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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Another thread was saying everyone wants a face pic first, and most especially women, seem to be in agreement.
I'm wondering would you, or have you, met without seeing a face pic first?
I have and I must admit some have been the best meets I've had, yet if I'd seen a face pic first I'd probably have said no. But I chatted with them first and got on and there was an attraction, so when it came to the meet the actual first thoughts on looks didn't matter.
I've also met a guy a few times and still no idea what he looks like (hooded meet) and the sex was amazing.
Interested to hear similar experiences x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock |
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I have numerous times and I enjoy the anticipation.
In fact I've gone on a completely blind meet with a woman who had a hidden profile. It's still the best meet I've had since I joined fab
Hey messages were so eloquent I knew I had to meet her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock "
Well I hadn't seen their cock either 
It was based on personality I guess x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have numerous times and I enjoy the anticipation.
In fact I've gone on a completely blind meet with a woman who had a hidden profile. It's still the best meet I've had since I joined fab
Hey messages were so eloquent I knew I had to meet her. "
Love this, I think you can have a connection without know what someone looks like x |
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"No, my time is precious and I'm not wasting it on someone I've zero attraction to.
Mrs
I was attracted but in other ways, looks were unknown x"
Doesn't work like that for me I need the full lot, physical and mental attraction.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock
Well I hadn't seen their cock either
It was based on personality I guess x"
I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum  unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO  to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since  |
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By *XZRMan
over a year ago
Highland |
Fuuuuck that. Reversing out of the meet like a double decker hitting the tour de France peleton. Agreed you need to hit it off personality wise but still require a standard of face. Nice eyes and smiles are my weakness after all. |
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"No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock
Well I hadn't seen their cock either
It was based on personality I guess x
I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since "
"Please post a video of you showering in the last 12hrs" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have been on meets without knowing who I am meeting with the ex wife. There were occasions when participants were bystanders just passing through. 
I personally would not meet anyone without a face pic. Blackheads are hardly attractive. |
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Yes I do this often. I used to have pictures but someone started using them so deleted them. It seems to work for me and have met some lovely people from here. I do show my cock on cam and have verifies of what do in meets. I am perhaps lucky and sometimes it takes many months to meet. I understand those who need pictures before meets. |
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I've never asked for a face pic.
I've met people without needing one, because I found them interesting and attractive enough that the face was pretty irrelevant, though definitely didn't turn out to be an unattractive one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock
Well I hadn't seen their cock either
It was based on personality I guess x
I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since "
Haha, but you can't smell them on a pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock
Well I hadn't seen their cock either
It was based on personality I guess x
I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since
Haha, but you can't smell them on a pic "
Can't know their personality properly online either though? |
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We do chatter with people first and see if there is a connection and send face pics if it appears to feel right so I doubt we would meet with it however I get what you are saying as personality is a lot of the experience  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock
Well I hadn't seen their cock either
It was based on personality I guess x
I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since
Haha, but you can't smell them on a pic
Can't know their personality properly online either though? "
Nope thata true. Often can't in person either tho x |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Nope, but I've chatted with some without any pictures until later and it did definitely surprise me in a positive way. Few still remain as friends off the site and few have left the site and found a relationship sadly didn't get the opportunity before hand but extremely happy that they've found happiness... |
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Nope I wouldn't. Anonymous sex doesn't do it for me. I wouldn't participate in that in a club or other scenario either. Being desired and desiring the person I'm being intimate with is such a turn on to me |
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"A guy was saying in a thread the other day that you can't tell if a woman is beautiful unless you've seen her face. Lots agreed with him"
I agree with that. You can find someone attractive without them being classically beautiful. And I know some beautiful people who won't be winning any actual beauty contests. |
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I'm happy to meet soically without a face photo and it's rare I ask for one while chatting.
I have a memory for faces like a sieve though so they don't matter that much to me.
But for anything more it has to be a face that I want to kiss and look at
Marc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m currently talking to someone who has never seen my face or even requested a photo. I know what he looks like as he displays his photo on his profile. Not arranged to meet at this stage. He says he’s attracted to personality and has never been disappointed by someone he has met blindly yet. I do wonder if it’s a case of every hole is a goal though..or should I believe it? |
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Nope we wouldn't ,
Looks aren't everything,but there does have to be an attraction for us & without pics ,we wouldn't know if that was there .
Its the face I have to like over anything else too.
