeats the entire reason to put straight on my profile, if I liked dick id put I liked dick…
Anyone else having this issue lol. |
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Happens to us too, we don't meet men yet the majority of messages are from men thinking if they flash their cock I'll magically be interested, they also get a huge message pop up before they message to say this person isn't interested in anyone of your gender.
Then they cry no one replies 
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down "
Some of us speak the truth mate |
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down
Some of us speak the truth mate "
Ah, “the truth” - ok |
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down
Some of us speak the truth mate
Ah, “the truth” - ok "
Yes. Truth is that being a woman on here you often get men trying to change your mind when you’ve said no. That’s the truth. |
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down
Some of us speak the truth mate
Ah, “the truth” - ok
Yes. Truth is that being a woman on here you often get men trying to change your mind when you’ve said no. That’s the truth. "
Ok - great |
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down
Some of us speak the truth mate
Ah, “the truth” - ok
Yes. Truth is that being a woman on here you often get men trying to change your mind when you’ve said no. That’s the truth.
Ok - great "
You get out of bed on the wrong side this morning or something |
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down
Some of us speak the truth mate
Ah, “the truth” - ok
Yes. Truth is that being a woman on here you often get men trying to change your mind when you’ve said no. That’s the truth.
Ok - great
You get out of bed on the wrong side this morning or something "
Eh? My last message said “ok - great”! |
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Ahem.....
I get fucking sick and tired of these binary arguments. There is too much MEN v WOMEN on here and there is scant little evidence that this is what is actually going on.
When someone persists after you've said NO.... It ISN'T automatically a man who believes he must pursue and the woman just needs coaxing.
When a 'man' contacts a straight man for sex he doesn't always want you to say yes and what's more it's not always a man.
There has to be umpteen reasons why PEOPLE rather than genders enjoy doing what they do on their own devices.
Some just seek the thrill of being anonymous, getting off either psychologically or physically.
Some could even be a group of 'friends' or a couple on a wind up -
Women message women pretending to be men.
Men message men pretending to be women.
Curious people message other people to start their journey ....
Some are just lonely and seeking a chat or a 5 min exploration of the site.
Who knows who is messaging you and for why ...
If you don't want the message , delete them and block them.
The power is and always has been in your hands to attract the attention you want. The odd unwanted message might get through but as above .... get active about it.
It's not as simple as 'I don't want dick but I get asked for dick. Oh why oh why do they ask for dick...
Anyone who devotes their life to ranting and thinking about issues that they can handle doesn't have enough to do ... seriously.
Ahem.. Maybe I need to go n mop the floor i'm avoiding. |
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"Ahem.....
I get fucking sick and tired of these binary arguments. There is too much MEN v WOMEN on here and there is scant little evidence that this is what is actually going on.
When someone persists after you've said NO.... It ISN'T automatically a man who believes he must pursue and the woman just needs coaxing.
When a 'man' contacts a straight man for sex he doesn't always want you to say yes and what's more it's not always a man.
There has to be umpteen reasons why PEOPLE rather than genders enjoy doing what they do on their own devices.
Some just seek the thrill of being anonymous, getting off either psychologically or physically.
Some could even be a group of 'friends' or a couple on a wind up -
Women message women pretending to be men.
Men message men pretending to be women.
Curious people message other people to start their journey ....
Some are just lonely and seeking a chat or a 5 min exploration of the site.
Who knows who is messaging you and for why ...
If you don't want the message , delete them and block them.
The power is and always has been in your hands to attract the attention you want. The odd unwanted message might get through but as above .... get active about it.
It's not as simple as 'I don't want dick but I get asked for dick. Oh why oh why do they ask for dick...
Anyone who devotes their life to ranting and thinking about issues that they can handle doesn't have enough to do ... seriously.
Ahem.. Maybe I need to go n mop the floor i'm avoiding."
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If you're getting that many messages about it OP, pop your filters up so they can't message you.
I still think filters should be explained and set up during the sign up process. It would prevent a lot of headache.
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down
Some of us speak the truth mate
Ah, “the truth” - ok
Yes. Truth is that being a woman on here you often get men trying to change your mind when you’ve said no. That’s the truth.
Ok - great
You get out of bed on the wrong side this morning or something
Eh? My last message said “ok - great”! "
Purely based on your attitude seen on today’s threads, and anything else, I’d agree with Fluffy. |
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"Lolololol welcome to being a woman
Bingo! It took longer than I thought for someone to post that but you didn’t let me down
Some of us speak the truth mate
Ah, “the truth” - ok
Yes. Truth is that being a woman on here you often get men trying to change your mind when you’ve said no. That’s the truth.
Ok - great
You get out of bed on the wrong side this morning or something
Eh? My last message said “ok - great”!
Purely based on your attitude seen on today’s threads, and anything else, I’d agree with Fluffy. "
Ok - great |
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Yes, I get this too. I’d prefer not to block all men as sometimes there’s an interesting message off the back of a forum post.
At the moment it’s manageable, but I know I can use the filters if I have to. |
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB. 
If that’s directed at me, thank you. "
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day. |
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB.
If that’s directed at me, thank you.
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day."
A true badge of honour 
Now go mop that floor  |
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB.
If that’s directed at me, thank you.
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day."
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB.
If that’s directed at me, thank you.
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day.
A true badge of honour
Now go mop that floor "
I have to hoover it first and before that I have to get off my backside and that might take some time. I've been at it since half six.... cleaning- not sex. One more coffee I think. |
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB.
