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My wife says I dont need sex anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife says I dont need sex any more because I am over 50 does anyone think she is right . 
Fuck no... carry on while you enjoy till you are unable I really need some fun  "
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"My wife says I dont need sex any more because I am over 50 does anyone think she is right . "
It sounds like she doesn't want it!
When married and houng through a prolonged dry spell, I asked my wife if sex was important in our relationship. She said 'no', so I said, 'well surely it doesn't matter if I get it somewhere else then?' Her reply was ' well now that you put it like that, I suppose that it is important', so I then said 'why don't we have sex more often then?' She took me to the bedroom and we shagged intensely, (but it didn't last). |
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Perhaps she's going through the change and needs some support and encouragement to feel sexy.
Have you tried flowers and being romantic make her feel special, explain that you are there to support her but you still have need's.
Or
Cheat on her oh wait you're already on that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife says I dont need sex any more because I am over 50 does anyone think she is right . "
Why don't you dump her? What use is a woman if she won't fuck you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not. But you need to have an honest conversation with her. If she doesn't want sex ever again then that's fine, but she can't automatically expect that you're happy to do the same. That's selfish and unfair. You'll need to find a compromise. |
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By *y the cCouple
over a year ago
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First question...
Why do other peoples opinion on your married sex life matter?
for what its worth, SC and I have been together for 18 years and in that time our sex life has had it quiet periods. We are great communicators and after discussing our issues we both understand the others point of view and have a start point on how we can both try and make the situation better, cheating is never the answer!
if you value your marriage, take some time and have a chat and listen to each other. I would also suggest showing her your account on here, you never know where it could lead.
good luck and I hope it works out for both of you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would also suggest showing her your account on here, you never know where it could lead."
Chances are, divorce.
OP, you need to have an open and frank discussion with your wife. If she has no further interest in sex, try and establish why, and what you can both do to resolve it. There can be many issues at play.
It’s possible that it’s no longer something that she wants anymore. Would she be okay with you getting it elsewhere? Would she expect you to go without? If you’re not happy to go without, are you happy to end the marriage? If caught cheating, that’s the likely outcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. She’s right.
The thought of someone over 50 having sex instead of just enjoying retirement repulses me.
I need a toy boy to keep my joints supple."
A toy boy you say  |
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