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Today both of us had to go somewhere new for work which includes a hotel stay tonight. We put a status up for a meet, out of 457 views, over 100 messages all wanting to meet and guess what? 99% went either offline or had a last minute excuse lol what is the point in messaging, chatting and arranging anything? It’s so laughable lol |
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Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too. |
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"Today both of us had to go somewhere new for work which includes a hotel stay tonight. We put a status up for a meet, out of 457 views, over 100 messages all wanting to meet and guess what? 99% went either offline or had a last minute excuse lol what is the point in messaging, chatting and arranging anything? It’s so laughable lol "
That would be incredibly annoying. Sorry it happened. Hope you can still have some fun tonight. My fingers are crossed for you both xx |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too. "
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in |
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"99% out 457 people went offline or made their excuses. That still leaves you with over 4½ genuine people to choose from. That's winning in my book."
Positivity! |
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"You could have posted your meet request a little further in advance "
Posting a meet in advance is pointless. The same thing happens…..
“Yeah Thursday at 8 is perfect, see you then”
Then don’t come online all day Thursdays lol. So you’re back to looking for now. |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in "
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
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"99% out 457 people went offline or made their excuses. That still leaves you with over 4½ genuine people to choose from. That's winning in my book.
Positivity! "
All about the good vibes me  |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
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It didn't read underhand to me. It read as if they were interested in meeting and then had a change of mind when they read the Do's n Don'ts properly. |
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"99% out 457 people went offline or made their excuses. That still leaves you with over 4½ genuine people to choose from. That's winning in my book."
Yep ...... 5 people if we round up to the nearest hole ......  |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
It didn't read underhand to me. It read as if they were interested in meeting and then had a change of mind when they read the Do's n Don'ts properly. "
I agree with this - profile is very specific shall we say |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
It didn't read underhand to me. It read as if they were interested in meeting and then had a change of mind when they read the Do's n Don'ts properly. "
That wasn’t how it went…messaging, sorting out do’s and font’s, then arranging… we have no problem at all with guys saying we are not for them when we have explained everything, it’s when the conversation gets past all that and things are agreed, orrrr….they message then go offline instantly lol |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
It didn't read underhand to me. It read as if they were interested in meeting and then had a change of mind when they read the Do's n Don'ts properly.
I agree with this - profile is very specific shall we say "
It’s specific for a reason…we have been on here years and learned a lot along the way, so everything is on the profile for all to see and know exactly what we do and don’t want. |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
It didn't read underhand to me. It read as if they were interested in meeting and then had a change of mind when they read the Do's n Don'ts properly.
I agree with this - profile is very specific shall we say
It’s specific for a reason…we have been on here years and learned a lot along the way, so everything is on the profile for all to see and know exactly what we do and don’t want. "
Ok - hopefully your luck will change |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
It didn't read underhand to me. It read as if they were interested in meeting and then had a change of mind when they read the Do's n Don'ts properly.
I agree with this - profile is very specific shall we say
It’s specific for a reason…we have been on here years and learned a lot along the way, so everything is on the profile for all to see and know exactly what we do and don’t want.
Ok - hopefully your luck will change "
I think you have misunderstood lol we don’t have any problems getting meets, we don’t need our luck to change, this post was just an experience today, we did get a couple of meets so all is not lost lol |
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"Fantasy chat vs the reality of meeting for real.
They chatted, wanked, cum, fucked off.
The tragic case of the wannabes.
Maybe they were suckered in by the prospect of meeting you both, then bolted when realising they weren’t getting Mrs too.
Being suckered in? our profile explains everything perfectly, maybe “IF” that was the case then they should learn to read, but I can assure you we do not sucker anyone in
My apologies, poor choice of words. I wasn’t suggesting anything untoward or underhanded.
It didn't read underhand to me. It read as if they were interested in meeting and then had a change of mind when they read the Do's n Don'ts properly.
I agree with this - profile is very specific shall we say
It’s specific for a reason…we have been on here years and learned a lot along the way, so everything is on the profile for all to see and know exactly what we do and don’t want.
