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Everyone want face pic in first message while they don't have face pic in their profile.
I know female and couple have far more options and messages then single guys.
But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.? |
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I don't include mine on public pics because despite not having them public, we still get guys trying to identify me from my naked arse and tits from behind. Weymouth is a small town and I don't need to encourage creeps!
We send face photos back straight away if we ask for them, if not before x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
People can ask for what they want.
It’s not an unreasonable request to want to be attracted to a person before deciding to carry on conversation.
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This is the way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely send fave pics, and like one from who I am chatting to first before I send mine. Had quite a few meets where not had a face pic first, also some when I still don't know what guy who fucked me look like, just know he was good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."
Talking for a bit then see a pic and theres no attraction just wastes time.. |
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"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."
But why talk for a bit, share personal information, get hopes up, then share photos.......no attraction, all wasted time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, Actually few times I sent mine and didn't get one in return and just ignored after reading the message."
It’s simple.
They decided they weren’t attracted to you. End of conversation.
How would a face pic from them change that? |
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"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."
Women have oodles of choice. If you want ant chance of success, you have to "play the game".
If your message and profile don't spark interest, you won't get a reply.
Profiles with no avatar photo or that are cock focused, are very often ignored.
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I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.
I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.
Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.
At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice. |
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"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.
I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.
Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.
At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice."
You have no experience of a single woman's inbox. A polite no often leads to.... why not ...give me a chance.....let's just have a drink .....multiply that by ten/twenty a day at least......then come the insults....I didn't really want to meet you anyway you fat cow....... |
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"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.
I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.
Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.
At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice."
I think you need to read the FAQs. No response = no interest. It also reduces the likelihood of nasty responses to the uninterested woman.
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"I rarely come across this, to be honest.
Why does no one want my face pic??
Yours is pasted on our bedroom ceiling so I have something to stare at as I drift off to sleep "
*Insert Crimewatch "don't have nightmares" gif*
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"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.
I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.
Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.
At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice.
You have no experience of a single woman's inbox. A polite no often leads to.... why not ...give me a chance.....let's just have a drink .....multiply that by ten/twenty a day at least......then come the insults....I didn't really want to meet you anyway you fat cow......."
I can understand the tsunami of messages, but when someone says no to me, I usually reply with " it's ok, I can understand and happy fabbing x" |
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"I rarely come across this, to be honest.
Why does no one want my face pic??
Yours is pasted on our bedroom ceiling so I have something to stare at as I drift off to sleep
*Insert Crimewatch "don't have nightmares" gif*
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I am a masochist  |
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To be fair, I need to find someone attractive before any play can occur, so as to NOT waste time I ask for one. If that person is not my cup of tea, then I polity tell them no thanks.
As I would someone to say to me who didn't fancy me.
I cant just have sex with anyone it would be dryer than the Sahara down there!  |
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"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.
I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.
Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.
At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice.
You have no experience of a single woman's inbox. A polite no often leads to.... why not ...give me a chance.....let's just have a drink .....multiply that by ten/twenty a day at least......then come the insults....I didn't really want to meet you anyway you fat cow.......
I can understand the tsunami of messages, but when someone says no to me, I usually reply with " it's ok, I can understand and happy fabbing x""
But most don't, most do not take a polite no for an answer, then sometimes the insults follow. |
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"But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.?"
No, it's not too much to ask. People can ask for whatever they want. You don't have to comply.
I personally think there's a difference between sending a face pic in a msg and having one on your public profile. |
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"Everyone want face pic in first message while they don't have face pic in their profile.
I know female and couple have far more options and messages then single guys.
But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.?"
Saves a lot of back and forth with someone you don't feel sexually attracted to. |
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I totally get it..it says in my profile if I don't respond please take it as a thanks but no...if I'm expected to respond to everyone I'd be on here all day...plus I think even a no thanks response gives a sense of hope...I've had non responses...do I cry and get shitty...no I move on like a proper adult.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some need to be discreet, personally if we can talk and be genuine il take a face picture there and then then bit outside lives and professions can be a factor |
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There are thousands of people here. Use preferences that don't match yours to filter people out.
They have likely learned from their experience here, how to improve things and make fab work better for them OP - you can guide people too  |
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If I send a first message to a well verified profile, I send a face pic.
If a profile messaged me first, I expect the same.
Whole site is pointless for me without face pics so pointless wasting time . |
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"No one wants a face pic. They just want to make sure they don't already know you.  "
Um, I want a face pic. Alice is at least as interested in the cock pics, but I (Jack) need to see the face to know if I want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one wants a face pic. They just want to make sure they don't already know you.
Um, I want a face pic. Alice is at least as interested in the cock pics, but I (Jack) need to see the face to know if I want to meet."
This is also true at the time. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone want face pic in first message while they don't have face pic in their profile.
I know female and couple have far more options and messages then single guys.