If that’s directed at me, thank you.
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day.
Ok - great "
I think it's the hyphenation. I'm not altogether sure but there's something shiny and appealing in it.
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB.
If that’s directed at me, thank you.
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day.
Ok - great
I think it's the hyphenation. I'm not altogether sure but there's something shiny and appealing in it.
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Would you like me to use an ellipsis…instead?
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"This is for lads.
So you put your profile to like women as you do.
Then 4-5 times a day you get guys wanted some discrete bj or fuck and go type deal.
You reply saying you’re straight but then they see that as a challenge and say they like that.
Hunny that defeats the entire reason to put straight on my profile, if I liked dick id put I liked dick…
Anyone else having this issue lol. "
It's the curse I bear having such a great cock. |
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB.
If that’s directed at me, thank you.
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day.
Ok - great
I think it's the hyphenation. I'm not altogether sure but there's something shiny and appealing in it.
Would you like me to use an ellipsis…instead?
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I said I liked the hyphen. There is a place for ellipsis. I wouldn't want you to end up using lazily like some on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, I think your attention to punctuation deserves commendation MB.
If that’s directed at me, thank you.
Is there another MB ? Should I have called you Mr. Games ?
Yes it was directed at you and you can wear the badge for the entire day.
Ok - great
I think it's the hyphenation. I'm not altogether sure but there's something shiny and appealing in it.
Would you like me to use an ellipsis…instead?
I said I liked the hyphen. There is a place for ellipsis. I wouldn't want you to end up using lazily like some on here. "
Forgive me - I let it all go to my head. |
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"Nothing to forgive and everything to thank for. If ever you use two hyphens, make sure to direct me to the post; I haven't had the tremors in some time."
It would be my pleasure - if pleasure is the word - to awake your inner woman. |
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"Nothing to forgive and everything to thank for. If ever you use two hyphens, make sure to direct me to the post; I haven't had the tremors in some time.
It would be my pleasure - if pleasure is the word - to awake your inner woman. "
Good try. They are less hyphen and more the dashes of parenthesis... oops - there I go with ellipsissing all unnecessarily. |
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"Nothing to forgive and everything to thank for. If ever you use two hyphens, make sure to direct me to the post; I haven't had the tremors in some time.
It would be my pleasure - if pleasure is the word - to awake your inner woman.
Good try. They are less hyphen and more the dashes of parenthesis... oops - there I go with ellipsissing all unnecessarily. "
God loves a trier - double dashes can be used a substitute for parentheses… |
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"I'm not sure I have an 'inner' woman. It's generally all on the surface.
Best to return this thread to it's owner and focus on 'unwanted messages'
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Yes indeed - although your messages are always wanted, my sweet. |
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"Nothing to forgive and everything to thank for. If ever you use two hyphens, make sure to direct me to the post; I haven't had the tremors in some time.
It would be my pleasure - if pleasure is the word - to awake your inner woman.
Good try. They are less hyphen and more the dashes of parenthesis... oops - there I go with ellipsissing all unnecessarily.
God loves a trier - double dashes can be used a substitute for parentheses…"
You demonstrate a misunderstanding of the differences between and the uses of hyphens and dashes.
Someone will come along in a second to holler something like , 'Does it fucking matter?' and I don't want to disallow them that pleasure.
Back to 'unwanted messages' |
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"Nothing to forgive and everything to thank for. If ever you use two hyphens, make sure to direct me to the post; I haven't had the tremors in some time.
It would be my pleasure - if pleasure is the word - to awake your inner woman.
Good try. They are less hyphen and more the dashes of parenthesis... oops - there I go with ellipsissing all unnecessarily.
God loves a trier - double dashes can be used a substitute for parentheses…
You demonstrate a misunderstanding of the differences between and the uses of hyphens and dashes.
Someone will come along in a second to holler something like , 'Does it fucking matter?' and I don't want to disallow them that pleasure.
Back to 'unwanted messages'"
It always matters…and we’re always learning.
This forum - chock full of love, hate, venom and desire - is a haven for some and a hell for others.
I regard that as a fine example of the double hyphen/dash.
Back we go…
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Someone will come along in a second to holler something like , 'Does it fucking matter?' and I don't want to disallow them that pleasure.
Back to 'unwanted messages'"
OF COURSE IT FUCKING MATTERS!
(Was that loud enough?) |
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Someone will come along in a second to holler something like , 'Does it fucking matter?' and I don't want to disallow them that pleasure.
Back to 'unwanted messages'
OF COURSE IT FUCKING MATTERS!
(Was that loud enough?)"
Heard you from the virus forum !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone will come along in a second to holler something like , 'Does it fucking matter?' and I don't want to disallow them that pleasure.
Back to 'unwanted messages'
OF COURSE IT FUCKING MATTERS!
(Was that loud enough?)
Heard you from the virus forum ! "
I must go in there sometime, but fear I might catch something (rabbits perhaps?) |
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"
Someone will come along in a second to holler something like , 'Does it fucking matter?' and I don't want to disallow them that pleasure.
Back to 'unwanted messages'
OF COURSE IT FUCKING MATTERS!
(Was that loud enough?)
Heard you from the virus forum !
I must go in there sometime, but fear I might catch something (rabbits *** perhaps?)"
*** sodding predictive text. Rabies ffs. |
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I keep men unblocked, as sometimes it's either led to an actual conversation or an opportunity to meet a woman. But if they consistently try to get it on with me I reach for the block button |
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