Ok - hopefully your luck will change
I think you have misunderstood lol we don’t have any problems getting meets, we don’t need our luck to change, this post was just an experience today, we did get a couple of meets so all is not lost lol "
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"Pre planing "
You can’t preplan something when you don’t know times, and no point arranging a date, time, second, rundown because 9/10 that meet is never going to happen due to their fish dying, sister turning up, car breaking down, got called into work, forgot etc |
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"Today both of us had to go somewhere new for work which includes a hotel stay tonight. We put a status up for a meet, out of 457 views, over 100 messages all wanting to meet and guess what? 99% went either offline or had a last minute excuse lol what is the point in messaging, chatting and arranging anything? It’s so laughable lol "
That is fab for you. It not nice or good respect.
Maybe realised that had to babysit kids as wife was at knitting club or at cinema with bf/gf etc  |
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"Surely you need to post it weeks in advance and work out who the flakes are over several days. That gives time for chat, video, reassurance. "
That is not how we do meets, we have learned from that, if we are free then we put a status up, see who is free at that time, works best for us |
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I think it's always best for both parties to strike while the iron is hot if you can.
It's great to build up a contacts list, but for hotel meets like this instead of weeks of notice and chat, try and look either the day before or the very same day - ie for people you know are hot and ready at the time.
They have the heat, they have the time.
You may not get to know them that well - but do you need to? A little bit of chat can go a long way when you're both real horny. If they are already contacts it's as good as it gets on Fab I'd say.
There probably are Fabbers who are pretty much up for it all of the time, but honestly I don't think that many of us are, even some really dedicated swingers. And so much can happen in life anyway. So for best results be prepared to go strange if you need to and strike hot.
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"Surely you need to post it weeks in advance and work out who the flakes are over several days. That gives time for chat, video, reassurance.
That is not how we do meets, we have learned from that, if we are free then we put a status up, see who is free at that time, works best for us
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The closer to the time the better, more risky maybe, but definitely the better imo. pt |
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"I think it's always best for both parties to strike while the iron is hot if you can.
It's great to build up a contacts list, but for hotel meets like this instead of weeks of notice and chat, try and look either the day before or the very same day - ie for people you know are hot and ready at the time.
They have the heat, they have the time.
You may not get to know them that well - but do you need to? A little bit of chat can go a long way when you're both real horny. If they are already contacts it's as good as it gets on Fab I'd say.
There probably are Fabbers who are pretty much up for it all of the time, but honestly I don't think that many of us are, even some really dedicated swingers. And so much can happen in life anyway. So for best results be prepared to go strange if you need to and strike hot.
pt"
We have had the majority of our meets by “meet now” meets |
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"Today both of us had to go somewhere new for work which includes a hotel stay tonight. We put a status up for a meet, out of 457 views, over 100 messages all wanting to meet and guess what? 99% went either offline or had a last minute excuse lol what is the point in messaging, chatting and arranging anything? It’s so laughable lol "
I really feel for you.
This happens every time!
I wish there was some sort of site response but it seems the only thing we can do is block the profiles that made the promises, then the excuses!
It infuriates me… I have changed the whole way I approach the site because of it.
I guess we all need to adjust in this new internet world.
Mind I have met some great guys and will always make the effort for those… it is finding the good ones that leaves you drained, coz there are soooo many bad ones  |
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"I think it's always best for both parties to strike while the iron is hot if you can.
It's great to build up a contacts list, but for hotel meets like this instead of weeks of notice and chat, try and look either the day before or the very same day - ie for people you know are hot and ready at the time.
They have the heat, they have the time.
You may not get to know them that well - but do you need to? A little bit of chat can go a long way when you're both real horny. If they are already contacts it's as good as it gets on Fab I'd say.
There probably are Fabbers who are pretty much up for it all of the time, but honestly I don't think that many of us are, even some really dedicated swingers. And so much can happen in life anyway. So for best results be prepared to go strange if you need to and strike hot.
pt
We have had the majority of our meets by “meet now” meets
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-Seeing now how specific your profile is (I hadn't read it sorry), maybe the other way is a good idea too? Use Meet now as a fall back? I dunno.
A lot of people won't read your profile properly. I guess you try and sort this out, but I;m, sure you agree its amazing what people can be like when what you are looking for is even a little bit complicated. I spend a huge amount of time on Fab just contact building. If you are doing this with another town (I don't that much), you'd browse a Search around that town and contact people.
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