But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.?"
personally who ever is initiating the conversation should be sending the face picture (our opinion), no offence but wheres the point in chatting for ages if theres no attraction! we tend to have upto date face pictures in private to send to whoever we like (nothing worse than an old picture as people can change alot!) |
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"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?
Frank"
because some people wont fuck anything with a pulse perhaps? |
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"I totally get it..it says in my profile if I don't respond please take it as a thanks but no...if I'm expected to respond to everyone I'd be on here all day...plus I think even a no thanks response gives a sense of hope...I've had non responses...do I cry and get shitty...no I move on like a proper adult.."
This, people of all types on fab face rejection! Just because there are chaps who would fuck us regardless of attraction, doesn't mean we have it easy on here |
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It's completely different asking for a face pic privately and posting one as a public photo.
If your not happy sending one then that profile just isn't for you.
Personally I'd like to swap face pics quickly, time is precious & if there's no attraction I don't want to spend ages making conversation to then say no thanks.
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"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.
I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.
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OP so you arranged a meet without exchanging face pics ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some have jobs in private sector so don't want their pictures everywhere..
Plus I think attraction has to be there...if the chat continues then you can always swap photos etc |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?
Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?
Really?
This isn't a 'woman/couple' issue. It's the fact that some men will happily look to arrange a complete blind date, message for a while, set up a meet, and when the day comes and they finally get sent a photo they ghost the sender because they don't find them attractive.
Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier. |
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"Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?
Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?
Really?
This isn't a 'woman/couple' issue. It's the fact that some men will happily look to arrange a complete blind date, message for a while, set up a meet, and when the day comes and they finally get sent a photo they ghost the sender because they don't find them attractive.
Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier. "
Making life easy, wtf Obi, it's fab |
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"Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?
Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?
Really?
This isn't a 'woman/couple' issue. It's the fact that some men will happily look to arrange a complete blind date, message for a while, set up a meet, and when the day comes and they finally get sent a photo they ghost the sender because they don't find them attractive.
Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier. "
Because any holes a goal right, regardless of whether they have a face like a smashed up kebab.
Mrs |
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"Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?
Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?
Really?
This isn't a 'woman/couple' issue. It's the fact that some men will happily look to arrange a complete blind date, message for a while, set up a meet, and when the day comes and they finally get sent a photo they ghost the sender because they don't find them attractive.
Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier.
Because any holes a goal right, regardless of whether they have a face like a smashed up kebab.
Mrs "
*drools*
Kebabs! Breakfast! Hungry! |
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On the profile and available to anyone is different to sending one in a private message.
If you're approaching women and couples they already have a hundred faceless options with only dick pics on show, some people are into that, most will want to know if they find the rest of the person attractive. |
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"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?
Frank"
Thank you.
The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.
They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.
90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.
What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic. |
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"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?
Frank
Thank you.
The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.
They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.
90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.
What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic."
I don’t owe you a reply because you’ve sent a face pic.
That’s a disgusting sense of entitlement.
You send face pics cos you want to up your chances of people being interested and most on here will only meet with mutual attraction.
If I’m not attracted I don’t owe you a reply. |
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"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?
Frank
Thank you.
The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.
They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.
90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.
What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic."
Do some people really think if you have dick pics then a face pic isn't required? Do some people not recognise sarcasm?
People ask for a face pic to see if they find you attractive. If they don't most will not reply or block you. Would you prefer to be told you're not found attractive so you can then ask why not and for them to say they think you're an ugly fucker?
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"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?
Frank
Thank you.
The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.
They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.
90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.
What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic."
I am howling at the obliviousness to sarcasm there 
OP, if you don't want to send a face pic, don't. Just move on to a more compatible profile. |
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Just don't message those who ask for a face pic in a first message if you're not comfortable to do so.
People are entitled to ask for a face pic ,but you don't have to comply.
People who get loads of mail use it as a filter though,to save them time.
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I don't ask for a face pic when I am meeting. But men still send them and expect one in return. If I want to chat to someone I will show my face when I want to, not when they want me to. I accept some men may no longer want to chat. Men could make the same call. |
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Maybe I just use this site differently to a lot of people but generally I don't share a facepic unless I have already arranged to meet someone and it's only so we will recognise each other in the coffee shop.
I don't expect to have sex with everyone I chat to and I don't expect to have sex with everyone I meet so physical attraction isn't a priority.
I have often met people socially while knowing in advance that it was never going to go beyond a coffee but by that stage I had built up a rapport and was content to meet just as friends.
As I've said many times on here before, my facepic and personal details have been shared by other people with their own agenda so I am even less inclined to swap pics with anyone.
If they have an issue with that it doesn't bother me and they are free to chat to those who are willing to exchange them but it has never really affected my fab journey. |
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"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."
I would always send a face photo with a first message. If someone turns you down only after you send a face photo... you know its how you look....
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