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"Nope I wouldn't. Anonymous sex doesn't do it for me. I wouldn't participate in that in a club or other scenario either. Being desired and desiring the person I'm being intimate with is such a turn on to me "
That's a big thing for me too.
Marc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How are you supposed to recognise them when you meet? You might end up having coffee with some random. "
Well that could be fun lol
I've met on car meet, arranged a place and both known each others cars, pretty hard to get mixed up.
Guy I met hooded I went to hotel, gsve him room number and let him in. It was arranged by a mutual friend who we both fully trusted x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A guy was saying in a thread the other day that you can't tell if a woman is beautiful unless you've seen her face. Lots agreed with him"
On a share a face pic thread, a guy told me he was surprised to see my face was beautiful like my body because that’s a massive fear, and happens loss here. Nice body, not so nice face. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
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In the days of the personals, with Bargain Pages yes.
I met the hubby who brought his video camera with him. Asked me if I liked his wife and then gave me his address and I drove over for, as it turned out. A no touching evening.
Though his wife could sit on my lap naked, while he took some pics. |
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I don't meet very often and haven't actually met anyone new in over 3 years but when I was a facepic was never important.
I chat for weeks before meeting socially and as I just posted in the other thread, I don't expect to have sex with everyone I meet.
In fact most of my social meets I have known beforehand that it would be a coffee and a chat and nothing more so how that person looks is irrelevant.
By the time I meet someone I have been chatting long enough to know they are someone I would enjoy spending an hour or so taking to face to face.
I have met without exchanging facepics but again I only ever meet socially first time so I only need to know what they look like so I can pick them out in a crowd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there has been a significant exchange of messages prior to a meet then I don't always ask/insist on a face pic first.
If it's spontaneous then I will insist. Havn't always in the past but certainly do now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there has been a significant exchange of messages prior to a meet then I don't always ask/insist on a face pic first.
If it's spontaneous then I will insist. Havn't always in the past but certainly do now."
Agree with every word you said mate. Have to be chatting for a good while first |
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We don’t share face pics. There are some that will only meet.
We meet people at socials (either organised events of in the lobby of a hotel).
Will also add that meeting in person socially doesn’t mean that we are definitely fucking. We and the other parties can say no at any point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never meet without seeing on and I'm happy to send one myself
If I message someone first, male or female, i will always attach a few onto my message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not, I could never meet anyone without first seeing their picture, call me shallow but I wouldn't even entertain it, I need to at least know I am attracted to the person before wasting both our times.
Danish x |
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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago
Chipping Norton |
I'd definitely have answered no, like so many, but I did accidentally have a meet without swapping face pics and hugely enjoyed it. There was nothing deliberate about it; we got chatting and met without thinking about it. Only occurred to me a day before that we'd not swapped photos. At that stage it was a fun prospect, turning up on the basis of having enjoyed chatting to someone, and since the date was a social I think we both thought we didn't give a damn if we didn't fancy each other. As it happened, we did.
Having done it once & enjoyed it (as perhaps people occasionally say in other circumstances), I'd be entirely happy to do it again. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
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We had pics copied and distributed so for privacy reasons we don’t like to share face pics. We’ve found you can’t trust face pics too. Some are 20 years old, some are touched up.
We’ve met quite a few people with no face pics. It’s just a social. We chat like human beings with a common interest. We go away and if everyone was fine then arrange a play meet for a later date. Even if we exchanged pics the first date would only be a social anyway. Blind dates are fun. |
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We do not send face pics. We only meet at Chams without pre arranging ( unless you're a favourite ) or on hols in PDI. We then keep in touch with people on the site if things progress. We have made many long term " friends " doing it our way so it works for us. |
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Not a chance. I've met a few even with face pics.
Pleasant meets everyone of them but I would say a few of them should have been done under the Trade Description Act.
Going in blind and you are either going to be massively surprised either way.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We had pics copied and distributed so for privacy reasons we don’t like to share face pics. We’ve found you can’t trust face pics too. Some are 20 years old, some are touched up.
We’ve met quite a few people with no face pics. It’s just a social. We chat like human beings with a common interest. We go away and if everyone was fine then arrange a play meet for a later date. Even if we exchanged pics the first date would only be a social anyway. Blind dates are fun. "
This is true, I've had face pics sent then when met they looked nothing like pic! And I did up and leave haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We dont give out face pics we were on melanies a few years back we did send face pics. then to our horror we found our pics on another site if your going to send face just be careful. Karen |
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